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Stanley Rolfe Obituary

Stanley (Stan) T. Rolfe, beloved husband, father, father-in-law, grandfather, great grandfather, and brother passed away peacefully and surrounded by family on January 23, 2023, in Valley, Nebraska.

Born in Chicago on July 7, 1934, he met the love of his life, Phyllis Ann Williams in Kankakee, Illinois, and they married on August 11, 1956.

With Phyllis at his side, he earned his B.S., M.S., and Ph.D. degrees in civil engineering at The University of Illinois and began his career at U.S. Steel. In 1969, he and his family moved to Lawrence, Kansas. At The University of Kansas, he served as a long-time professor of civil engineering and in a variety of other roles for over four decades. He leaves behind a professional legacy that includes several editions of a co-authored textbook, numerous awards and recognitions, and induction into the National Academy of Engineering.

At KU, he became a diehard Jayhawks basketball and football fan regardless of their records. As with so many other interests, he passed his enthusiasm on to his family. Family was always of great importance to Stan. Annual family vacations to Vail, Colorado, surrounded by his wife, children, their spouses, grandchildren, and great grandchildren brought him great joy.

Stan's faith also was especially important to him whether it be attending services, Bible study, or serving on church committees and boards. He lived his Christian faith every day.

Stan was ever optimistic and grateful for whatever life sent his way and faced his final days with love and joy.

Stan is survived by Phyllis, his beloved and loving wife of more than 66 years, children David Rolfe (Brenda), Pam McCarville (Pat), and Kathy Vigil (Jeff) and 11 grandchildren, three great grandchildren, and brothers Tom Rolfe and Richard Rolfe (Susan). He was preceded in death by his granddaughter, Kate. Stan will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved him.

A celebration of his life will be held in Valley, Nebraska, at St. John's Catholic Church on Saturday, February 4, 2023 at 11AM. A celebration will also be held in early June 2023 at Plymouth Congregational Church in Lawrence, Kansas, with details to come.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to The University of Kansas School of Engineering–Civil Engineering Department or Plymouth Congregational Church, Lawrence, Kansas and may be sent in care of Warren-McElwain Mortuary, 120 W. 13th Street, Lawrence, KS 66044.

For more information or to post a condolence go to warrenmcelwain.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Jan. 29, 2023.

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Katherine Claflin

March 19, 2023

I am so sad to hear of Stan´s death. His smile and wit brightened my Sunday mornings.

Todd N Thompson

February 6, 2023

Goodbye Stan. Didn´t get to say that. Didn´t think I´d have to. You were in such good shape. We skied a lot of miles together. And I enjoyed them all. Especially loved skiing the year you turned 80. And when you bought new boots at 79. What an optimist! You inspired me to shoot for skiing at 80. I will dedicate a run to you.
You always said we should quit before the last run. And we always did. Because, you said, people always get hurt on their last run. I´m terribly sorry you had your last run. Miss you immensely.
Todd

Jerry Wellman

February 4, 2023

Stan was my advisor for graduate studies at KU from 1973 to 1979. He was a great mentor and even better friend. We took many trips to NYC to meet with sponsors. While there we shared many good Italian dinners and even got to do some site-seeing. Later on, I was able to continue working with Stan through consultations on some very important projects at Sandia Nat. Labs. Stan and I shared years of competition at softball, basketball (faculty/student games), and even tried to play squash - a dismal failure on my part - that ball just doesn't bounce. I will greatly miss him. Loved Stan and Phyllis so much.

Tracy Diel

February 1, 2023

Dave, Pam and Kathy,
Sorry for your loss.

Tony Walton

January 31, 2023

I have always admired Stan Rolfe both professionally and as a person. As a geologist, I have always felt that he understood the essential features of the symbiosis of his field and mine, although his domain of civil engineering did not so interact. I will miss him.

I asked him once what he liked about retirement. He mentioned the end of the alarm clock. Now that I am retired, I admire his wisdom even more.

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