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Bess George Mitchell
November 18, 2022
Years later I have learned of the passing of Tom Eblen, a mentor and classmate at Missouri´s School of Journalism in the late 50´s. Even back then I knew Tom would accomplish great things for humanity through his profound love of the printed word. It was an honor and privilege to have known him.
Bess (George) Mitchell, Austin, TX - BJ, 1959.
Kathy Erbacher
July 2, 2019
Tom Eblen gave me my start in journalism. He hired me in the summer of 1970 after I received an English education degree from the University of Kansas-Lawrence. My senior year & college experience ended abruptly after Kent State. Things were tense on campus. The student union had been torched & the university feared further violence. The chancellor called an all-university convocation of faculty, staff & students to decide whether to shut down school early, skip finals & give students the grades they had earned up to that date. We met in the stadium and voted to take our grades and go home. We returned in June for the graduation ceremony. I had successfully completed student teaching earlier that semester but decided to pursue a writing career rather than teach. I contacted Tom after making that decision. We corresponded during the next few months. He gave me several writing assignments, then offered me a job at The Star. He said they could teach me Star & AP style and basic reporting on the job. I never regretted my decision. I dont think he regretted his. I worked as a reporter, then copy editor, for Tom. First when he was city editor, then managing editor. He was a terrific teacher, mentor & boss. I couldnt have had better training & experience. I went on to other jobs in magazines, newspapers & corporate work, and eventually returned to school to pursue my other passion, art. I was able to combine my journalism & art background as an arts writer & editor. Of all my jobs, I am proudest of working at the Kansas City Star and for Tom. We stayed in touch over the years after I moved to Colorado. I think teaching and working with journalism students at The University Daily Kansan was the perfect spot for Tom after he left daily newspapers. He has taught, mentored & inspired thousands. Perhaps his greatest gift was teaching people life skills. Honesty, fairness, integrity, courage, love of family, true friendship, and courage. He faced his own illnesses with courage and his trademark humor, aided by Jeannie, Courtney & Matt. KUs named red pen journalism scholarship is a great honor and will help future journalists learn their craft. At their best, journalists embody great humanity. Tom was a great journalist, teacher, husband, father, friend and human being. I feel privileged to have known him and am confident that his good influence will live on.
Greg Richards
March 22, 2018
I'm sorry to be reading of this months after the fact. Tom was an amazingly accomplished journalist and academic advisor, yet also a very decent and humble man. I studied Advanced Reporting under Tom at KU in 1979. He was a tough teacher but he was fully dedicated to building solid journalists. One day I came to class at what was then called Flint Hall and Tom dramatically paced the room. He said, today we were going to read a "perfect example of a three-paragraph news feature lead," and one of the few occasions that a "delayed lead" really worked. You can imagine I turned beet red as he slowly began to read, beat-for-beat, the news feature assignment I'd handed in to him the day before. Praise from him was something you had to earn and I was almost overcome. He didn't hold back. I could barely look him in the face for a week! As you can imagine this was a highlight of my academic year. I will never forget Tom and his contributions not only to journalism but to my own schooling. Peace and good memories to Jeannie and family.
Rita Lindsey
July 12, 2017
Jeanne and family, Tom was a favorite patient of mine. I was always happy to see him, and you! Please know I am thinking about you at this sad time. And, I will remember Tom a funny, intelligent man, who dealt with his illness with dignity and a sense of humor.
Sincerely,
Rita Lindsey
Rebecca Morrison
July 12, 2017
A mutual friend, the late Rob Eisele, considered Tom a mentor and role model; thus, I write and express condolences on his behalf. Peace and comfort to you all.
Kathy Erbacher
July 9, 2017
A beautiful tribute to a humble man. Jeannie, Courtney & the family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Thomas Koetting
July 9, 2017
Getting to know Tom, guest lecturing in his classes and sharing meals with him and Jeannie were a highlight of my life in Kansas. My condolences to the family, and my appreciation for getting to enjoy Tom's humor, curiosity, integrity and talent.
Lisa Cosmillo
July 9, 2017
It is with great sadness that I read this, but also great joy. What a lovely tribute to one of the best people I have ever known. So grateful for the opportunity to have had Tom in my life. My condolences to all who's lives have been touched by this great man.
July 8, 2017
Jeanne,
My thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through this difficult time. Tom was a very accomplished and well respected man. I'm sure you will miss your life partner.
Jane Buxton
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