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Sylvia Wells Obituary

Sylvia Irene Wells

Family and friends will celebrate the life of Sylvia Irene Wells at Warren McElwain Mortuary in Lawrence, KS on Tuesday, October 15th at 11:00am. Burial will follow at Oak Hill Cemetery.

Sylvia was born in Meade, KS on June 30, 1934 to George and Josie (Reed) Wells. She grew up in Mulvane, KS with her siblings Joe, Shirley, Norman, and Lois. Growing up the third out of five children, Sylvia had a sly sense of humor and a mischievous smile. She knew how to make people laugh and loved to laugh with them.

Sylvia met Thomas M. Phillips, Sr. while working at Boeing in Wichita, KS in 1953. They married and had four children – Susan, Tom, Jr., Lori Jo, and Tim. The family moved to Topeka, KS in 1971 where Sylvia found her true calling as Assistant Activities Director at the United Methodist Home. She continued to work there until her retirement in 1999.

Sylvia was musically and artistically inclined. She started playing the piano in high school and never stopped. Sylvia played everything from show tunes to hymns for friends and family to sing along. She also helped plan holiday bazaars, painted wild landscapes of the Kansas countryside, and made pretty things out of bits and pieces of anything she could find. Her self-deprecating wit and love for fun made most people feel genuinely "at home" around her.

Tom, Sr. and Sylvia divorced and she subsequently met Darrell F. Wells, marrying him in 1979. She joked that she got her maiden name back by getting married again.

Sylvia was creative. She inspired her children and grandchildren with her drawings and illustrated stories. She made dolls, quilts, puppets, jewelry, and Christmas ornaments. She made great cream puffs, sub sandwiches, shrimp creole, and chili. She loved to dance, listen to music, play cards, giggle with her sisters, drink coffee, and sit with her beloved dog companion, Zoey.

Sylvia was preceded in death by her parents, George and Josie Wells, her dear sister Shirley (Wells) Hartman, her husband, Darrell Wells, and her former husband, Thomas M. Phillips, Sr.

Her grateful survivors include her children and their partners, Susan Phillips (Mike Brehm) of Chicago, IL, Tom Phillips, Jr. (Cary), Lori Jo Phillips (Dave Oliver), and Tim Phillips (Alee), all of Lawrence, KS; her grandchildren Maxwell Phillips (Julie) of Olathe, KS, Mia Phillips, George Stockhammer, Sam Phillips, and Ike Phillips all of Lawrence, KS; sister Lois Nocton (Denny) of Wheatridge, CO; brothers Joe Wells (Ginny) of Boulder, CO, and Norman Wells (Franny) of Oro Valley, AZ; brother-in-law Lucky Hartman of Mulvane, KS; and many nieces and nephews.

A 10:00am visitation for family and friends will precede the services. The family suggests memorials in Sylvia's name to the Lawrence Humane Society and may be sent in care of the mortuary.

Online condolences may be sent to www.warrenmcelwain.com.

Please sign this guestbook at Obituaries.LJWorld.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Oct. 13, 2013.

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Elisabeth Ballou

October 14, 2013

To all, but especially Lori and George,
My heart is filled with compassion for you in your grief. It feels heavy, but not because it is filled with sadness. It is filled to the limit with love, from all the ways Sylvia's spirit is reflected in each of you and the way you have evolved into who you are today because of the love that blossomed between you, through her.
I know that love will only grow bigger and stronger as you speak her name, share her recipes, repeat her jokes or sit together for coffee and cards.
It is important not only to cherish these memories privately, but to pull them out and share them openly. When you do this, you heart will be like a freshly washed sheet hung out on the line. You'll soak up love and sunshine, feel refreshed and renewed and you will revel in how it feels and smells to wrap yourself with gratitude and appreciation for life's simple- but profound pleasures.

With kind and loving thoughts,
Lis

Rose Foster

October 13, 2013

I am so grateful for the love and support that Sylvia gave me over the years. She was one of the warmest, kindest souls I've ever known. Rest in peace, Sylvia!

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