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Tom Eblen

1936 - 2017

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Tom Eblen Obituary

Tom Eblen, longtime journalist, mentor and educator, died June 10, 2017, at Brighton Gardens in Prairie Village, Kan., after a long illness. He was 80. A celebration of Tom's life will be held from 1 to 4 p.m. Sunday, Aug. 6, 2017, at Union Station's Sprint Festival Plaza, 30 W. Pershing Road, Kansas City, Mo.

His career spanned six decades, including news leadership roles at The Kansas City Star and Fort Scott (Kan.) Tribune before joining the University Daily Kansan as general manager and news adviser to hundreds of students. He focused on community journalism in work with the Kansas Press Association member newspapers. George Thomas Eblen was born Nov. 1, 1936, to George Clarence and Mary Irene (McLain) Eblen in St. Joseph, Mo., where he graduated in 1954 from Central High School. He was an Eagle Scout. Experience and awards as a high school newspaper photographer spurred an interest in journalism, and he earned a bachelor's degree in journalism in 1958 from the University of Missouri. He was a member of Delta Upsilon fraternity, president of MU's Sigma Delta Chi journalism fraternity and a member of the Kappa Tau Alpha scholastic journalism honorary. During graduate school, he was sports editor of the Columbia Missourian.

His first job after leaving MU was as copy editor at the Amarillo (Texas) Daily News. In 1960, he joined The Kansas City Star as a reporter and copy editor, later becoming city editor and managing editor. While at The Star, he met reporting intern Jeannie Kygar, of Hewins, Kan., whom he married June 5, 1966, in Cedar Vale, Kan. Tom left The Star in 1979 to become Gannett Foundation Professional-In-Residence at the KU's William Allen White School of Journalism. From 1980 until 1986, Tom was editor and general manager of the Fort Scott Tribune. He was a member and president of Fort Scott Rotary Club and active in promoting the community's history. He returned to KU in 1986 as general manager-news adviser at the University Daily Kansan, KU's student-run newspaper, and also taught advanced reporting and editing. During his 15-year tenure at KU, Tom produced cover-to-cover, red-pen critiques of each Kansan newspaper issue posted on the newsroom bulletin board. This formative practice was honored in 2015 with "The Tom Eblen In Honor of the Glorious Red Pen Scholarship", awarded annually to KU journalism students. He was program officer for U.S. Information Agency-sponsored programs for international journalists visiting KU. Tom and Jeannie also prepared barbecue dinners and chili feeds at their Lawrence home each semester for dozens of Kansan student staff members.

Tom retired from KU in 2001 and became editorial consultant for the Kansas Press Association. A KPA member since 1980, he was its president in 1988 and Kansas Newspaper Foundation president in 1989. He conducted dozens of on-site "tune-up" workshops for Kansas newspapers, in addition to seminar and speaking engagements across the United States. In 2004, he wrote Kansas Press Association: 140 years of Kansas newspapers and newspaper families. In 2007, Tom won the Clyde M. Reed Jr. Master Editor Award, recognizing a lifetime of achievement in Kansas journalism. He was named to the Kansas Newspaper Hall of Fame in 2010. Through the Kansas Humanities Council Speakers' Bureau, Tom gave journalism-related programs statewide. He became a trustee of the William Allen White Foundation at KU in 1987 and later its board chairman. He also was board member and past president of the Emporia, Kan., community partnership supporting Red Rocks, the legendary editor's home, a Kansas State Historic Site. Tom was a longtime member of Associated Press Managing Editors (APME), serving on its board of directors and editor of APME News; a Pulitzer Prize juror and Best of Gannett judge. A member of the Inland Daily Press Association from 1980 to 2001, he won the IDPA's national award for a 1983 editorial written for the Fort Scott Tribune.

Tom was a lifetime member of both MU and KU Alumni Associations, and had served on the board of directors for both. He was a member of the MU's Communications Committee from 1975 to 1991, was a Columbia Missourian board member from 1981 to 1986 and was winter commencement speaker for MU's School of Journalism in 1978. A member and past president of KU Alumni Association's Endacott Society for retirees, he also assisted with its Oral History Project and chaired its potluck dinner evening lecture programs.

He is survived by his wife Jeannie, of the home in Lawrence, Kan.; son Matt Eblen of Roeland Park, Kan.; daughter Courtney McCain, her husband Ken, and granddaughters Megan and Mary McCain, all of Overland Park, Kan. Tom's family suggests memorial donations to the Kansas Newspaper Foundation (c/o Kansas Press Association, 5473 SW Seventh St., Topeka, KS 66066); or to KU Endowment Association, P.O. Box 928, Lawrence, KS 66044-0928, designated for the Tom Eblen Red Pen Scholarship, KU Endacott Society or the William Allen White documentary film project.

