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Thomas Kellogg Obituary

Thomas Kellogg died at his home in Lawrence, Kansas on September 4, 2023, from complications of an upper respiratory infection, age 77. He was born in Wichita on August 17, 1946, to Robert Verne and Mary Martha Carson Kellogg.

Chiefly, he loved sharp pencils, dull books, and the old Dewey Decimal card catalogue room at the Watson Library. The underlying causes of his death were lung cancer and heart failure, but they were kind enough to kill him so slowly that he had an unprecedented opportunity to cover large sheets of paper with his characteristic interminable sentences.

Tom was once called the force behind the 1960's "Rumor Control" Information Center at the University of Kansas. While at KU, he was active in the Student Peace Union to protest the war in Vietnam. Yet, when called, he joined the Army and served as a medic working in wounded soldiers' transport hospitals in Germany.

After military service he worked in hospitals in Boston, San Francisco, and Lawrence, and later assisted at The Community Addictive Treatment Center (CAT House) in Topeka. However, for most of his life Tom was employed as a laborer, cleaning classrooms and libraries on the Hill and for 25 years as custodian at St.John's School.

Tom was a member of St. John's Catholic Church where he happily built the "new fire" for lighting the Paschal and congregations's candles at the beginning of the Easter Vigil. He was also a member of the Social Justice/Concerns Committee, and helped with the Mexican Fiesta. He sends his greeting to the Fiesta workers and promises to haunt the beer tent, but only once, if he can figure out how to get back here from There.

He was an active member of the First Santa Fe Trail Plainsmen Muzzleloaders Gun Club. They have, with great kindness, fulfilled his last wishes by finding new owners for his small collection of black powder guns. He was an enthusiastic participant in the Kansas Area Watershed (KAW) Councils' WalkAbout/TalkAbout meetings. KAW, an environmental group, will be holding a WalkAbout in his memory.

Tom was married twice: to Jane Masheter for 18 years and Nancy Hubble for 38 years. That both of these fine women survived him and were still his friends, he recognized as an undeserved miracle. He is also survived by his stepson, Jason Schwartz, who, when the necessity to recognize that the current of authority between them had reversed direction, handled that sometimes difficult passage with tact and kindness.

Other survivors are siblings Carrie McDonald, Nan Harper (Jerry), Paula Kellogg (Gordie Sailors), Barbara Gannon (Robert Sullivan), Gina Kellogg, and Jack Kellogg (Joy Darrah), sister-in-law Paula M. Kellogg, and numerous nieces and nephews. Tom will be remembered as our Pied Piper, and caregiver, writer, teacher, storyteller, trout fisherman, and woodsman. He was St. Thomas More, Dr. Johnson's Boswell, and Bartleby the Scrivener rolled into one. This good kind man will have a place in the hearts of all who knew him.

Tom's ashes will be buried near his deceased siblings, Verne and Amy Kellogg, in the Eldridge Cemetery in rural Sedgwick County on October 29. A celebration of his life will be held in the spring of 2024.

In his memory read one of his favorites: Marcus Aurelius, Lao Tzu, Red Pine, Simone Weil, Robert Lowell, Robinson Jeffers, Samuel Johnson, Robert Graves, Suzuki Roshi, Henry Adams, Henry James, or "The Wind in the Willows."

This obituary was written by Tom (70%) with family contributing the balance. His last message to us all: "Goodbye! Most grateful thanks for your splendid cooperation. Godspeed and Good Luck," and of course, his signature parting word: "Courage!"

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Oct. 25, 2023.

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LaNeece Jardon

October 26, 2023

My heart hurts, Tom was a regular with us. We traveled some miles together. I loved to listen to his stories as we rolled along I-70. He will forever be one of my favorite riders! Praying for you Nancey and all his loved ones.

Hendle Rumbaut

October 25, 2023

My condolences to Nancy Hubble, who was a fellow housemate at Stonehenge (1539 Tennessee, which burned down) of my husband Carlos and me in the early 1970s. May the Lord Jesus comfort you and give you His peace, which passes understanding.

Angela Romero-Keck

October 25, 2023

My dad worked with Tom at St.John´s and we all had the pleasure of Tom´s stories and memories he would share. I´m my parents oldest daughter but at the time I was in elementary school. Tom never talked to me like I was a kid and we would just have normal conversation. His intelligence was definitely a blessing to the world. He always reminded me of Wilson from home improvement. Sending healing love and energy to everyone to loved Tom.

Lori Romero

October 25, 2023

I´m so sorry to hear of Tom´s passing he worked with my husband Mark Romero and he literally taught my 4 kids so much when we went to visit them at school! Thanks Tom for your friendship and all your knowledge. I remember you talking German to my boys and making them line up and follow you in school after hrs fun!! The Romeros will miss you!!

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