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Stephen Harrell Obituary

Lt. Stephen Gary Harrell, 44, of Warwick, New York, a firefighter with the New York Fire Department.

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Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Nov. 28, 2001.

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McKell Swain

September 17, 2020

I simply cannot say enough about the sacrifice that so many men willingly made to save others on September 11, 2001. To say I admire them is a great understatement. I choose to never forget this day or these heroes. Lt. Harrell was one of the many that made one final act of indescribable courage and selflessness. Thank you for your sacrifice, Lt. Harrel. My prayers go out to any of his family and friend who continue to mourn this loss. God bless you all.

Ben Dugas

September 13, 2019

It was an honor to climb 110 flights for Lt. Harrell. Thank you sir for you service. You and your family will be in our prayers. God Bless.

Firefighter Ben Dugas
Suncor Energy Fire Department

Graham Turner

February 17, 2016

I didn't Know Stephen until today, when we visited Ten House, I remember watching on TV from the UK where I live, God these men were so brave!, beyond any call of duty, it's left a big stamp in my thoughts!.. Speechless....

Catherine Goodsett-Wein

September 13, 2015

Yesterday, I wore a badge with Stephen's name and picture on it and climbed stairs at Lambeau Field in honor of the selfless courage and great bravery that he showed during the 911 attack. I will always feel a great debt to Stephen and others like him. He is a true American hero!

Dale Crofton

September 11, 2015

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Eileen Gluth

September 11, 2015

Praying for Lt Harrell's friends, family and ladder 10. Last year I carried you in my heart 110 stories. You were with me at work today. I think of you and the 342 ny finest everyday. God bless you for your service.

Carlin Woods

September 12, 2014

In 1972, Lt. Steve Harrell was a role model to me. He was a senior member of the O.L.P.H. Ridgemen Drum and Bugle corps in Bayridge Bklyn. An outstanding horn player and soloist.
I was a 13 year old kid from Bed Sty, he was about 19. He had serious swagg and was as cool as the other side of the pillow.
I grew up without my dad and no brothers. Steve Harrell was one of the guys that gave me a clue as to how a young man from NYC was supposed to carry himself.
To all his family and friends, i just want to let you know, if you don't already, he was a role model as a young man and he was that and more on his last day on earth.
May God bless and keep Lt. Steve Harrell and all those who gave all on 9/11.

Eileen Gluth

September 9, 2014

We will never forget

Anthony Smith

September 8, 2014

It was an Honor to carry you name in 2 9/11 Stair Climbs. Reading tonight I realized my last climb I carried your brothers name as well.

eileen gluth

September 7, 2014

To Lt Harrell friends and family. I just wanted to let you guys know that I was thinking of all of you today. I wore his name and picture with pride as me and my ff husband climbed 110 flights today in Atlanta, Georgia. It made what Stephen did hit closer to home for me. I've been to the wtc growing up in Allentown, pa. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of all of those brave men. God bless you all

Collins Harrell

November 11, 2013

I wore a commemorative bracelet today with your name and that of your brother, Harvey inscribed on it in your honor for Veteran's Day today. We must be related somehow. Thank you for your life of devoted service.

September 12, 2013

It was an honor to wear your name on my back for the Sacramento 9/11 stair climb 2013. Thank you for your service and dedication to the job.

- Firefighter Kirk Gross
Richmond Fire Department E66

Wendy Rodriguez

September 11, 2013

Sept.11, 2013. I did not know you, but I do know you will never be forgotten. I pray for your family in Jesus name.

Lynn Liebergen

July 30, 2013

On July 14th, I walked in your honor at the 9-11 Memorial Stair Climb at Lambeau Field in Green Bay, Wisconsin. Unfortunately, I overheated and could not finish the climb. I intend to participate in the 9-11 Memorial Stair Climb in Wausau, Wisconsin in September in an effort to finish in your honor. God bless!

Peter Poidomani

January 24, 2013

I remember Steve from PS 52, JH2 and New Dorp HS. Steve was a wonderful guy. God Bless RIP.
Peter

Gregory Stephen Ramsdell

September 8, 2012

I just completed the Hero Rush obstacle course run. I had the honor to be selected to have you as by running partner, wearing your name on my chest and being a part of the 343 wave of runners. I salute you for your courage and sense of duty. Please know that I will not forget you. And to your family, let it be known that there are thousands upon thousands of firefighters, paid and volunteer, who think and speak of these unfortunate events everyday, who recognize what heroism is, and that Stephen is one of them. I am not a religious person, but some sort of fate made sure that the Lt and I share a special connection and bond now.

