1929 - 2026
May 24, 1929 - Mar 14, 2026
Eugene Paul Cunneely Sr. passed away on March 14th, 2026. He was preceded in death by his wife, Alice; and daughters, Mary Elizabeth and Kathleen Anne. He is survived by his three sons, Eugene Jr. and wife, Kathy; son, James and wife, Gail; and son, Michael and wife, Amie. Gene and Alice have nine grandchildren: Eugene III (Mallory), Kanani (Micah), Collin, Rachel, Grace Marie, Michael, Connor, Casey, and Brendan (Kaylee). He also has six great-grandchildren: Ellis, Charlotte, Quinn, Talon, Calvary, and Lorelei Kate.
Eugene was born in New York City on May 24th, 1929, to Joseph Laurence and June Margaret (Bernhardt) Cunneely. He attended Chaminade High School in Mineola, Long Island, on a Merit Scholarship. He graduated from Fordham University in 1951 while participating in the ROTC program. Upon graduation, he was commissioned a First Lieutenant in the United States Air Force and began an Air Force career as a fighter pilot that spanned 26 years. He flew a combat tour in Korea in the F-86 Sabre Jet. His flying career included over 5,000 hours, all flown in advanced fighter jets. He flew the F-86 Sabre, the T-33 Shooting Star, the F-102 Delta Dagger, the F-106 Delta Dart, and the F-5 Tiger. While stationed in Colorado Springs in the '60s, he was on the Air Force's ORI Inspection team. In 1968, he led the 318th Fighter Interceptor Squadron from McChord AFB, Tacoma, Washington, across the Pacific Ocean to South Korea in response to North Korea's taking of the Navy ship the USS Pueblo. In 1970, he became the commander of the 95th Fighter Squadron at Dover, AFB, Delaware, flying the F-106 Delta Dart in protection of the Washington, DC sector. In 1972-1973, he served as chief military advisor to the Royal Saudi Air Force, stationed in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia. From 1973 to 1977, he was the Deputy Chief of Staff of Plans and Manpower for the Alaskan Air Command. In that position, he conceived a program with the acronym MAR for minimally attended radar. The radar sites are still in operation and have produced hundreds of millions in annual dollar savings with improved "Top Cover" defense effectiveness for Alaska. He retired from the Air Force at the grade of Colonel in 1977 and was awarded the Legion of Merit with Oak Leaf Cluster.
In September 1977, he was employed by Gonzaga University in the office of University Relations as a grant writer. By November, Cunneely took over management of the Great Teacher's Program due to the illness of Sam Grashio, the former director. Over the 15 years he worked for the university, he was involved in all aspects of the expansion of the development office. In the 14 years managing the Great Teacher's Program, he and his staff, plus volunteers, never failed to achieve their annual goal. In 1983, Cunneely was given the added responsibility of leading the university's athletic fund-raising program. Working closely with popular coach and athletic Director Dan Fitzgerald, he was instrumental in revitalizing the Bulldog Club and the initiation of the very successful annual Bulldog Club golf tournaments. In 1985, he was given the additional responsibility of leading the development program for the Gonzaga Law School. Other programs initiated by Cunneely included founding the President's Council Board, the huge success of student/alumni tele funds, the promotion of senior support group campus events, and the computerization of the university's gift accounting and acknowledgment system. In 1980, he coached the University's hockey team. For three years, Cunneely served as an adjunct instructor in the university's School of Business Administration, teaching classes in business communications. During his tenure at Gonzaga, over $27 million was raised in annual fund gifts. He retired from Gonzaga in 1992. In 1999, he was the recipient of the University's Bulldog Club Service Award.
He and his wife, Alice, were season ticket holders at the Zag basketball games and traveled to see the team play at many of the WCC and NCAA Tournaments. They took advantage during his retired years of traveling to foreign lands such as Ireland, France, England, Italy, Germany, and Spain. In the mid-1960's, Alice and Gene bought waterfront property on Lake Pend Oreille, Idaho, where they have a vacation cabin. The Cunneely Family continues to spend its summers at their getaway place on this beautiful lake. In retirement, Gene Cunneely volunteered in various charities, including St. Paschal School, the Immaculate Heart Retreat Center, his alma mater, Chaminade High School, and Mater Dei Institute. He was a member of the Order of Daedalians and a lifetime member of the Air Force Association and the Military Officers Association of America. Gene was a parishioner of Mary Queen Parish. Gene's wishes were met as he passed away in his home, surrounded by family, on a glorious Saturday morning.
A Mass in his honor will be on Wednesday, March 25th, at 10:00 AM at Mary Queen Parish. Gene would appreciate donations made in his name to the Nazareth Guild for local Catholic Schools.


7 Entries
Washington State
March 31, 2026
Thank you for your service to our Country. Rest In Peace.
March 24, 2026
Colonel Gene Connelly was more than a friend to my family he and Alice and all the children were like family. My dad Colonel Sam Grashio and Colonel Canneely served together in the USAF. Colonel Connelly was brilliant and accomplished so much in his life. He adored his wife Alice and was so proud of his children. He was devastated when he lost his beautiful daughters. It was such a tragic time that I don´t think he ever overcame. He was a devoted Catholic and practiced his religion everyday. Our family is saddened by his death but know he is so happy to be with Alice and the girls . Our love goes to the Connelly boys and their children.
Michele
March 23, 2026
I worked with Gene and others in GU Development for 6.5 years in the 1980s and found him to be a very fine human being in all ways with a lovely family that we all liked very much and respected very much. End of an era. A life well lived. Michele
Moira Connelly
March 22, 2026
My Mom was the cousin of Gene´s wife, Alice. My family drove from Long Island, NY across the country one summer to spend time with the Cunneely´s at their lake cabin in Pend Orielle!!! It´s a cherished memory! It was the first time I water skied and made it all the way around the lake on my first time up! I also remember sitting on the dock of their boat lift with a small brach of a tree limb with fishing line wrapped around it with a hook at the end and a piece of cheese as bait!! I snagged a large fish on my first try! I also remember a very long home made raft made from tree limbs and a bunch of us hopped on and paddled away from the cabin to where, I don´t know, but it was fun, nonetheless!! Ironically, I live in SW Idaho today! Such a great summer vacation!!!!
I am so very sorry to hear of Gene´s passing. He lived a long and accomplished life! May he rest in peace.
Teri Hobbs
March 22, 2026
Our Knight's Diner family had the pleasure of knowing and serving this wonderful soul. He will be greatly missed. Fly High and enjoy Eternal Rest
Lt Col (ret) John L Patton
March 22, 2026
R.I.P. fellow veteran
Matthew T Ymer
March 22, 2026
It was an honor to worship Our Lord and Savior with this man who attended Mass at Mary Queen Parish. May he rest in Eternal Light...
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