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H Jane Rhys
August 18, 2025
Rud was my major professor on my doctorate! He was kind and generous with his time and also helped me in my job at the KS Dept of Education! I will never forget him and treasured his friendship!!
Jane Rhys
June 18, 2025
Rud was a friend and my major Advisor on my Ph. D.! I was once giving him and another friend rides home. The other friend had a disability and Rud insisted that he he into the very small back seat because the other friend had a disability! THAT was the kind of person Rud was!!
Pamela Shipman
March 31, 2025
Rudd was one of those rare people who made you feel like you had known him all your life. Connection with Rudd was immediate and enduring, even for those of us who did not have the chance to spend much time with him. He was the Pied Piper of the disability community. People followed him everywhere; everyone wanted to talk to him.
My first knowledge of Rudd was through his book The Law and the Mentally Handicapped in North Carolina, which was first published when I was in graduate school at UNC-CH studying Special Education. What a gift and a guide to budding professionals and advocates! Imagine my disappointment when he left to go to Kansas! Kansas?
Kansas gave Rudd and Ann the opportunity to build from the ground up, their vision for their son Jay, and for other people with disabilities! I once had the chance to visit the Beach Center in Kansas with Holly and professionals from North Carolina´s Medicaid Agency. While we were there, Rudd and Ann welcomed us to their home, as they must have done for so many over the years. I remember how I loved the red sofa on that red wall!
Rudd began his important work, inspired by his son, Jay, at the dawn of the development of community services and in particular inclusion of people with disabilities in the public school system. Beginning with the school system meant that there had to be services for adults, because what parent is going to institutionalize their adult child, after having them at home during their formative years? While there are many, many shortcomings in the system we have now, there were virtually no community services for children or adults when Rudd began his work.
Rudd published many, many articles and books. However, to me, the best testament to Rudd´s life his book The Exceptional Life of Jay Turnbull: Disability and Dignity in America 1967-2009, the story of Rudd and Ann´s son Jay, the challenges of raising him, and supporting him as an adult, in a world that was not in any way inclined or designed to offer a person with a disability the dignity he deserved. Through sheer determination they carved out a life for Jay, out of an environment that was at a minimum uninterested and sometimes even unwelcoming. I never knew them to be bitter or angry, and their actions made people see what is possible. Their kindness, patience, charisma, and leadership inspired the world around them and beyond.
I think I am glad Rudd did not know about the dismantling of the US Department of Education. It is heartbreaking to watch. However, the law still stands; and we have the law behind us, as we parents, professionals and advocates prepare to fight again for the rights of children and adults with disabilities if this becomes necessary. People with disabilities are not unique in their status as poor, struggling to find affordable housing, and in need of the purchasing power to buy necessities such as food and transportation. They are among the many Americans that are becoming more and more disenfranchised and left behind. Those of us who care about these Americans are many, and they need our help. We need to recognize our power and take action, or in the words of John Lewis: "Get in Good Trouble!" and of Rudd Turnbull: "RAISE HELL". I know that is what he would do. He will be deeply missed as we find our way into the future.
Steve Dillon
March 30, 2025
Ann, I'm so sorry to learn of Rud's death. I have many fond memories of him spanning 20+ years. He was a staunch supporter of the disabled, a loving husband and father, had a great sense of humor, among many other positive qualities. I have missed both of you since moving from Lawrence. My sincere condolences to you and all of your family
Jamie Pettengill
March 25, 2025
A wonderful man who will truly be missed. RIP Mr. Turnbull.
Dorothy Johanning
March 25, 2025
Ann, Amy, and Kate, my deepest sympathy for your loss! Rud was such an incredible person and I´m sad to hear of his passing. It´s been many years since the start of the Beach Center and he changed the lives of many people with disabilities!
Jane Rhys
March 25, 2025
Rud was a great friend and colleague! Always willing to help and gave great advice! I will miss him very much in the coming years!
Jim Paul
March 25, 2025
The national disabilities community has lost a bright light, a wise voice, and a tireless advocate. My deepest sympathies Ann.
Jamie Pettengill
March 25, 2025
A very wonderful man who will be greatly missed. I had the opportunity to work for the Turnbull family for 29 years and watched the heartfelt representation for those with disabilities he presented. RIP Rud.
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