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Thomas Kurata Obituary

Thomas Milton Kurata of Lawrence passed away July 30, 2023. He was born October 5, 1952, in Lawrence, the fourth child of Fred and Virginia (nee Mefford) Kurata. He earned a double B.A. in Spanish literature and East Asian Studies from Kansas University and a B.S. in chemical engineering from New Mexico University.

Tom led a vigorous and adventurous life, spanning continents and cultures. As a youngster after graduating from Lawrence High School, he found a job working in the Amazon River town of Letitia, Colombia, catching monkey, anacondas, ocelots, and other wildlife for an entrepreneur who sold the quarry to laboratories and zoos in the United States.

After leaving Letitia, Tom took a river boat down the Amazon where he was swindled out of his money. He got off the boat at the Brazilian city of Manaus where he found work teaching English at a bank and earned money to buy a plane ticket home. He also served a brief stint in the U.S. Navy. While working toward his chemical engineering degree, Tom drove a cement truck in the oilfields of west Texas and eastern New Mexico to service drilling rigs.

After completing his degrees, Tom worked for a variety of technology companies that produced software for oil refineries and other industrial processes. Equipped with his knowledge of Spanish and Asian languages and cultures, Tom sold his firms' software in Latin America, Japan, South Korea and China. Notably, he headed an office in Shanghai, China for three years for Oil Systems, Incorporated.

He was a member of the American Institute of Chemical Engineers and MENSA International IQ Society. He loved to talk about politics.

Tom struggled with multiple bouts of head and neck cancer and prostate cancer starting in 1996 which forced him to retire with disability in Lawrence in 2010.

Tom was an avid sportsman. A shelf of his home study is lined with trophies he won at local tennis tournaments. He was an excellent shot with a shotgun, bagging quail and pheasant on hunting trips with his father and brother Doug. When no longer able to play tennis, Tom took up bowling and frequently broke 200. His greatest love was fishing, especially fly fishing, which he pursued even while using a walker. He asked that his ashes be spread at his favorite fishing holes.

Tom is survived by his wife Sachi, his son Ken and his daughters Naomi, Hana and Blythe.

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Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Aug. 13, 2023.

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Suleimanu Kudan

August 7, 2024

One of my best friends in the universe Rest In Peace

Jane Watts

October 5, 2023

I learned of Tom´s passing belatedly from a mutual friend. Tom and I met during my undergrad years at KU and became good friends. Later, my years at KU Med overlapped with his years pursuing his engineering degree. Whenever he visited his mom, he made it a point to come to K.C. and take me to dinner. More than once, he talked me out of quitting medical school. Across decades and continents, despite ups and downs, we managed to maintain a friendship. When I was battling breast cancer, he regularly sent supportive texts and emails, and shared his own experiences. There has been no other friendship in my life that lasted over 45 years. I last shared dinner with him in person in 2012, but we remained in touch throughout his illness. I most admired his sharp intellect, his honesty, his unflagging courage in the face of his long illness, and his unfailing loyalty to his family and friends. I will most miss the way, no matter what crisis might be occurring in my life, he could always make me laugh. The world will be a much less colorful place without him, and I will miss him deeply. Today, on what would have been his 71st birthday, I say goodbye to my friend. God bless and keep you, Tom. My deepest condolences to his family.

Pok Chi Lau

August 18, 2023

My condolences to the Kurata family. Tom and I had many fishing trips to Milford, Clinton and Perry chasing White bass and wipers. He often brag about his 6 pounders inprivate lakes in South Kansas and bordering Oklahoma. He was very methodical and funny, generous and kind-hearted. I surely Miss him.

Gretchen Sudlow

August 17, 2023

Tom was a brilliant and unique person who came in and out of my life over the years. Always intriguing and full of curiosity and stories. I last saw him at my father's funeral in 2010. Knowing him enriched my life, and I will miss him. My condolences to his siblings, wife, and children.

Charles Laskowski

August 16, 2023

Tom's life read like the most imaginative adventure novel ever written! And he always had a smile on his face.
May God bless you, love you, and keep you always, Tom.

Jim Whitenight

August 14, 2023

My condolences for your loss. Tom was a good friend when we were young. He will be missed.

Ed Lane

August 14, 2023

I´m so terribly sorry to hear of the loss of Tom who so greatly enriched my undergraduate days at KU. The conversations could go on for hours - was Tom ever at a loss for stories or words? I had the pleasure of going to the house and meeting Mrs Kurata, but sadly, I never had the chance to meet Professor Kurata. After I got settled in teaching, I tried to reconnect, but I realize now that there were some years he was not overly available. Though it´s been just shy of fifty years since we spoke, the memories are vivid and joyful. My hopes are for you to find peace in the face of such a loss.

David L. Doud

August 5, 2023

I am so blessed I was able to have dinner with Tom about two years ago with my wife (Susan) near Needles California. As usual Tom proceeded to educate my wife on all the crazy events he and I did in high school. We discussed his living in China and Japan as well. Tom was a unique individual and he will surely be missed by myself and his classmates at LHS-69.

Barb Young Innes

August 3, 2023

Tom was in my LHS graduation class. I last saw him at a class reunion at Clinton Lake Picnic area. He was so friendly and welcoming! I remember him as that in HS, too. Hoping the love of friends and family will carry you and loved ones through your grief.

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