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Stephen Lee Sapp

Stephen Lee Sapp died suddenly of natural causes on Friday, December 11, 2015. He was 55. Steve is survived by his beloved wife of 33 years, Theresa; their children, Benjamin Lee, 32, and Catherine Anne, 27. Steve was born in Oklahoma City to Bert (d. 2001) and Susan Sapp (d.2007), who relocated to Lawrence, Kansas and built a life there. Steve excelled in debate at both Lawrence High and Kansas University, so it was no surprise when he followed in his father's footsteps and pursued a law career. After graduating with honors from the University of Kansas School of Law, Steve initially thought he wanted to become a litigator. But it soon became apparent that he had a particular knack in the realm of corporate law. He was a master of the "art of the deal." Steve found solutions to his clients' needs that were comprehensive and innovative. While Steve was not defined by his law career, he was justifiably proud to be a lawyer. He began his career in Dallas at what is now known as Locke Lord and was a partner with Schiff Hardin at the time of his death. Steve grew tremendously in his Catholic faith over the past decade, contributing time and treasure to his parish, St. Patrick. He participated in the parish ACTS community and was an early supporter of Redemptoris Mater Diocesan Missionary Seminary. He was also a member of the Knights of Columbus, Council 799. Steve lived his life with gusto. He was an accomplished cook, a gracious host and an erudite conversationalist. An evening at the Sapps' is always a grand occasion. Steve and Terry also enjoyed traveling with friends. Steve was a voracious reader across a wide range of subjects, and was always equipped with just the right quote for the occasion: "How shall a sinner, who has formed his character upon unbelief, trusting sight and reason rather than conscience and Scripture, how shall he begin to repent? What must he do? Is it possible he can overcome himself, and make new his heart in the end of his days? It is possible." --Blessed John Henry Newman. Visitation will begin at 6pm Tuesday, December 15, followed by a Rosary at 7pm at St. Patrick Catholic Church, 9643 Ferndale Road, Dallas, TX 75238. Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11 am Wednesday, December 16 at St. Patrick, followed by reception at the Knights of Columbus Hall, 10110 Shoreview Road, Dallas 75238. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the "Knights of Columbus Council 799." or Redemptoris Mater Seminary.

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Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Dec. 16, 2015.

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John D'Annunzio

December 28, 2015

I am deeply sorry for your loss. Steve and I scheduled lunches to discuss financial planning but our conversations always focused on faith. He shared with me how C.S. Lewis made an impact on him as an adult and always had a good book recommendation. We are praying for you.

December 17, 2015

My sympathy in the loss of your dear husband.
Vicki Briley-White

Michael & Sheri Matthews

December 17, 2015

As clients of Steve's for many years, we are are so saddened to learn of his unexpected passing. Our hearts hurt to know the deep sadness his family and friends are experiencing now. May you feel God's warm embrace during this time of great loss.

Sending our deepest condolences,

Carol Kappelman

December 16, 2015

So so sad to hear of the sudden loss of a great person.Steve was a great high school classmate and a good college friend. We spent many hours going to political events and had many discussions, he taught me so much about politics. A super nice guy and so smart and funny. My deepest condolences to Terry and kids may God be with you now and forever.

Stephanie Coleman

December 15, 2015

Condolences to the family. I met Steve at LHS and remember him for his smile and playfulness.

Kathy Gutierrez

December 15, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with Steve, Theresa and family. I am so sorry to hear this news. I'm thankful for the fun conversation Steve, Theresa and I had a few years ago when we ran into each other at a local restaurant. Deepest condolences...

Randy Buzzi

December 14, 2015

I have known Steve since 4th grade, we got back in touch over social media several years after we graduated from LHS. I am thankful that we re-connected, and am saddened to hear of his passing. My prayers and condolences go out to his family and loved ones. Steve you were a great guy. Rest in piece my friend.

Jim Bussell

December 14, 2015

Knew Steve originally at West Junior HIgh in Lawrence from the Track Team; reconnected in recent years through Facebook and discovered many things in common, philosophical, spiritual, and politcal; sorry I was unable to get together in person with him. My most heartfelt condolensces to the family and other friends who share in my sorrow at this time.

Sheila Santee

December 13, 2015

Met Steve at Lawrence High School, class of '78. Such a nice guy and a great smile. Condolences to the family.

Chris & Kim Pollard

December 12, 2015

We have so many wonderful memories of our long friendship with Steve & Terry! Our thoughts & prayers are with you our dear, sweet Terry, Ben & Katie! We love you all! We will miss Steve terribly but one day we will meet again! Love you bruthaman!

Steven Douglas

December 12, 2015

I too knew Stephen from High School in Lawrence, many classes and memories together. What a great friend! We lost track over the years but like a good friends once you find each other again, you pick up right where you left off, without missing a beat. Stephen I thank you for your friendship and brotherly love, we are all going to miss you brother in-Christ. Prayers to the family.

Barb Wall

December 12, 2015

Steve was a wonderful friend. He will be missed by many. May God bless Terry, Ben and Katie. You are all in my prayers

December 12, 2015

My Dear Terry, my heart aches for you, Benjamin and Catherine Ann! What a shock!!! Only 55! Not fair! Oh honey, I love all of you! My prayers for you to get through! It's not easy! Come stay with me if you want a place to escape! 918-970-2318. All my love, Deanie

Christopher Peters

December 12, 2015

Steve and I were classmates from our first year at Deerfield Elementary through graduation from Lawrence High School. We lost track of each other afterwards, Steve going to law school and me going to medical school. We reconnected on Facebook a few years ago, and I greatly enjoyed our many interactions. We didn't always agree in our many political and economic discussions, but I always valued his input, and we always treated each other with respect and kindness. God bless, Steve!

Chris Wallace

December 12, 2015

You will be missed by many. Love ya brother!

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Memorial Events
for Stephen Sapp

Dec

15

Visitation

6:00 p.m.

St. Patrick Catholic Church

9643 Ferndale Road, Dallas, TX

Dec

15

Rosary

7:00 p.m.

St. Patrick Catholic Church

TX

Dec

16

Mass of Christian Burial

11:00 a.m.

St. Patrick

TX

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