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Roberta McDow Obituary

A visitation for Roberta J. McDow, 87, Lawrence will be held from 2:00 – 4:00 p.m. Saturday, April 29, 2017, at Warren-McElwain Mortuary in Lawrence. Private inurnment will be at a later date at Memorial Park Cemetery. She passed away Sunday, April 23, 2017, at Lawrence Memorial Hospital.

Roberta was born April 24, 1929, in Cincinnati, IA, the daughter of Matthew and Helen (Wilkinson) Ross.

She was a member of Plymouth Congregational Church, past President of Alvamar Country Club and a former President of the Lawrence Board of Realtors. She loved spending time with her grandkids, was a hole-in-one-good golfer, world traveler, bridge player, avid reader and a talented knitter. She was "Teacher" to a women's knitting group for more than a decade. She had many friends whom she loved.

Roberta moved to Lawrence in 1959 and opened the Ben Franklin Store with Don. She then worked at McGrew Real Estate Agency and owned McDow/Bodin Real Estate Agency for 24 years until she retired in 1990.

She married Donald Gene McDow September 9, 1949, in Kansas City, MO. He preceded her in death October 29, 2016.

Survivors include her daughters, Suzanne Nutt and husband, David, Deborah "Debbie" Miller and husband, Mark; five grandchildren, Sara Nutt (David Gagne), Katy Hamilton (Barrett), J. Bradley Nutt (Eleysha), Andrew Miller (Lacey), Erin Miller; six great-grandchildren, Augustus, Emery, Kellen, Konnor, Jayden, Landyn; and sister-in-law, Kay Dudley and Mac. She was preceded in death by her parents, Matt and Helen Ross; her son, Richard McDow; sister, Barbara Gibson; and niece, Linda Gibson.

Memorial contributions may be made in her name to Visiting Nurses or Douglas County Historical Society and may be sent in care of the mortuary.

When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, "I used everything you gave me." - Erma Bombeck

Online condolences may be posted at warrenmcelwain.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Lawrence Journal-World from Apr. 25 to Apr. 26, 2017.

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May 13, 2017

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Sean Williams

May 2, 2017

Sue & Deb, My heart goes out to you and your family -- but I have to smile as I remember how gracious and hospitable your mother was -- she set a tone for OWL and the golf course. Tears and cheers! She was a wonderful influence.

Janet Butcher

April 30, 2017

Debbie-I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. She was a wonderful lady. I'll be thinking about you and your family. Much love.

Ann and Jay Lindquist

April 28, 2017

Our sincere sympathy goes out to Deb and Sue and their families.
Oh how we loved that Berta...she was always there for me and helped me in many ways. We had such good times golfing, playing bridge, sharing recipes and knitting. I loved her so very much. She would always kid me and said she made a bridge monster out of me. :) I will miss her greatly!! I'm sorry I am out of state and won't be able to make the visitation. I keep looking at her picture and remember that smile and that laugh. RIP my dear friend. We shall meet again.

Christy Brandt

April 27, 2017

Roberta will be missed by our family. Sending love and condolences to Sue , Deb and the rest of the family.

Ama

April 26, 2017

We are sorry for your loss.Please be consoled there is hope for a future free from pain and suffering

Nancy Hoffman

April 26, 2017

Roberta, Don, Barbara and Linda will be missed by all the Texas and California families. They were very much loved and sooooo much fun to be around.

Carol Lavery

April 25, 2017

Roberta was a true spark plug in the neighborhood. She and Don were such fun. Peace to the family.

Lynn Beebe

April 25, 2017

Roberta was one of the classiest ladies I have ever known. I can't believe she is gone, I will miss her so very much. God bless you all and bring you peace.

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