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Paul Spearman Obituary

Paul Marion Spearman, 63, died on the 11th day of March 2023 at Kansas University Medical Center in Kansas City, Kansas, following a long illness. He was comforted by his family. His wife, Janice Spearman, survives of the home in Country Club, Missouri. Paul's life will be celebrated at a memorial for family and friends in Lawrence, Kansas.

Paul was born on November 17, 1959, in Lawrence, Kansas to John H. Spearman, Sr. and Vernell Spearman. He loved music and could remember the words of any song he heard. He had a special affection for Jazz, which he got from his father. Paul had a quick wit and loved to laugh.

He graduated from Lawrence High School in 1977. As a high school student Paul was a member of the track team and he was selected to attend Boys' State. He was an active member of the Black American Club. His classmates elected him to student government in 1975 and class treasurer in 1976. After graduation he attended the University of Kansas and Howard University in Washington, D.C. After school, Paul managed McDonald franchises in Washington, D.C. and Guantanamo Bay, Cuba.

Upon his return to Lawrence in 1991, Paul worked primarily as a car salesman at dealerships in Lawrence, Atchison, and the Kansas City metropolitan area until he retired in 2018.

In 1993 Paul married Alesia Smith. They raised two children, Taryn & Ashley, together. The couple divorced in 2003.

In 2004 Paul married Janice Downing, they settled in Atchison, Kansas and eventually moved to Country Club, Missouri.

Paul is survived by his wife Janice; two brothers, John (Eve) and Michael (Mariane); his sister, Terry (Saundra); his children Stephen and Delice Downing, Taryn Wilburn, and Ashley Smallwood; grandchildren Aah'lice, Adrian, Jr. "A2", Brandon and Tyree and a host of nieces, nephews, relatives and many friends. He was preceded in death by his parents John and Vernell, and his sister, Melanie.

In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to: The Spearman Family Student Research and Support Fund for the Department of African and African-American Studies at the University of Kansas. https://www.launchKU.org

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Mar. 15, 2023.

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Larry Throckmorton

June 20, 2023

Hey Paul, I just had a thought and tried to call you. When your phone was disconnected, I went to Google and found this. Rest in peace my friend.

Andrew Galloway

March 16, 2023

The Spearman's lived across the alley from the Galloway's. Paul was younger than me, but I recall watching TV in their home many times and playing up and down the alley. I will cherish the memories of this family always. May the God of Creation comfort your hearts and give you peace. Andrew and Earlene Galloway. Cordova, TN

Reece E. Wiley

March 15, 2023

I knew Paul as a student in some of my classes. Absolutely, a wonderful kid; a good, inquisitive, sensitive, and thoughtful person. His sense of humor was droll and unique.The world is a better place for him having been in it.

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