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Gary Stauffer Obituary

Gary Lee Stauffer passed away on Monday, June 21, 2021, after a brief and courageous battle with pancreatic cancer. He was born in Lecompton, Kansas, May 2, 1945, to Walter (Les) Stauffer and Betty Joyce Crady Stauffer. He was preceded in death by his parents and his beloved wife, Carolyn J. Foster Stauffer. He graduated from Lecompton High School in 1963 leaving his mark as one of the top 15 Kansas all-time prep boys basketball scoring leaders. He graduated from Emporia State in the spring of 1967 and married his high school sweetheart, Carolyn J. Foster, on August 6, 1967 in Lecompton, Kansas.

Gary spent his career with the Lawrence School District. He was fortunate to secure his first teaching position at Schwegler Elementary immediately following his student teaching in the exact same classroom. After obtaining his Masters, he moved into Administration and became the Principal at New York Elementary. Not long after, he was grateful to have the opportunity to return as Principal to what would become his home away from home for nearly 25 years, Schwegler Elementary School. He made numerous lifelong friends over the years who have kept in touch. Various principal buddies, former classmates and their families, and a loyal band of former staff continued to be an integral part of his life, and their support after Carolyn's passing meant the world to him.

Gary retired after the arrival of his first grandson. In retirement he enjoyed spending time with Carolyn and was grateful they both had the opportunity to have an active role in their grandsons' lives. He also enjoyed marshaling at Alvamar, biking with his cousin, taking up an interest in photography, continuing to be tech-savvy, but most importantly he enjoyed attending all of the  school and athletic events for Cole and Carson. Gary was an active supporter of his hometown, Lecompton, Kansas. In recent years, Gary put his passion for photography to good use as the official photographer for the Lecompton Bald Eagle. He helped with many photographic enhancements, documented various events and special projects, which contributed to several exhibits in the Lecompton Territorial Capital Museum.

He will now have a most joyous reunion with his lifelong love, Carolyn, and leaves his loving memories, passions, and amazing legacy to be cherished by his daughter, Mendi Hanna, and son-in-law, Scott Hanna, of Olathe and his pride and joy grandsons, Cole and Carson, as well as numerous loving family, friends, former students and colleagues. Gary's strong dedication, commitment, love and generosity was a blessing to all who knew him.

Visitation will be 5:30-7:00 PM Monday, June 28 at Rumsey-Yost Funeral Home. The funeral service will be held at 10:00 AM Tuesday, June 29, at Lecompton United Methodist Church in Lecompton, Kansas. Burial will follow at Maple Grove Cemetery in Lecompton, Kansas.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made in Gary's name to the Lecompton Historical Society, P.O. Box 68, Lecompton, KS 66050.

Online condolences made at rumsey-yost.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Jun. 24, 2021.

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Andrew Allen

March 11, 2025

Former student - sorry for your loss and I remember him as a good man.

Brenda Kappelman

August 6, 2021

From my son Derek: I was saddened to learn of the passing of my elementary school principal Mr. Stauffer. I think he was the first person who I truly respected, before I even knew what respect was. I got into trouble a lot in my youth, which meant numerous trips to the principal's office for a stern talking to. I respected him then because he demanded it and I was afraid of him, but I respect him now because I know that he devoted his life to educating and mentoring youth, which is perhaps the greatest gift a person can give. I hadn't seen him for many years until I saw him at my great grandmother's 90th birthday celebration in Lecompton in 2013. I wish I had told him what an impact he had on my life, because I wouldn't be the person I am today if it wasn't for him. I still remember his retirement celebration at Schwegler when the entire student body surprised him by singing "What a Wonderful World" by Louis Armstrong. The world is wonderful because of people like Mr. Stauffer. Rest in Peace.

Brenda Kappelman

August 6, 2021

From one of my four sons: I was saddened to learn of the passing of my elementary school principal Mr. Stauffer. I think he was the first person who I truly respected, before I even knew what respect was. I got into trouble a lot in my youth, which meant numerous trips to the principal's office for a stern talking to. I respected him then because he demanded it and I was afraid of him, but I respect him now because I know that he devoted his life to educating and mentoring youth, which is perhaps the greatest gift a person can give. I hadn't seen him for many years until I saw him at my great grandmother's 90th birthday celebration in Lecompton in 2013. I wish I had told him what an impact he had on my life, because I wouldn't be the person I am today if it wasn't for him. I still remember his retirement celebration at Schwegler when the entire student body surprised him by singing "What a Wonderful World" by Louis Armstrong. The world is wonderful because of people like Mr. Stauffer. Rest in Peace.

Bob Decker

July 7, 2021

My sincerest condolences to the family.

Dennis R. Nelson

June 25, 2021

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Stauffer family, in the passing of Gary. Lean on Christ

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Jun

28

Visitation

5:30 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Rumsey-Yost Funeral Home & Crematory

601 Indiana Street, Lawrence, KS 66044

Jun

29

Funeral service

10:00 a.m.

Lecompton United Methodist Church

Lecompton, KS

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601 Indiana Street, Lawrence, KS 66044

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