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Patricia McRae-Denning

Dr. Patricia McRae-Denning, 56, of Lawrence, KS passed away on Monday September 17, 2012 in Lawrence, KS.

She was born on August 5, 1956 in Topeka, KS to Donald Duncan McRae and Mary Alice Martin McRae, the third of four children. She attended public Schools in Topeka, graduated from Kansas State University in 1978 and received her Doctor of Medicine from the University of Kansas in 1982.

She married Dr. Dale Denning in Topeka, KS on May 22, 1982. They first met in freshmen chemistry at Kansas State University in 1974.

Patricia practiced Internal Medicine and was a staff physician at the University of Kansas Watkins Student Health Center for 23 years; the last eight years of which she served as Chief of Staff.

She was a fellow in the American College of Physicians and had served on the Douglas County Dental Board, Lawrence Memorial Hospital Endowment Association Board, and as a volunteer physician at Health Care Access. She was a strong supporter of the Douglas County United Way and was a member of the Spirit of Kaw Valley for many years. She was always looking for ways to give back to the community that she loved so much. She recognized the gifts she had been given and knew she had a responsibility to help others who were less fortunate.

She was a member of Corpus Christi Catholic Church. She enjoyed reading, knitting, horseback riding, playing the piano, traveling, and swing dancing with her husband; especially at the annual Stepping Out Against Breast Cancer Dance. She was a member of Kappa Kappa Gamma Sorority at Kansas State. She was a supporter of the Lawrence School Foundation.

She is survived by her husband, Dale of 30 years, sons Patrick of Mauldin, SC, Bryant of Lawrence, and daughter Elise, of Lawrence; mother, Mary Alice, Topeka, brother Doug and spouse, Debie, Topeka; sister Christie and spouse Andrew Kirmse, Napa Valley, CA; sister Marla and spouse Brad Jeffress, Centennial, CO; in-laws Dan and Mary Denning, Lawrenceville, GA; Dori Denning, Rodando Beach, CA; Randy and Denise Denning DeTurk, Salida, CO; Doug and Gloria Denning, Manhattan, KS; Rick and Dee Denning Martin, Running Springs, CA; Brian and Kate Denning Helfrich, Dodge City, KS; mother-in- law Cecilia Denning, Dodge City, KS; fifteen nieces and nephews. She is preceded in death by her wonderful father, Don and father-in-law, Ralph Denning.

The Parish Rosary will be at 5 p.m. on Thursday at Corpus Christi Catholic Church, followed by a visitation until 8 p.m. The Mass of Christian Burial will be at 10:00 am on Friday September 21, at Corpus Christi Catholic Church in Lawrence. Private inurnment will be at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests memorials in her name to the Lawrence Memorial Hospital Endowment Association, Health Care Access, Douglas County Dental Clinic or Corpus Christi Catholic Church and may be sent in care of Warren-McElwain Mortuary in Lawrence.

Online condolences can be sent to www.warrenmcelwain.com.

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Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Sep. 19, 2012.

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October 1, 2012

I am so very sorry for your loss. May the family of Patricia McRae-Denning gain comfort from the scripture found at Psalms 55:22- God will never allow his righteous one to totter.
~SJM

Yoly Gayoso

September 30, 2012

Dear Dale, Patrick, Bryant, & Elise.
Just heard the very sad news. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Never will forget all the wonderful memories and all the love all of you gave to me. Love you Yoly

Bernadette Burkhart

September 28, 2012

Dale and family my heart goes out to you all. With prayers to you all. Hoping peace will be blessed in your hearts soon.
I will always remember your beautiful wife sitting in front or around us at Corpus christi. I would say when your family came in what a beautiful family this is. God bless you Dale and family. Sincerely,
The Burkharts.

Brenda Kappelman

September 26, 2012

Dear Dale and family and friends of Patricia, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have only met Patricia once at a fundraiser event and was very taken by her. A very lovely lady. Again, my condolences, Brenda Kappelman

Megq Kuhn-Braun

September 25, 2012

Dale, I have great memories of Patsy and you at the Kappa house. You both had distinct infectious laughs that would light up the room. I cannot stop thinking of Patsy and your family's sadness. My apologies for not attending the funeral. I just found out about her death yesterday. Love, Meg Kuhn Braun

Sharon Rohlmeier

September 25, 2012

My thought and prayers are with the entire family. Dr. Patricia Denning was a beautiful, intelligent, wonderful, caring women. She will be missed.

