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Theodore Frederickson Obituary

Theodore Phillip Frederickson Jr., a resident of Tonganoxie, Kansas, passed away in hospice care on Monday, March 20, 2023. His devoted wife, son, and stepdaughter were at his side in his final moments. He was 78 years old.

Ted was born in San Francisco to Theodore P. Frederickson, Sr., and Valerie (Stahl). Two years later, the family moved to Grand Forks, North Dakota where he spent his childhood with his three siblings. After graduating from Grand Forks Central High School, he wisely observed that he had some maturing to do before going on to college. And so, he joined the army in 1963 and attended the Army Information School where he was assigned to the 32nd Artillery Brigade News as a reporter and Editor in Kaiserslautern, Germany. During his three years of military service, he gained discipline, developed an insatiable desire to explore the world, and discovered his life-long devotion to the art of good journalism-a devotion that would define his future career path.

After returning to Grand Forks, Ted earned his first degree, a B.A. in Political Science from the University of North Dakota in 1970. Later, he earned an M.A. in Journalism from American University in Washington, DC. As a reporter and editor, Ted honed his skills in newspapers such as The Washington Post and Minneapolis's Star Tribune. While working as the city editor for The Grand Forks Herald, he was often asked by his alma mater, UND, to visit and give lectures to journalism students. These lectures were so well-received, he was offered courses of his own, thus beginning his career in the classroom.

Alongside his love of teaching and journalism, Ted had a deep appreciation for the law. He enrolled in Georgetown Law School and completed his first two years there. However, financial constraints and a job offer prompted him to return to North Dakota, where he completed a Juris Doctorate at the UND in 1975. Ted's then-wife, Nancy Maxwell, also a lawyer, was o?ered a teaching position at Washburn University in Topeka, Kansas. Kansas became and would remain Ted's home for the rest of his life. Son, Maxwell Frederickson, was born in 1983. The couple divorced in 1991.

During his tenure as a journalism professor, Ted's accomplishments included developing a freestanding media law course, co-authoring the Society of Professional Journalists National Code of Ethics, and being the first recipient of the Budig Teaching Professorship of Writing Award. Ted's passion for teaching depth reporting led to great success for KU students in the Hearst Awards (often called the 'College Pulitzers'). Under his guidance, the KU School of Journalism placed first in the Intercollegiate Writing Championship for three consecutive years. Ted spent thirty-one years devoted to student achievement at KU. He retired in 2011.

Ted's life changed when he met Merrilee Cooper, an elementary school teacher, in 1995. The couple married the following year and made their home in the countryside of Tonganoxie, Kansas, along with Merrilee's daughter, Chloé. He and Merrilee shared a love of travel, often to hiking or snorkeling destinations. Ted's first love was his family, but his second was definitely the cabin he built in the 80's on Balm Lake in Minnesota. Retirement meant many weeks of summer swimming, cribbage games with his best friend, David, and winter cross-country skiing. Ted was also a fine cook who took great pleasure in showing his love through special dinners made for family and friends.

Ted was preceded in death by his parents and his sister, Mary Augustyn of Breckinridge, CO. Ted is survived by his wife, Merrilee Cooper; his son, Maxwell (Ashlee) of Kansas City, MO; brother Jon Frederickson (Teri) of Oakland, CA; brother Robert Frederickson of Phoenix, AZ; stepdaughter, Chloé Cooper Jones (Andrew) of Brooklyn, NY; and grandchildren Wolfgang Cooper Grossardt, Mildred Frederickson, and Matilda Frederickson.

To honor Ted's memory, donations can be sent to the Alzheimer's Association, www.alz.org.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Mar. 26, 2023.

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Darryll Fortune

Yesterday

I know this comes waay after his passing, but as I sit in my Director of Communications chair I am reminded that my foundation for journalism was planted by Prof. Frederickson. He flashed across my now 60+ year-old mind as I found a headline typo in a newspaper. And, I'm always wary of typos because of him. His biggest contribution to me while in his classes was to read the paper daily. He taught me to read at least the headline and first 2-3 paragraphs and that should tell the story! (Not these days -- too much editorial.) Thank you for truly teaching me something that I use and love. RIP.

Rochelle Olson

April 1, 2023

Ted Fred was the best. I had him for Reporting 1 in 1990 and Media law. He was fabulous and amusing. Condolences to you all.

Bill Staples

March 31, 2023

My dear friend and colleague for 25 yrs. Ted and Merrilee stood with us at our wedding, rowed alongside us canoeing on our honeymoon in the Boundary Waters and joined us on countless spring and winter break trips. He was as fine a human being as I have ever known and I will think of him often. Our heartfelt condolences to Merrilee, Chloé, Max, family and friends.

(Photo of Ted on my last trip with Ted to his sanctuary on Balm Lake, MN.)

Corinne

March 28, 2023

I wouldn´t be the writer I am today without Ted Fred´s direct and helpful guidance and feedback...not sure I would be a nytimes subscriber without his news quizzes, either. Of course Ted Fred was an EXCELLENT teacher but he was kind and thoughtful and took a genuine interest in his students. We talked a lot about food, the joys of swimming in cold northern lakes, and how Obama is certainly Rawlsian. My love to his family, countless friends and colleagues.

Donna Kirk-Swaffar

March 27, 2023

Ted Fred made Law of Communication a shared and valuable experience at the WAW School of Journalism, and he was loved and respected by so many students and colleagues. Peace and strength to those he leaves behind.

Chad Lawhorn

March 27, 2023

No one has done more to teach me the fundamentals of journalism than Ted Fred. He not only was one of my many teachers at KU, but was my primary advisor. I find myself saying things he taught me years ago to journalists I hire today. He was kind, he was wise, he didn't take himself too seriously and he was a great example of how we should practice journalism. I'm better for having known him.

Connie Herrell

March 27, 2023

My favorite memory of Ted is sitting on the porch in Tonganoxie after an excellent dinner he cooked. He and my husband John were pretty well able to solve the problems of the world over a good beer and a beautiful sunset. His quick mind and masterful way with words is a great loss. He was so lucky to have such a supportive family. Love to Merrilee and all his family

James (Jim) Guthrie

March 27, 2023

I was very saddened to learn of Ted's passing. The entirety of our relationship was based on a gazillion short conversations in the Robinson Gymnasium locker room over many years as I was lacing my running shoes and he was putting on his swimming togs. Those conversations were short, varied and memorable. He was an insightful, humorous man who didn´t take himself too seriously. The last time I saw him was a random encounter at the Lawrence Beer Company 2-3 years ago. I hadn´t seen him in several years and was delighted to see him --- I´m glad I have him a big hug. RIP, Ted. I miss you and our little talks.

Gary Mark Smith

March 26, 2023

Ted was a mentor of mine at KU from 1982-84. I knew him as wise and I trusted him. He came to my final book launch party in December 2018 to wish me well, and I had never felt more honored in my life. I hadn´t seen him in decades, and suddenly there he was!!
Please know that the memory of Ted Fred was cherished by far more people than we will ever know...

David D.

March 26, 2023

"Ted Fred" was one of my favorite professors when I earned my grad degree at KU's J-School. He made media law my favorite class. Ted nurtured curiosity and encouraged students to challenge assumptions and think deeply about legal cases. My condolences to his family and friends.

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