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Stephen La Cour

1959 - 2025

Stephen La Cour obituary, 1959-2025, Lawrence, KS

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1959

DIED

2025

Stephen Cour Obituary

It is with great sadness that the family announce the passing of Stephen Lynn (Appayette) LaCour on Sunday, February 2, 2025.

Stephen Lynn LaCour was born on April 24, 1959, in Lawton, Oklahoma. He played football and basketball for Carnegie High School, Carnegie, Oklahoma. From 1977 through 1979, he played basketball for Haskell Jr. College, Lawrence, KS. After college, he played independent basketball competing in non-tribal and tribal tournaments in different states. Stephen LaCour was inducted into NIAA Hall of Fame for his leadership, athleticism, and sportsmanship. Stephen was a devoted father and husband who provided for his family until his retirement from Haskell Jr. College as a facility manager in 2024.

Stephen LaCour is a direct descendant of Chief Stetainte (White Bear) His maternal grandmother, Margaret (lkei-gope) Oyebi-Methvin was reared by Chief Stetainte's son, Odlepaugh and his wife, Ananthy, in Saddle Mountain, Oklahoma.

Stephen LaCour leaves behind two sons: Stephen (Knowes) LaCour, Jr., and Evan William (Chalko) LaCour of the home. Four sisters: Lanita Jo Horse, Vonda Jewell LaCour, Danna Michelle LaCour, and Justina Biffle. He was preceded in death by his wife, Marilyn Jessepe LaCour, brother, David Duke LaCour, father, Emile Joseph (Sonny) LaCour, mother, Lula Grace (Methvin) LaCour, maternal grandparents, William and Margaret (Oyebi) Methvin, paternal grandparents, Emile and Mary LaCour. Stephen's kindness and affection will be greatly missed by his nephews, nieces, grandkids, and relatives.

A morning service will be held on Wednesday, February 5, 2025, at 10:00 AM at 120 West 13th Street, Warren-McElwain Mortuary, Lawrence, Kansas. Immediately following the service, Stephen LaCour will be transported to the Jessepe homestead upon the Kickapoo Reservation for burial services and lay to rest the following morning.

Ah-ho for your attendance and prayers.

Pallbearers: Roy Stanley, Dale Daney, Bo Schiedner, MicahWare, Travis Brown

Honorary Pall Bearers: Mike Daney, Ethan Candyfire, Gary Methvin 

For more information or to post a condolence go to warrenmcelwain.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Feb. 6, 2025.

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Dale Edward Bryant

February 18, 2025

I met Steve from my neighbors whom he worked with at Haskell Indian college, Robert Steinlage and Cruze Pekah was best of friends to Steve

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