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Paul Kincaid Obituary

"Maxine will now entertain us, tap dancing to 'Mr. Bojangles'". That was Paul Kendall Kincaid the son of Leslie B. and Carrie B. Fowler Kincaid born January 30, 1921 in Polo, Missouri and died Sunday, January 13, 2021. He was broadcasting from his homemade transmitter and bedroom studio on Greasey Street in Braymer, Missouri. Paul was on the air most Saturday mornings in 1937 and 38 with the exception of game days when he played basketball for his school team the Braymer Bobcats.

Following high school Paul attended William Jewell College for three years. There he was inducted into Gamma Sigma Epsilon Honorary Fraternity for outstanding chemistry majors. Three years later he graduated with distinction from the University of Missouri-Kansas City School of Dentistry and was inducted in Omicron Kappa Upsilon Honorary dental fraternity. Dr. Kincaid started his practice in 1945. He entered the United States Army and served as a dentist at New Cumberland Disciplinary and Quartermaster Depot in Cumberland, Pennsylvania and was honorably discharged as a Captain in late 1954.

He returned to Lawrence and practiced at 23rd & Barker until his retirement following his 94th birthday in 2015. He and his son Dr. Charles Kincaid traveled to Haiti on Medical missionary trips in 1983, 1985, 1987. He was honored as a Paul Harris fellow by Rotary in recognition for his work in Haiti. He received his Ham Radio License in 1941. He especially appreciated the recognition by his peers in the Douglas County Dental Society for his 70 years of practice in Lawrence.

Paul enjoyed working in his shop making clocks and bracelets for his many friends. He also loved "sneaking out" of Presbyterian Manor for breakfast with his son Paul Kincaid Jr. who was his and mom's loyal caregiver for many years. Most of all he believed in God and took the Golden Rule literally as he measured, measured, and measured some more before proceeding as the motto he lived by was 'Do It Right."

He married Mary Bess Myers on April 1, 1944 in Olathe. She preceded him in death in 2011. Survivors include two sons, Dr. Paul Kincaid Jr., Lawrence, and Dr. Charles L. Kincaid and wife Dr. Claudia Kincaid, Lawrence; seven grandchildren, David and wife Sherrie, Jeffery, Elizabeth, Benjamin, and wife Mary-Kate, Ivan, Aurora, and Charles Jr., as well as his beautiful great granddaughter Clarus Kendall Kincaid.

The family suggests memorial contributions to the First United Methodist Church, or the Lawrence Humane Society, in care of Rumsey-Yost Funeral Home, 601 Indiana St., Lawrence, KS, 66044. Online condolences may be sent at rumsey-yost.com

The family is having a little private ceremony to get dad next to mom at the cemetery as soon as possible. As soon as common sense permits we are looking forward to a big celebration of his life. Our special thanks to everyone at Presbyterian Manor for making dad feel at home, safe and secure these last four years.

We also appreciate Matt Daigh at Rumsey-Yost and my father for planning everything out so all our family has to do is count our blessings and remember the good times.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Jan. 21, 2021.

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Jim & Serena Anderson

January 28, 2021

Many thoughts and prayers to family, what a great guy to see in the dental office - Peace be with you

Teri Winegar

January 28, 2021

We will really miss this man. Been a dental patient since the 70s. He always made your day better whenever you saw him. We even shared a fire call at the eye doctor and made that experience a positive one. Will never forget him.

ed white

January 27, 2021

I just now see where Dr. Kincaid recently passed...In 1992 Dr. Kincaid (I only knew him as Paul) played my course at The Orchards. He was truly a gentleman and well liked by everyone. My sincere condolences.

Susan Davis McDaniel

January 23, 2021

In loving memory of a wonderful person. Hugs and prayers to his family.

Becky

January 22, 2021

Every time I wear the bracelet he made me, I will remember his sweet personality and that wonderful smile of his.

Shirley Valentine-Wynes

January 22, 2021

My sweet Dr. Paul !!!! What a guy! He was definitely "one of a kind"! He had a huge heart, a great smile, and talent galore! I loved him !!!! I know he was tired and ready to go, but he will be so missed!!!
Shirley

Kim Beeler

January 22, 2021

My heart aches knowing that our sweet Paul is no longer with us. He brought so much love and joy to my life and I will miss him dearly. My heart and prayers go out to the family as well. However, I rejoice for Paul knowing that he is now in the presence of our Lord and savior. Rest In Peace Paul. I will never forget you!

Rebecca Eller

January 21, 2021

Dr. Paul always brought a smile to my face. My husband Neal introduced me to Paul and he was our dentist and friend for many years. He would call to get woodworking advice from Neal. Now they can share stories and Neal can continue with his advice. I have a wooden bracelet and a little clock, gifts from Dr. Paul that I treasure. He was generous, kind, and always smiling. He will be missed.

Vicki Ownby

January 21, 2021

Every time I eat watermelon I will think of Dr. Kincaid. You will be missed.

Elaine Fellenstein

January 21, 2021

Dr Paul was a wonderful man. Such a great dentist and woodworker too. I loved gardening for him and Mary. His bright smile is going to be missed.

Mark & Susan Elzea

January 21, 2021

Charley, Mom, Susan and I were saddened to hear about Paul's passing. We all have wonderful memories of Paul and enjoyed his personality so much. We were looking forward to his 100th later this month. Please know you're in our thoughts and prayers.

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