Thomas Stidham Obituary

I just looked up Tom Stidham to hold up as an example of one of those people who managed to be friends with everyone he ever met. Never forgot a name, even a lowly, non-music major euphonium player such as myself (KU '93). Rest assured that a little bit of his spirit lives on in every life he touched.

Uncle Tom was a wonderful and fun-loving man. I remember my dad, Charlie Stidham, commenting about his Brother Tom. Uncle Tom and Aunt Linda accompanied my folks (Charlie and Dee Dee) to an away Florida Gators football game one Fall. The Gators didn't fair too well that game, but all of those Lake Placid folks on the bus ride from the stadium back to the hotel said that the "Tom Stidham Show" was so much more enjoyable than watching the poor old Gators play!

Aunt Linda, Mark, Scott, and Marci, we'll all miss him. But, I can guarantee you one thing, Uncle Tom and Dad are sure telling the old stories with joy and happiness at this very moment!

Tom and I were Gator band members. And we both were Lambda Chi Alpha and Kappa Kappa Psi brothers. Rest in peace Tom. Clark Lord, now living in Las Vegas NV.

Peace, Love, Joy - Tom was the finest of Southern Gentlemen! An inspiration to all. Tom's memory will remain forever in the heart's all who new him!

Linda,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I enjoyed reading what all Tom has done. Continue to be proud of that and thank Heaven for the beautiful family you raised together to help you through this loss.

We are so sorry for your loss. Thomas was an inspiring man and a great example for us all. We pray for your comfort and know that you have a lifetime of treasured memories. You remain in our thoughts and prayers. Dennis, Gail, and Abigail Meier

Linda and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Tom was an amazing man and will be missed.

"You got a Marci around here?" said with a smile from ear to ear was always how he picked up his little girl from pre-school. And she all but jumped into his open loving arms. He had an obvious love for not only family, but life itself. Condolences.....

The kindness, joy and intellect of this great gentlemen brought peace and love to thousands. Tom was and is beloved by all who knew him. A sad farewell from us but a joyous journey for Tom. We all embrace Linda, Mark, Marci and Scott.

Please accept my heartfelt condolences for your loss. May your treasured memories of Thomas always fill your heart with love and peace