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Ruth Tomasek Obituary

Ruth Vivian Tomasek died May 6, 2016, at Presbyterian Manor in Lawrence, Kansas. She was born September 13, 1930, in Western Springs, Illinois, the daughter of August B. and Vivian Ruth (Dooner) Waltershausen. Ruth graduated from Oberlin College in 1952. She taught first grade in Western Springs before marrying Robert D. Tomasek on November 28, 1953. They moved to Lawrence in 1957. She was a member of Trinity Episcopal Church and its choir. She was also a member of Lawrence Music Club, Sigma Alpha Iota International Music Fraternity, and the Motet Singers. Ruth was a volunteer driver for Meals on Wheels for 25 years. She also volunteered for Audio Reader and LINK. Ruth traveled widely, beginning with a six-month trip to Europe that she and Bob took as a young married couple. She loved the beauty of the natural world, especially birds. Ruth is survived by her husband, Robert, of Lawrence Presbyterian Manor; by their three daughters, Mary Carey (John), Freehold, N.J., Katherine Tomasek, Lawrence, and Sarah Tomasek (Alan Yost), North Andover, Mass.; and by three grandchildren, Helen Carey and Rachel and Christopher Yost. Also surviving is her brother George. She was preceded in death by her brother John. A private graveside service will be held at Oak Hill Cemetery. Contributions in memory of Ruth may be made to a charity of the donor's choice and may be sent in care of Warren-McElwain Mortuary. Online condolences may be sent to warrenmcelwain.com.

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Published by Lawrence Journal-World from May 7 to May 10, 2016.

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Jan and Jim Erland

May 23, 2016

Ruth was a lovely, compassionate friend we knew for years at Trinity church. Our love and condolences to the Tomesek family.

Jan and Jim Erland

May 23, 2016

The Erland Family is saddened by the loss of Ruth, a long time family friend.We give our prayers and condolences to the lovely Tomesek family.

Regina Krause

May 16, 2016

Ruthie was a wonderful volunteer for Audio Reader and I enjoyed singing with her in Trinity's Choir. She was always a bright spot in my life.

Ruth & Austin Turney

May 16, 2016

We will miss Ruth, in fact both Tomaseks, very much at church. Ruth was also a user of our parish library.

May 14, 2016

It was a pleasure to know Ruth and to make music in the Lawrence Music Club.
Alice Jo and Stanley DeFries

Sharon Dwyer

May 12, 2016

Kathy,
I am very sorry for your loss.
Peace,
Sharon Dwyer

Sharilyn Wells

May 11, 2016

Love to the family

Jerry and Nancy Hanson

May 10, 2016

Our sincere condolences to Bob and all his family! We knew Ruth, through Trinity over many years as a lovely, kind, caring, and unassuming person and friend to all. We are deeply sorry for your loss.

Ellyn Owen

May 10, 2016

My sympathies to the family. Ruth was a loving and gentle member of Trinity and she will be missed.

Liana

May 10, 2016

In loving memory of Ruth Tomasek.

Liana Wright

May 10, 2016

Keeping my friend Ruth's husband Bob and daughters in my thoughts and prayers through this time of sorrow.Ruth was such a delight to visit with. The short time I got to know her was amazing. She always had a beautiful smile I will never forget.She was a strong woman with grace.I will miss her dearly.

May 9, 2016

hope all is well.

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120 W 13th St, Lawrence, KS 66044

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