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Virginia Postoak Obituary

Virginia Lou (Curfman) Postoak, 85, of Lawrence, Kansas, passed away on June 4, 2025, in Lawrence, Kansas, with family at her side.

She was born on April 27, 1940, in Beaver, Oklahoma, to Josiah and (Vivian) Pauline Curfman. She was active in her Church from a young age and eventually played the piano during Church services. Virginia graduated from Beaver High School in 1958. She then attended Northwestern Oklahoma State University in Alva, Oklahoma, where she met Wayne Postoak. She graduated from Northwestern in 1962 and Virginia and Wayne were married 3 months later. They had four children together and were later divorced.

Virginia is survived by her children: Darren Postoak and his wife Jennifer, Paula Postoak-Buffalomeat, Penny Postoak Ferguson and her husband Dwight, and Tony Postoak and his wife Kathy. She also leaves behind eight beloved grandchildren: Anthony Buffalomeat, Samantha Buffalomeat, Kobe Buffalomeat, Kaylee Postoak, Connor Postoak, Taylor Postoak, Kaiden Postoak, and Peyton Postoak Ferguson.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Josiah and (Vivian) Pauline Curfman.

Virginia was able to stay home with her children while they were young, which they are grateful for. She then worked as an administrative assistant in the Vending/Concession Department, the Political Science department, both at the University of Kansas; and for the Haskell Foundation.

Virginia was a long time member and volunteer of the Pilot Club of Lawrence, volunteered at Lawrence Memorial Hospital and for the Red Cross Blood Drives. She enjoyed watching the Kansas Jayhawks, Kansas City Royals, and the Kansas City Chiefs. She loved to read, work in her yard and crochet but her favorite pastime was watching her grandchildren in their various activities.

Virginia was a beautiful soul and will be missed dearly.

The family would like to thank Homestead of Eudora for making her part of their family and  helping with her care for the last 1.5 years; and the wonderful nurses at Lawrence Memorial Hospital for taking such good care of Virginia and the entire family during her last few weeks.

Services will be held at 6:00 pm, Thursday, July 17, 2025, at the Rumsey-Yost Funeral Home, with a reception to follow from 7:00 – 10:00 pm at the Lawrence Fraternal Order of Eagles, 530 Wisconsin Street, Lawrence, Kansas. Burial will be held at a later date in Beaver, Oklahoma.

The family suggests memorial contributions to the Lawrence Humane Society or The Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson's Research, sent in care of Rumsey-Yost Funeral Home, P.O. Box 1260, Lawrence, KS 66044.

Online condolences may be sent at www.rumsey-yost.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Jul. 6, 2025.

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Irene Lane Sparks

July 17, 2025

Virginia and I grew up together. We were like sisters. Our family moved to Washington in 1953 but we remained friends. She will be missed.Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Sandra Bridwell Kaszuba

July 7, 2025

So sorry to hear that my dear cousin Gina Lou is gone. Growing up she was more like my big sister. Spent many wonderful fun summers with her in Beaver. Sending sympathy & prayers to all her family. May God comfort you all.

Karen Mills

July 7, 2025

Love & prayers for your family, we lived in Beaver from 1960-2013...friends of the Curfmans, neighbors on N street for years, loved the store too...we met all you kids..Charles was in College at Alva with Wayne & Virginia...

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