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Sandra Gordon "SanDee" Nossaman obituary

Sandra Nossaman Obituary

Sandra Gordon "SanDee" Nossaman

Sandra Gordon Nossaman, 73, daughter of Charles Gordon and Helen Wheat Gordon was born March 15, 1940 and raised in Medicine Lodge, Kansas. She was a graduate of Texas Christian University. SanDee was very active in a myriad of volunteer activities throughout her life and cared deeply for her friends and family. She died at Lawrence Memorial Hospital on November 1, 2013 and is survived by her husband of 50 years, Jerry Nossaman, son Cale Nossaman, daughters Cali Nossaman, and Cara Nossaman Anderson, grandsons Winton and Wrenner Anderson, and sister Mary Gordon Wafel from Keenesburg, Colorado. Memorials may be sent in her name to Douglas County CASA, Lawrence Meals on Wheels, or Bert Nash Community Mental Health Center. A gathering to celebrate SanDee's life will be announced at a later date.

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Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Nov. 3, 2013.

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Fontelle Slater

October 28, 2020

One of the perks of getting old is the time to muse about your life--- The Good, The Bad and The Ugly. Sandy is still a standout in my Good memories. I'm so happy I knew her during years I was becoming the old woman I am.

Joy Clumsky

November 11, 2013

Dear Jerry, Cale, Cali, and Cara,
Monte and I are so sad about your loss of Sandee. I remember meeting her for the first time when our husbands were attending dental school. She was so warm and friendly and helpful. She will be missed and lovingly remembered.
Joy and Monte Clumsky

Ann Lindquist

November 10, 2013

Dear Jerry, Cale, Cara, Cali and Mary
We are so sorry to hear of Sandee's passing. She was such a beautiful person inside and out. So warm and loving and always there to help you in need. She will be missed by many, but, her light will shine on forever. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Ann and Jay Lindquist and family and DJ Baird

Dorothy Stutler

November 8, 2013

It's so sad! She'll certainly be missed by so many. My thoughts are with all of you. She touched so many hearts!

marcia oelschlager

November 7, 2013

Sandee was a truly wonderful person. She made everyone feel special and would brighten anyones day. All who were friends with her adored her.She will be sorely missed.

marcia o

November 7, 2013

I didn't know Sandee well, but whenever our paths crossed, she lit up my day. She will be missed. Blessings and peace to the family. Lis Niswonger

Bonnie Slack

November 5, 2013

I looked, tonight, for a tear or two on the KU jayhawker.
Prayers and Hugs to the family & friends of a very special person.
Bonnie Bliss Slack - MLHS class of '58.

November 5, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with Jerry and all the family at this sad time. We know SanDee is now at peace and comforted.
Connie & Hugo Huslig

November 5, 2013

Cali,
I was so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. Warmest thoughts and prayers.
Carla Westheffer (LHS)

Mary Lou Hinz

November 5, 2013

Mary, Jerry and Family,
I dearly loved SanDee! Who didn't? I always attributed her as the one who saved my life when I was at the swimming pool in Medicine Lodge and managed to get into water deeper than I could handle! I was too shy to holler for help, but SanDee saw me bobbing and came to my rescue. She was my idol and I always wanted to be just like her. What a wonderful role model she was to all! She will be greatly missed. You all are in my thoughts and prayers!!!

November 5, 2013

Jerry and family and Mary,
I knew San Dee only briefly. However, I soon learned what an impact she made in Medicine Lodge and Lawrence. I was most impressed by her kindness and engaging laugh. Her family was left with an amazing legacy of strength and caring. Our community and friends will sorely miss her.
Alan Goering
Medicine Lodge

Michelle Myers

November 5, 2013

Very sorry to hear about your loss. May your hearts be filled with the wonderful memories of your mother.