September 25, 2012

Dale and family,so sorry to hear of your loss.God bless you.LaVerne @ Barb Schuster Russell

Becky Holm

September 25, 2012

To the Denning family,
We are thinking of you daily and praying for your strength and comfort during this most difficult time. Love to you all.

Randy and Becky Holm

MARIE

September 24, 2012

My prayer that God will sustain you & this difficult time.So sorry for your loss.

Liz Thielen

September 24, 2012

Dear Dale,This is Liz (Laubhan) Thielen extending heartfelt sympathy to you and your family, for the loss of your wife and of your mother Cecilia who I was so fond of, as was my mother Betty Laubhan who became a close friend when they were neighbors on 15th Street in Russell. You are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you and your children.

Cindy Gress

September 24, 2012

Dr. Dale Denning thinking of you and your family during this most difficult time. You will remain in my thoughts and prayers.

Jim & Krystal Williams

September 23, 2012

To Dr. Dale Denning:
Our thoughts and Prayers are with you!

John Lindsey MD

September 23, 2012

This was a tragic loss of not only a colleague but a friend as well. Patsy's smile and zest for life will be missed by all who had the good fortune to know her. My heart goes out to Dale, her family and friends.

marilyn rein-sorden

September 22, 2012

Although I never knew you I grew up with your husband Dale. My thoughts go out to your family.

Joanne Bergman

September 22, 2012

I am glad to have known you. Peace to your family.

Debbie Carman

September 21, 2012

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I will keep you in my prayers.

Janice Ramsey

September 21, 2012

My heartfelt condolences to your family. I work with Patrick and he is certainly an extension of this great woman. May God Bless you all as you move forward and may your many memories warm your hearts through the coming days.

Rita Lindsey

September 21, 2012

Dale, Patrick, Bryant and Elise,
Mrs. McRae and family,
Patsy was a very good friend to me. We shared many good and fun times being neighbors and friends. I will treasure them forever. I will never forget her smile, her infectious laugh, and the kindness she and Dale have shown to me and my children over the years.

Connie Dennig Yost

September 21, 2012

You have our sympathy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Robbin Reynolds

September 20, 2012

Dear Denning and McRae families - I just heard the news about Patsy this afternoon. It just broke my heart. I knew Patsy from our Topeka days in school. While she was younger than me, I always loved her positive, cheerful disposition. I was fortunate to cross paths with her again at KU basketball games and again saw her warm personality. I loved hearing that she was a doctor and knew she had to have been a terrific one. My thoughts and prayers go out to all the family. Just know that she touched many lives in her journey here on earth.


Kansas City

Tim Ferguson

September 20, 2012

To the McRae-Denning family and Lawrence community, my thoughts and sincere condolences for the unimaginable loss. I work with Patrick and he honors his family daily with the genuine concern and willingness to help others.

Jon Durr

September 20, 2012

Dr. Denning was my primary care physician while I was studying Law at KU. She was a compassionate and thorough caregiver helping me treat several health issues, and I am grateful to her for the personalized service I always received from her with a smile! Both family and community suffer in this loss. She is remembered.

Terri Benedict Herde

September 20, 2012

I am saddened to hear about the sudden loss of a wonderful woman. I spent four years at the Kappa house with I will remember her as funny, witty, smart and so much fun and a friend to all. My prayers go out to both families.

Kara Cavender

September 20, 2012

To the McRae and Denning families,

There have been so many comments about how wonderful Patsy was and she was! I was one too that went to Junior High and TWHS with her and have nothing but good memories of her. Please know that she was thought of highly in Topeka as well. You are in my prayers.

Eloise Lenahan

September 20, 2012

Beth and I were shocked by the news of Patsy's death and our thoughts and prayers are with you.It was a great privelege to know her and I know she brought joy to everyone who knew her.

Claire Selzer Whiteman

September 20, 2012

Mary Alice--I am so very sorry to hear about Patsy's death. She and my sister Ann remained in contact since elementary school and I fondly remember her from my childhood. I also have fond memories of summers at Camp Lake Huber--some of the greatest times of my childhood--which you facilitated. My heart goes out to you.

