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1934

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2024

Ruth Fredrickson Obituary

Services for Ruth Mildred Fredrickson, 89, Lawrence will be held at 10 a.m. on Friday, May 24, 2024 at Redeemer Lutheran Church in Lawrence. The family will greet friends prior to the service at 9 a.m. at the church. A private graveside committal will follow.

Ruth died peacefully on Monday, May 20, 2024 at the Dunn House in Baldwin City, KS.

Ruth was born on November 23, 1934 near Tecumseh, NE. She was the first daughter of five born to John O. and Velma N. Lillich. She graduated in 1953 from Deshler High School, where she met her future husband Mit Fredrickson. While Mit served four years in the Marines, Ruth went to nursing school, graduating from Lincoln General in 1956. She worked as a nurse for 35 years.

Mit and Ruth married in June 20, 1958 at Trinity Lutheran Church in Friedensau, NE. They were married for 65 years. They were blessed with six children, four who are living.

They moved to Lawrence in the early 1970s. She then began delivering for Meals on Wheels and continued to do so well into her retirement. She was a charter member of Redeemer Lutheran Church and serving as the financial secretary for 40 years. She was a member of the Lutheran Women's Missionary League and the church Alter Guild. She enjoyed quilting and knitting, and was a beekeeper for over 25 years. She was a member of the Kaw Valley Bluebird Association for 12 years and greatly enjoyed monitoring and maintaining the trails. She liked to garden and raised a variety of chickens and other fowl. Mit and Ruth loved square dancing and were members of the Merry Mixers and the Barn Dancers. She was an enthusiastic singer and enjoyed a large number of hymns. Ruth was a cancer survivor.

She was proceeded in death by her parents, John and Velma, her sister Margaret, and her two youngest children, Steven and Thomas. She is survived by her husband, Mit, her sisters: Rachel, Sarah (Gordon), and Gretchen, her children: David (Karen), Kevin (Lisa), Debbie (Larry,) and Philip, her grandchildren: Jennifer (Chris), Rachel, Timothy, Amanda (Will), John, James, Rebecca, and Emily, and her great-grandchildren: Caleb, Aidric, Anna, and Finley, and numerous nieces and nephews.

Memorial contributions may be made in Ruth's name to Meals on Wheels or Redeemer Lutheran Church and may be sent in care of Warren-McElwain Mortuary, 120 W. 13th Street, Lawrence, KS 66044.

For more information or to post a condolence go to warrenmcelwain.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Lawrence Journal-World on May 23, 2024.

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Kelli White

January 11, 2026

I love you, Ruth!
As i take care of my mom, 90, in her home, my mind travels to Ruth so many times. I think our working relationship changed when i told her my parents met at square dance lessons, then danced past when i left their home. Ruth loved that story.
I loved her honey!
I cannot explain the depth of the affection i have for Ruth still. My heart swells.
May all delightful blessings journey with Ruth into the aethers.
My heart is with her family. I am sure they miss her.

Coleen Good

May 24, 2024

I am sad for you and your family. Just be grateful for the good years you had! Just be grateful for the 65 years you had together. I remember all the great times we had square dancing! Those memories are the one´s we cherish!!!

Steve Dillon

May 24, 2024

I'm saddened to learn of Ruth's death. I have many fond memories of her and her work on the surgical floor at LMH. Kevin, my condolences to you and all of your family on this sad event.

Harry Morgan

May 23, 2024

Mit, I am sorry for your loss. I know it is heartbreaking. Be strong and be your usual positive self.

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9:00 a.m.

Redeemer Lutheran Church

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May

24

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10:00 a.m.

Redeemer Lutheran Church

Lawrence, KS

Funeral services provided by:

Warren-McElwain Mortuary & Cremation Services - Lawrence Chapel

120 W 13th St, Lawrence, KS 66044

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