Julie Hedges Lowrance

November 5, 2013

I was so sorry to hear of SanDee's passing. I pet sat the family cat many years ago and she was such a sweet person. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Michelle Saunders

November 4, 2013

I remember meeting Sandee for the first time. She had a beautiful smile that lit up her whole face. She and Jerry drove to my home in DeSoto to welcome my middle son who was born not long after I started work here in town. It made an impression on me and as I learned more about them I realized that she and Jerry are both thoughtful, kind and special people. I hope and pray for peace for her family during this saddest of times.

Tamara Gyles McEwen

November 4, 2013

She was such a lovely lady. My thoughts are with all of you.

Janice Dixon

November 4, 2013

Jerry, I am so sorry for your loss. I have just been through this and it is hard. May God comfort and strengthen you and your family in these trying times.

Michelle Shurtleff

November 4, 2013

"I am so sorry for your loss"

Phyllis Wehling

November 4, 2013

Jerry, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I remember meeting Sandee sometime in the late 50's when you were dating her. She was a beautiful and a lovely lady. I pray for God's guidance and help through out the next few months. Blessings, Phyllis

Gary Slack

November 4, 2013

The shock cannot be expressed in words. All the memories that come flooding back. Everyone who knew Sandy has suffered a great loss. My prayers go out to her and her family. Gary Slack

Jane and LeRoy Horn

November 4, 2013

SanDee was one of my dearest friends. We met in first grade, lived a block apart, played together (often in the storage cabinet in the wall way above her bed), shared wild escapades as teenagers, had a Homer and Jethro act together, spent her first two years of college together and in recent years enjoyed high school reunions and special reunions with 16 other college women from our sophomore year. That all was part of the fun. The more important part of our relationship was her love and caring, traits she shared with many. Everyone who knew SanDee was a very fortunate person. She was one of a kind. LeRoy and I send our condolences to Jerry and the family. With love, Jane Howard Horn and LeRoy Horn

Dea Burmingham

November 4, 2013

I got to know Sandee over the last year. I so enjoyed her. She was a delight. My condolences and prayer to the family.

Ann and Jack Ozegovic

November 4, 2013

SanDee would always greet us with such a warm and generous smile, making us feel special. We're sure everyone feels the same way. What a wonderful person who will be sorely missed. Our sincere sympathies to Jerry and family.

Mary Jane Coolidge

November 4, 2013

Mary, Jerry and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I always wished I had a big sister like Sandy. Sending prayers of peace and comfort at this difficult time. Mary Jane Coolidge

Scott MacGregor

November 4, 2013

So sorry.

Liz Phillips

November 4, 2013

so very sorry to hear of Sandee's passing.

Mischa Buchholz

November 4, 2013

I was so saddened to hear of your loss. May her spirit bring joy to your hearts. I am thinking of all of you.

John W. Nixon

November 4, 2013

Jeez. I just heard here in Medicine Lodge that Sandee passé away. I just talked to her at Indian Summer days at the Stockade a few weeks ago. Such a neat gal and always so nice to me and my mother Maxine Nixon. I will miss her at 99 Springs as well. My thoughts and prayers are with her sister and family.

Meghan Bardwell

November 4, 2013

I am so sorry for the loss of your mother, wife, grandma, and friend. She will be missed dearly!! Thoughts and prayers to you all through this tough time.

Grant Kaufman

November 4, 2013

So sorry for your loss Jerry. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

November 4, 2013

Lawrence and Kathy Holt of Cambridge, Ks
I'm so sorry to hear about Sandee. Since she was my best friends sister, I feel especially sad. God bless you all and may God's comfort lead you to peace. Loving memories of Sandee at their home in Medicine Lodge.

November 4, 2013

Jerry - Sending my sympathy and prayers and letting you know my heart goes out to you and your family at this time of sadness. Belva Yarberry Dauner, Bend, Oregon.

