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Shirley McKee Obituary

Shirley M. McKee

Shirley M. McKee, 93, Lawrence, died Friday, August 28, 2015, at Lawrence Presbyterian Manor. She was born March 6, 1922, in Kansas City, Missouri, the daughter of Orville W. and A. Louise (Mathonet) Snyder.

She graduated as valedictorian from Westport High School in 1939 and then attended Kansas City Kansas Community College before transferring to the University of Kansas, where she was elected to Beta Gamma Sigma, an honorary society that recognizes top students in the School of Business. She received a Bachelor of Arts degree in 1943, and as a fifty-year member of the KU Alumni Association, she proudly wore her Gold Medal Club pin.

Shirley married David E. McKee on May 22, 1943, in Kansas City, Missouri. In 2010 they celebrated their sixty-seventh anniversary.

After living in Kansas City, Kansas, and Wichita, the couple moved to Topeka. She was a church secretary for Westminster Presbyterian Church, and in 1964 was the first woman ordained there as a ruling elder. She was initiated into Chapter DF of the P.E.O. Sisterhood, served as a Girl Scout troop leader, and became a season ticket holder for Kansas University football and basketball games.

During ten years of residence in Hutchinson, Kansas, she worked for Reno County Abstract and Title Company. She was a charter member of P.E.O. Chapter HP.

Upon moving to Lawrence in 1984, she joined First Presbyterian Church. She belonged to P.E.O. Chapter GQ, which she served as president on two separate occasions; she later became a charter member of Chapter JU.

Shirley loved to read, to piece quilts, and to play games of all kinds. She also enjoyed cooking and was famous for her pies. As the owner of a cabin in Allenspark, Colorado, she served as president of the Estes Park Summer Residents Association.

Her husband David preceded her in death on December 4, 2010.

Survivors include her daughter, Kathryn M. Stover (John) of Lawrence, KS; a son, Dr. Douglas E. McKee (Margie) of Visalia, CA; four grandchildren: Dr. Mark C. Stover (Emily) of San Francisco, CA; Joy Stover Halgren (Steven) of Overland Park, KS; Meghan McKee Finn ( Kevin) of San Francisco, CA; and Kaitlin McKee of San Francisco, CA.

Memorial service arrangements are pending. Contributions may be made in her honor to the First Presbyterian Church Endowment Fund or to the Good Samaritan Fund at the Lawrence Presbyterian Manor. Both may be sent in care of Warren-McElwain Mortuary.

Online condolences may be sent to www.warrenmcelwain.com

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Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Aug. 31, 2015.

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October 23, 2015

We are so very sorry to learn of Shirley's death. Our hearts and prayers are with the family as you remember and honor her. Delber and Margaret McKee (New Wilmington, PA; Delber is cousin to Shirley's husband)

Betty Hazlett

September 1, 2015

Shirley was a great friend and a great lady with many talents. We will miss her.

Cheryl Harmon

August 31, 2015

I was so saddened to hear of Shirley's going home but at the same time felt joy for her knowing she is again with Dave and our Lord. She was such a wonderful person and epitomized a true Lady. I will always remember her grace and warmth towards all of us who knew her.

August 31, 2015

To the family of Shirley McKee,

So sorry to hear of your Mother's death -- we had been friends since college days, and she and Glee worked together on the Gold Medal Club committee. She was such a faithful member of our church. May God bless each of you during this trying time.

Glee and Jerry Smith

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