Brian Diehl

September 12, 2011

I am a FF with the Nashville Fire Department , Yesterday (9-11-2011) I had the honor and privilege of climbing 110 flights of stairs at the 2nd annual 9/11 memorial stair climb in Nashville . I did this to honor you and yesterday you completed the 110 floors with me. I climbed because you couldn't. god bless and never forget!

Katy Clegg

September 10, 2011

Today, in honor of Lieutenant Stephen G. Harrell, I climbed 110 flights of stairs. I want the family to know that I will never forget. I am a first grade teacher and I have taught my students about the horrible events and the amazing sacrifices that were made on that day - so THEY will never forget, either. I was honored to pay tribute to this hero today. I appreciate the sacrifice that he and his family made. God bless you.

September 9, 2011

i think of you more and more with each year that passes. on my good days, it's of your voice... belting out a song wherever you were.. it's how you greeted me often. you live on in my heart forever. thank you for watching over kevin and keeping him safe. i love and miss you.

Barbara Schermerhorn

September 9, 2011

To my dear and special friend,
I think of you often and miss you dearly though I know you are there at times watching over my shoulder as my guardian angel, just like you did in 1978 when we worked together for the Staten Island Continuum and the summer youth program. I can't belive we sat at the end of the pier at Cromwell Center, looking at the Lady in the Harbor and the Towers never expecting that those Towers were to be so fateful. I pray for you, your wife and daughter often. Stay close and know that you are missed dearly and loved forever...

Jason Reyes

September 9, 2011

I am proud to be climbing in your memory at the Dallas 9/11 Memorial Stair Climb. I will be one of the first ones in to make the climb up the tower as you were on the day you helped provide the largest rescue operation in the history of this country. You are a hero and a patriot. God Bless your sacrifice and bravery so that others may live. Thank You!

JORDAN H

January 28, 2011

STEPHEN IM SO INSPIRED BY YOUR HEROISM ON 9/11. I WILL NEVER FORGET YOUR BRAVERY ON 9/11. I PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY EVERY NIGHT. GOD BLESS YOU HERO. THANK YOU FOR WHAT YOU GAVE ON SEPT 11TH.

Tommy Harrell

December 18, 2010

GOD BLESS BROTHER.

michael van leuven

September 11, 2010

r.i.p.

Abe Giordano

September 11, 2009

God bless you, Steve! We all miss you!

melissa bullimore

July 4, 2008

god bless you lt. stephen gary harrell, forever remembered and forever in our hearts for your bravery and heroism.x

WALTER Chiavacci

January 18, 2008

YOU WILLNEVER BE FORGOTTEN YOUR BROTHER FIRE FIGHTER FROM PENNSYLVANIA

Gary McCullagh

January 2, 2008

R.I.P your heroism and sacrafise will never be forgotten. God Bless you and your family and friends who mourn your loss. Always in our hearts.

Stephen Harrell

October 18, 2007

My name is Stephen Harrell, age 13, out of Claiborne County, Tennessee. I was only a little kid when the United Stated came under attack, but I remember it like it was yesterday. We lost alot of good people and good heroes on that fateful day and I wish for everyone to remember the good times that they had with their loved ones that were lost on that day and pray for the families. 9/11/01 Never Forget! R.I.P Lt. Stephen G. Harrell

Scott Yaniga

July 15, 2007

It is going on six years since that awful day, yet no matter how much time passes you will never be forgotten by your Skyliners brothers and sisters.

With Respect,

Matthew R. Dougherty

May 18, 2007

God Bless You Brother Firefighter. Thank you for all you did for our country on 9/11/01. May you rest in piece. Matthew R. Dougherty (Bradford Township Volunteer Fire Department) Bradford, Pennsylvania

Kristine

November 6, 2006

As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

P Tabbernor

October 31, 2006

In memory....

Matt Walker

October 25, 2006

Thank you for your bravery and heroism. May you rest in peace and god bless you and your family.

Mike Pittman

September 6, 2006

I am doing a tribute to Lt. Harrell on my website. Please, if anyone who knew him would be kind enough to send me any info to include, I would be grateful. 2996 bloggers volunteered to do a tribute for an individual victim. I was assigned Lt, Harrell.