Nathan McCall

September 20, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Susan McClure Bailey

September 20, 2012

My heart truly is heavy burdened as I send this message of sympathy and love for the McRae and Denning families. Our years together at Whitson, Capper, Topeka West and Kansas State are some of my happiest memories. I fondly recall how Patsy would throw her head back a little and give a big laugh! Our days at Camp Lake Hubert together as Robins will be with me always. I am so sad I cannot attend her service due to previous travel plans. Please know I will be praying for God's comfort and peace for all of you.

Margot Pickering

September 20, 2012

Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow and loss, may looking back in memory of your time with Patricia Denning, help comfort you.

Rayann Eversmeyer

September 20, 2012

So sorry for your loss. Please know that you have my deepest sympathy. May the knowledge that others have you in their thoughts and prayers help comfort you and your family at this sad time.

Grace Hwang

September 20, 2012

Dear Dale and Family,
We are all so saddened, please know that we are all thinking of you and your family with deepest sympathy,

Susan Hoefer

September 20, 2012

May the light of God watch over you.

Susan Hoefer

September 20, 2012

So, so sorry for your loss. May the support of friends and family comfort you and blessings of peace and love soothe your spirit.

September 20, 2012

I worked with Patsy at KU and enjoyed all my interactions with her. Blessings to you in your time of loss. Ola Faucher, KU Human Resources

Zoe Seymour

September 20, 2012

As a classmate of Patsy's at Capper and Topeka West, I cannot help but recall her smile. I will always remember her being so happy, friendly, & outgoing. To her family, I wish you strength and peace at this time.

Jerry Denning

September 19, 2012

In this difficult time I remember Dr. Denning's sunny, welcoming smile and presence, and my prayers go out for Dr. Dale, Patrick, Bryant, Elise,and other relatives.

Paula and Curt Baum

September 19, 2012

We are so sorry to hear of Patsy's sudden passing. She was always so welcoming and engaging and her smile could light up a room! We will keep you all in our prayers.

Kelly Bennett, MD

September 19, 2012

Dr. Denning was a fantastic leader and friend. She had an influence on everyone who knew her. She helped teach me the ropes on how to be a college health medical director. We'll miss you at Big XII this year and in the future.

Darlene & Scott Allen

September 19, 2012

We're saddened to learn of Patsy's death. Our thoughts are with the family!

A childhood Westboro neighbor

Michele Roberts

September 19, 2012

I will Miss You Grasshopper!!!! I was a joy to have been you friend and your nurse aid. I will miss our joking and your smile and your noisy slippers going across the floor at work. My you Be in Peace!!!! Love Ya!!!

Marcia Ackerman

September 19, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Denning and McRae
family and friends.
Dan and Marcia Ackerman Devlin.

Daniel Ohlemeier

September 19, 2012

Sophomore year of high school I'd regularly give my friend Patrick rides home from school. Upon arriving at the Denning homestead we'd park our rears in the kitchen and chow down on a fridge full of goodies Dr. Denning always made sure was well stocked. She loved making sure us growin' boys had full stomachs. Needless to say she won me over! I will never forget Mama Denning and my heart of hearts is with Dale, Patrick, Bryant and Elise.

Becky Palumbo

September 19, 2012

It is with great sadness that I write this. I will long remember the special times I was so fortunate to share with Patsy, dating back to grade school at Whitson. Whether it was our days as Bluebirds, horseback riding together, or playing golf, her fun loving spirit was ever present and contagious. She leaves us much too early, but her legacy as a thoughtful and compassionate woman will be remembered by all who knew Patsy. To every member of the McRae and Denning family, may God's peace and comfort be with you.

Ruth Caffey

September 19, 2012

Dr Denning and Family ,from our family to yours we are so sorry for your loss,our thoughts and prayers are with all of you .

Claudia Terrell

September 19, 2012

I work with Dr. Denning at Watkins Health Center for 7 years. She always made me feel special. My deepest sympathy.

J. Ann Selzer

September 19, 2012

Patsy stayed overnight with me this summer on her way to be camp doctor for a week at Camp Lake Hubert, where we both went as kids. It was always great to catch up with her and this news is a blow. She was my first friend in first grade and that is a bond that lasts forever. My heart aches for all the McRaes and Dennings.

Eric Huerter

September 19, 2012

I am so very saddened and sorry for your loss. You're in my prayers.

Rebecca Bumgarner

September 19, 2012

Dear Denning Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I work with Patrick; he has shared several family events and traditions of the Denning family. Clearly you are a blessed family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.

