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Born in Bridgeport, CT, TJ was the beloved son of Thomas Melhouse and Marie Melhouse Thornhill.
He is survived by his loving sister, Mary Razzino, as well as a brother-in-law Peter, niece Alexandra Pellegrino (Joseph) and two cherished great-nieces, Eliana and Serafina.
TJ is predeceased by his younger brother, Louis Melhouse, and his dear friend of many years, Becky.
All services will be held privately for Thomas TJ, who will be dearly missed by those who knew him and loved him.
A special thank you to Gina and Brenda at Lawerence and Memorial Hospital for all their help and guidance and for making so many things possible for Tommy.
Thank you to the wonderful nursing staff who cared for Tommy. To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Thomas, please visit our floral store.
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Benny Andrea
March 28, 2025
Mary and family,
My deepest sympathies , TJ/Tommy was a lifelong friend and will be missed but not forgotten. Much love
Benny Andrea
March 28, 2025
Richard Andrea
March 2, 2025
I'm sorry for the loss of your brother Tommy he was a very good friend of mine and I will miss him just as much as you Mary may he rest in peace
Richard Andrea
March 2, 2025
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Arszyla family
March 2, 2025
We were all sorry to hear of Tommy´s passing. Deepest sympathy to Mary and family.
The Arszyla family
Paul Daniels
March 1, 2025
The entire Daniels family wish to offer condolences for the passing of Tommy. Have a ton of good memories growing up with Tom in Bridgeport. We reconnected later in life and spent time together for a number of years. TJ will remain in our thoughts and prayers forever
Cathy (Arszyla) Hernandez
March 1, 2025
Condolences to the Melhouse family..may Tommy rest in peace
Mary Razzino
March 1, 2025
Heaven gained an angel, but I lost my brother. I miss you every day." I wish my love was strong enough to love you back to life again Love You More, Mary
Maureen Arszyla
March 1, 2025
Mary
Heartfelt sympathy to you for the loss of Tommy. We were just at Mrs Andrea´s wake and heard he wasn´t doing well. Tommy could always be counted on to be at a south Enders wake. May he rest in peace.
Whity Arszyla
EAN AND FRANK
February 26, 2025
My condolences to Tommy´s family also sorry for your loss
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