Send what ever you can ASAP. Thank you and may God bless him and his family for his sacrifice and heroism.

lisa aspinall

June 11, 2006

I remember meeting you for the first time when i went to Staten Island to meet nana and poppie.I was taken back by how handsom you were.It has been 17 years and I can still remember you singing and playing the paino.You sang your heart out then and I am sure you still do now.I will miss you always.I know you and uncle buddy welcomed nana with a nice fresh cup of coffee, and will take care of her.She was the proudest mom in the world. I pray for you nightly. Miss you more then ever amaginable. lisa

MIKEY ASPINALL

June 9, 2006

IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO FORGET MY TWO UNCLES STEVE AND BUDDY,(HARVEY).THEY WERE THE BACK BONE OF OUR FAMILY. MY FAMILY CHANGED FOREVER AFTER THAT DAY,BUT BECAUSE OF FRIENDS AND FAMILY THEY WILL NEVER BE FOGOTTEN. THESE MEN HAVE MORE FRIENDS THAN ANYONE I KNOW, AND THEY NEVER STOP SHOWING HAVE HOW MUCH THEY LOVED THEM. LIVING ON THE BEACH IN SI WAS FAMILY OF FRIENDS. I WISH I COULD HAVE SAID HI JUST ONE MORE TIME. I MISS YOU GUYS. I KNOW THAT YOUR TAKING CARE OF NANNA IN HEAVEN LIKE YOU DID ON EARTH.

LOVE YOUR NEPHEW MIKEY

Hailey Russell

March 19, 2006

Thank you for everything you done I will Never forget it.

Dave Haines

February 16, 2006

Thank you, Steve.

wendy pietromonico

November 4, 2005

Dear Stephen Harrell, I would like to send my hearfelt condolences to your family. I will always remmber the christmass parties and the picnics that ladder 122 had. They were the best. I remmber that day when I went to the picnic at the jewish center on manor road and you said that my son will be saved if he fell in the pool water. I was affraid but when you said that you eased my mind.I wish you were still alive because I would know that if you had to save me that I would be in good hands. I as well as my kids Love and Miss You . Love A lways Captain Pietromonico's Daughter Wendy.

James Johnson

September 11, 2005

God Bless You...

tracey lotz

February 16, 2005

I knew stephen as a lil girl he was my neighbor and his brother Dave still lives next door. I can remember hearing the sax and saying uhh hes playing that sax again.. oohh to hear that sax one more time. Stephen was so handsome I remember i had such a crush on him and him being the sweetest guy that he is totally went with it. I really thought this man liked me LOL He even wrote in my Jr high school year book to my lil pumkin stay as sweet as you are. Stephen Mom Miriam was my Mom.. She did everything for me the day she passed away i think 2 years after 9/11 i cried my eyes out. Miriam died of a broken Heart she lost both her sons harvey and stephen in 9/11 . What tragedy for everyone but this one was a double tragedy. Stephen.buddy I know that you welcomed your mom at those gates of Heaven I wish I was there to be in that moment as a mother reunited with her boys. I see Dave everyday fixing his cars and I wonder how he carries on without his 2 brothers But The Harrels are strong willed boys and Dave lives each day knowing your right by his side. I wil never ever forget you steph.. take care of your MOM and RIP until we meet up there Hopefully when I get there I will have my Neighbors back so that I know where to go to borrow sugar. The memoral naming the street after you was touching Im honered to live at LT Stephen Harrell Hangdown Highway St.

I miss all of you until we meet again

Love Tracey

WB

January 23, 2005

Many days we spent talking about becoming firemen, I remember every tuesday we had to stop on our route and grab the "Chief" civil service news paper to see when the test was coming up. You were and always will be a great friend and like an older brother to me Steve. I looked up to you as a teen and I look up to you as a man. You were one of the best people i've ever known. Your mentored me on many issues in my life and you taught me alot about compassion. I'm honored to have known you!

Abe Giordano

September 11, 2004

Long time, old friend. I have been remiss in visiting you here. I toast you and your brother. You and all of the FDNY and NYPD are the real heroes every day. I think of you often and I was happy for you when you finally moved off this island. Too bad it was for a short time, but you are in a better place now. Peace and Love, Steve.

Shoshana Lopatin

April 3, 2003

Those we love

are never really lost to us--

for everywhere their special love lives on.

~ Amanda Bradley ~

Alicia Piascik

September 11, 2002

Dear Harrell family:



My family and I never had the pleasure to know you or Stephen but our thoughts and prayers are with you on this very difficult day in your lives. Stephen has seen the face of God and now he is watching over you from Heaven with all of the Angels.