In gratitude for his excellent care there and to support future research, Tom donated his body to the University of Kansas Medical Center and School of Medicine. Arrangemengts: Reflections 816-561-0101

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Jul. 8, 2017.

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Bess George Mitchell

November 18, 2022

Years later I have learned of the passing of Tom Eblen, a mentor and classmate at Missouri´s School of Journalism in the late 50´s. Even back then I knew Tom would accomplish great things for humanity through his profound love of the printed word. It was an honor and privilege to have known him.
Bess (George) Mitchell, Austin, TX - BJ, 1959.

Kathy Erbacher

July 2, 2019

Tom Eblen gave me my start in journalism. He hired me in the summer of 1970 after I received an English education degree from the University of Kansas-Lawrence. My senior year & college experience ended abruptly after Kent State. Things were tense on campus. The student union had been torched & the university feared further violence. The chancellor called an all-university convocation of faculty, staff & students to decide whether to shut down school early, skip finals & give students the grades they had earned up to that date. We met in the stadium and voted to take our grades and go home. We returned in June for the graduation ceremony. I had successfully completed student teaching earlier that semester but decided to pursue a writing career rather than teach. I contacted Tom after making that decision. We corresponded during the next few months. He gave me several writing assignments, then offered me a job at The Star. He said they could teach me Star & AP style and basic reporting on the job. I never regretted my decision. I dont think he regretted his. I worked as a reporter, then copy editor, for Tom. First when he was city editor, then managing editor. He was a terrific teacher, mentor & boss. I couldnt have had better training & experience. I went on to other jobs in magazines, newspapers & corporate work, and eventually returned to school to pursue my other passion, art. I was able to combine my journalism & art background as an arts writer & editor. Of all my jobs, I am proudest of working at the Kansas City Star and for Tom. We stayed in touch over the years after I moved to Colorado. I think teaching and working with journalism students at The University Daily Kansan was the perfect spot for Tom after he left daily newspapers. He has taught, mentored & inspired thousands. Perhaps his greatest gift was teaching people life skills. Honesty, fairness, integrity, courage, love of family, true friendship, and courage. He faced his own illnesses with courage and his trademark humor, aided by Jeannie, Courtney & Matt. KUs named red pen journalism scholarship is a great honor and will help future journalists learn their craft. At their best, journalists embody great humanity. Tom was a great journalist, teacher, husband, father, friend and human being. I feel privileged to have known him and am confident that his good influence will live on.

Greg Richards

March 22, 2018

I'm sorry to be reading of this months after the fact. Tom was an amazingly accomplished journalist and academic advisor, yet also a very decent and humble man. I studied Advanced Reporting under Tom at KU in 1979. He was a tough teacher but he was fully dedicated to building solid journalists. One day I came to class at what was then called Flint Hall and Tom dramatically paced the room. He said, today we were going to read a "perfect example of a three-paragraph news feature lead," and one of the few occasions that a "delayed lead" really worked. You can imagine I turned beet red as he slowly began to read, beat-for-beat, the news feature assignment I'd handed in to him the day before. Praise from him was something you had to earn and I was almost overcome. He didn't hold back. I could barely look him in the face for a week! As you can imagine this was a highlight of my academic year. I will never forget Tom and his contributions not only to journalism but to my own schooling. Peace and good memories to Jeannie and family.

Rita Lindsey

July 12, 2017

Jeanne and family, Tom was a favorite patient of mine. I was always happy to see him, and you! Please know I am thinking about you at this sad time. And, I will remember Tom a funny, intelligent man, who dealt with his illness with dignity and a sense of humor.
Sincerely,
Rita Lindsey

Rebecca Morrison

July 12, 2017

A mutual friend, the late Rob Eisele, considered Tom a mentor and role model; thus, I write and express condolences on his behalf. Peace and comfort to you all.

Kathy Erbacher

July 9, 2017

A beautiful tribute to a humble man. Jeannie, Courtney & the family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Thomas Koetting

July 9, 2017

Getting to know Tom, guest lecturing in his classes and sharing meals with him and Jeannie were a highlight of my life in Kansas. My condolences to the family, and my appreciation for getting to enjoy Tom's humor, curiosity, integrity and talent.

Lisa Cosmillo

July 9, 2017

It is with great sadness that I read this, but also great joy. What a lovely tribute to one of the best people I have ever known. So grateful for the opportunity to have had Tom in my life. My condolences to all who's lives have been touched by this great man.

July 8, 2017

Jeanne,
My thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through this difficult time. Tom was a very accomplished and well respected man. I'm sure you will miss your life partner.
Jane Buxton

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