November 4, 2013

Jerry, Cali, Cara & Cale,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. SanDee was such a wonderful, loving, kind person. She will be missed. You are in my prayers, Rita (Barritt) Burke

November 4, 2013

Cali, I'm so sorry to learn about the passing of your Mother. She was so special to so many people, and I hope that will give you great comfort. Much Love, Laura Green

November 4, 2013

I was so sorry to hear of the passing of your loved one and want to extend my sincere sympathy to all of her family. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of your great sorrow Richard L.Krug

Sarah and Bob Casad

November 4, 2013

Dear Nossamans,

Our thoughts and prayer are with you all at this difficult time. Sandee leaves a big hole in the lives of many people, even those of us who didn't know her nearly well enough.
Sarah and Bob Casad

curtis wieland

November 4, 2013

I'm sorry for your loss. She still had the same smile I remember from when she was my baby-sitter when she was in High School.

Curtis Wieland

Fontelle Slater

November 4, 2013

I've always felt lucky to have grown up in Medicine Lodge and an important part of that good fortune was having Sandy Gordon as a friend. I've been remembering those years and realized I can't remember a single instance when she said or did anything that was unkind. (Wish I could say the same for myself.) Although we didn't stay in close contact after high school, I was always comforted by the knowledge that life in general was improved because she was in it. I know I'm just one of many who will miss her, she was easy to love.

Staci Dobbins

November 4, 2013

It's always tough to find the right words to say in times of such sorrow because there aren't any.. but the words of the previous entries really tell what an amazing, genuine, and loving woman SanDee is. Truly honored to know her as everyone has expressed. My heart holds a very special place for the Nossaman family. Thinking of you Jerry. <3

Linda Kelly

November 4, 2013

To Sandee's family, my heart goes out to you for your great loss. Her warmth and compassion are an inspiration to us all. Linda Kelly

Katie Armitage

November 4, 2013

I was so sorry to read about Sandee in yesterday's Journal World. She was just a lovely person whom I wish I had seen more often. My sympathy to Jerry and family and to her many friends.

November 4, 2013

Jerry, I am so sorry to hear the news. You and your family are in our prayers.
David and Doris Harding

November 4, 2013

Jerry and family,

I am so stunned at SanDee's passing. She was one of the first women I met when I came to Lawrence and we immediately formed a connection. Every time we were together, we just picked up where we left off. SanDee was the light in the room and the joy in all of our hearts. My admiration for her is boundless.

Korianne Daboda (Kaleikini)

November 4, 2013

Cali and Cara - I am so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family and keeping you in my prayers.

Bob and Shirley Brandt

November 4, 2013

Jerry and kids,
Our hearts ache for all of you. Sandee was a beautiful loving woman with such a precious spirit. I will always remember that smile that would light up her face. Winton and Renner will have a special angel watching over them always.

November 4, 2013

Jerry and kids, our hearts ache for all of you. Sandee was a beautiful loving woman with such a precious spirit. Winton and Renner will always have a special angel watching over them.

Molly Hill Patten

November 3, 2013

For as long as I can remember life, SanDee was a part of mine. When I think of home, Kansas, my mom, childhood, sunflowers, the birth of my first child, I think of SanDee - her smile, wisdom and warmth. You always felt yourself with SanDee, and your best self at that. I am a better person for having known her, and will miss seeing, talking to and sharing life with her. With all my love --

Jim Russo

November 3, 2013

She was an outstanding person, and I loved to see the way her eyes would light up when she talked about her family.

Stanci March

November 3, 2013

One of the great lights in this world who had the unique gift of helping others see the light within themselves. Warm thoughts of comfort and strength for her wonderful family in this difficult time.

November 3, 2013

Jerry, so sorry to hear about SanDee. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Bob Skahan

November 3, 2013

Sandee was truly a kind soul. There are too many memories to mention, but we always enjoyed seeing her when she came to Colorado to visit her sister Mary. There are so many people who will miss her, but most of all her family. All our best to Jerry, Cara, Cali and Cale. Susan and Bill Warren

Jeni Weinberg

November 3, 2013

I have never known such a kind, wonderful, loving, gentle person than Mrs. Nossaman. We are all so blessed to have known her.