Chris Malik

September 19, 2012

Dear Dale, Patrick, Bryant, and Elise,

I offer my deepest condolences for the loss of such a wonderful mom and wife. Patricia shared so many wonderful things with her friends, family, and the community. I wish you all strength at this difficult time and know that you are in my many thoughts and prayers.

Sam Cote

September 19, 2012

We are deeply saddened by the news of Patricia's passing, and express our since condolances and sympathy to Dale, her children and the family. Patricia has a long history with our camps, as a second generation camper herself, and when her kids joined our camp family as third generation campers, that was quite special. The whole family clan joined us for our 100 Year Celebration in September of 2009, and what a treat it was to have all three generations present for that event, with her Mom and alumnus Mary Alice McRae leading the way. Patricia has been our lead camp doctor for the past many years, and she will be missed indeed. She was a perfect match for our first-of-the season camp doctor. Her caring dispostion, her warm smile, her obvious servants heart and attentive demeanor sets her apart indeed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Sam, Bill, Ruggs, Andre, Laura, Stacey, Wendy and all your friends at Camp Lincoln and Camp Lake Hubert.

Vanessa Adamson

September 19, 2012

Denning Family,
She was a wonderful woman and will never be forgotten. My condolences to your entire family.

Nancy Hamlin-Mannucci

September 19, 2012

Dr. Denning, My thoughts and prayers are with you and the children. I am so sorry for your loss.

Penny Lacey Kinder

September 19, 2012

I am so saddened by the news of Patsy's passing. I too knew her in high school. We roomed together at KSU for a short time. She was an inspiration. My sincere condolences to her friends and family.

Monty Smith

September 19, 2012

I am saddened to hear of Patsy's passing. We were students together at Capper Junior High, and Topeka West High Schools. Though we were not close friends, Patsy always stood out from the crowd as a lovely, Christian woman towards whom others were naturally drawn. Bright, happy, intelligent, and caring, best describe how I will remember Patsy. Our prayers and thoughts are with family and friends in this difficult time. She will be missed.

Sandy and Bill Hecht

September 19, 2012

Patricia's kindness, generosity, and wonderful smile will be missed by so many. Our prayers go up for the strength and comfort of your family.

Cindy Hageman

September 19, 2012

I am so saddened by the loss of a dear Kappa sister. She was an example to all of us, and will be missed. God bless her and her family at this time of great sorrow.

Karen O'Connor

September 19, 2012

Dear Denning Family,

Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of Patricia.

Dave and Gina Norton

September 19, 2012

We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Dale and the kids at this very difficult time.

Lori Tilson

September 19, 2012

Such a shock to hear of this-- will be thinking of you in this difficult time.

Shelley Sikes Baker

September 19, 2012

I am so saddened to hear of Patsy's passing. She was a wonderful friend and classmate of mine while growing up in Topeka. From grade school at Whitson, Capper Junior High, Topeka West High School, Camp Fire, & of course the Topeka Round Up Club, I have so many wonderful memories which include Patsy. She was the best Science class lab partner one could have! We loved riding our horses with Marla & friends whether we were on trail rides or working on horsemanship together. She was a thoughtful friend and a brilliant woman. She will be missed. God bless Dale, their children, Mary Alice, Christie, Doug, & Marla.

Jody

September 19, 2012

I worked with Dr. Denning at the Watkins Health Center for 6 years. She was a great physician and a wonderful woman. I'm so very sorry for your loss.

Peter & Carolyn Dorhout

September 19, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with Dale, Patrick, Bryant, and Elise during this very difficult time. The 23rd Psalm has been our comfort and guide.

September 19, 2012

So very sorry to hear this. I attended school in Topeka with Patsy and haven't seen her since, but she obviously had a wonderful life that touched many people and ended much too soon. My sincere condolences to her family and friends.

Marianne Marcy Wessel

Ann Martin

September 19, 2012

I am so sad to hear of Patsy's passing. Patsy was my best friend when I moved to Topeka from Honolulu in 1970. We became friends at Capper Jr High and sayed close all through high school. I went on to college in Arizona but we stayed in touch when I went back to Topeka for visits. Patsy helped me adapt to my new life in Kansas. I will always cherish her friendship. My heart goes out to Dale and her kids, Don, Mary Alice, Marla, Christie and Doug.

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