Sincerely,

Alicia Piascik & family

Daniel Marino

September 7, 2002

I would just like to remember the happy times at family get togethers with my family, the Aues and yours. God Bless you and your family Dan Marino

Diane

August 7, 2002

We were friends when life was carefee. You were an amazing man then, and a hero to all Amerians now.



May God keep you safe, and watch over your family in their time of pain.



Gone, but not forgotten.

Denise Olsen

May 27, 2002

To the Harrell family,

I have never had the pleasure of meeting you or your husband Stephen, but I am given great comfort in hearing what a wonderful man and firefighter he was. Stephen was the covering liuetenant at L10 on 9/11 and my husband Jeff was with him. They are now together in a much better place...My thoughts are with you and your family often because my 3 children and myself share your pain. My only hope for all of us is that we find peace and our children grow knowing how important their fathers were and how important they were to their fathers.

Love,prayers and support

Denise,Vincent,Tori Rose and Noah Olsen

Barbara Schermerhorn

May 13, 2002

Dear Steve,

I will never forget all of our bad boys of Cromwell Center. I am so glad and sorry to have helped you with your GED and to study for the FDNY test. You will always be a special friend to me and my family. I will never forget the Ramblers, Ridgemen, and especially the Skyliners. I pray for your dear wife and daughter. I can't believe you moved so close and we never knew. Staten Island Continuum of Education lives. Thanks for being my special angel.

Your forever friend,

Barbara

Angie Campbell

April 30, 2002

**********GOD BLESS YOU**********

Joan Rogers-Speroni

March 22, 2002

Stephen & Harvey were a special part of my teen age years and drum corps experience with the OLPH Ridgemen. I will never forget their smiling faces!



God Bless them both and their families.



Joan Rogers-Speroni

January 31, 2002

DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL YOUNG HERO FIREMAN..LT.STEPHEN GARY HARRELL AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..MAY ST.STEPHEN GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN..AMEN

Janet Barber

January 30, 2002

Just to let you know after four months we have not forgotten you and the other family's. I thoughts and prays are still with you.

With love.



The Barber family

Janene Merrell

January 28, 2002

Dear Stephen,

You always made family occasions warmer & much more comical. Your humor & beautiful smile will never be forgotten. My heart goes out to your family, especially your daughter. I know that you are still watching over us.. only now you're in a safer & more beautiful place than this world. God bless you Stephen.. you truly will be missed but never forgotten.

Love Always,

Janene

Laura McCaskill

January 9, 2002

I am also wearing a mercy band with Stephen's name on it, as a reminder to pray for his family. I had the opportunity to help serve the firemen meals during New Year's at Ground Zero, and am so thankful for that opportunity.



In Christ,

Laura

Stephanie Higgins

January 5, 2002

Megan and Holly --

Your family will remain in my thoughts and prayers always. You loss is imeasurable, and there are no words possible to convey the sorrow we all feel. Your friends on Staten Island,



The Higgins Family -- Eldon, Stephanie, and Katherine

Judy C

December 30, 2001

Dear Stephen,

My heart his heavy with grief for your loss and the sorrow your loved ones feel at this time.

I believe you are now living in a better place. You are living with God because that is where Angels live.

Rest in peace, Stephen and God Bless you!

Teresa Jahn

December 30, 2001

We thank Stephen for all the lives he saved as a firefighter. Such devotion comes with a brave, warm and caring heart filled with love for his fellow man. May Stephen's courage, life and love live on in those who love him. We are deeply sorry for your loss of Stephen. Our hearts cry with you.

America Cries

We see your sorrow-

and our hearts cry....

We can not erase your pain

but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-

-the American people-

are beside you.

We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,

the strength that gives you courage,

and the words to lighten your spirits.

And when we are left speechless

may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts

to ease your sorrow.

May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-

-the American people-

face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn

Dixon, IL

Paula Boland

December 17, 2001

Mrs. Boland's 2nd grade class send their sincere condolences to the family and freinds of Stephen. We hope you got our letters. I am also wearing a "mercy band" with Stephens name on it to school every day. The students and I our sending positive thoughts your way.

Gay Knight

December 2, 2001

I am wearing a Mercy B.A.N.D. with Gary's name on it and I want to let his family and friends know that I will be praying daily for the peace and comfort that passes all understanding to guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). My husband is a Miami Dade County firefighter.

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