November 3, 2013

Jerry - Pere and I just received word about SanDee and we are heartbroken. She was a wonderful woman and a joy to be around. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We love you.

Susan Munson Owen

November 3, 2013

My heart just aches. SanDee was so loving and genuine. Heaven gained a very special woman.

Trish Hilliard Emmons

November 3, 2013

SanDee was a part of our family when she was our babysitter. I know than my mother thought of her as a member of our family and a fifth daughter. As one of my sisters said today, SanDee was perfect. I remember her setting her hair with pin curls when we were at Chinwak and treating us like little sisters. Always gracious.
Our thoughts are with each of you; Jerry, Cale, Calli, Cara and her two boys.

Jessica Davis

November 3, 2013

I am so very sorry to hear of SanDee's passing. I had the opportunity to meet SanDee through the Lawrence Pi Beta Phi Alum club. My thoughts are with her family during this time.

Karen Covington-Hutchison

November 3, 2013

I am so sorry to hear of SanDee's passing. I shall always remember her beautiful smile and the twinkle in her eyes. She was a beautiful woman inside and out. My prayers are with all the family.

Meedith, John and Owen Kleykamp/Basso

November 3, 2013

Jerry, Cara, Cali and Cale and Winton and Wrenner: We are so very sorry to learn of SanDee's passing. You are part of our Lawrence family and our hearts are heavy. May peace be with you all in the coming days. Hugs.

Josie Lewis Wallerstedt

November 3, 2013

You will always live in our hearts and prayers.

November 3, 2013

With love and joy, I will always remember SanDee. What a woman! Blessings to Jerry and all the family at this time of loss. Thinking of you all. Eleanor S. Meyers

Kisa Nichols

November 3, 2013

What a blessing it was to see Sandee just a week ago. She was a warm and wonderful lady. Many prayers to her family during this time of loss.

Jen Dillon/Spiess

November 3, 2013

I am very sorry to learn of SanDee's passing. Praying for your entire family to get through this difficult time.

connie Foelgner

November 3, 2013

Sandy & I were high school classmates, and cheerleaders together in Medicine Lodge. She was always a"sparkle" everywhere she went...wonderful lady

Alan Hanson

November 3, 2013

My memory of Sandee is a happy fun loving teenager as we grew up as neighbors and friends in ML. I'm sad.

Mary & Brower Burchill

November 3, 2013

Brower and I will truly miss SanDee's fun interchanges. She was a good friend and will be remembered well. Our thoughts are with all of the family.

Valentino Stella

November 3, 2013

Condolences Jerry and family from the Stellas. What a wonderful lady. Always enjoyed my interactions with SanDee.
Val and Beth

robyn quick

November 3, 2013

I will never forget you... you treated me like your own xoxo

Chas DeGeer

November 3, 2013

Sandy was one of the real bright spots at MLHS. She was always one of my favorite people - ever upbeat and positive. I regret our paths took different forks and we didn't meet as often as I'd have liked. Our condolences to Jerry and the rest of the family.

Carol Hawkins

November 3, 2013

It was always such a fun time when SanDee came to Colorado to visit her sister and my best friend, Mary. We laughed and laughed at the silly things our kids did and reflected on the joys of motherhood. She was truly a genuine and special lady.

Brenda McFadden

November 3, 2013

I'm so sorry Jerry. My heart breaks for you.

Elizabeth Day

November 3, 2013

I am sorry to hear of Sandee's passing and send my deep condolonces to her family. Sandee's warm and compassionate spirit is a gift to us all.

Jane Rutledge

November 3, 2013

I have such happy memories of SanDee and her family. Condolences and best wishes to you all.

Beth Kelley

November 3, 2013

Lawrence has lost a beautiful and wonderful woman. I'm so happy to have known Sandee and her family. Peace for her and to her family - Love Beth Kelley

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