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Mary Arensberg Obituary

Mary Elizabeth Arensberg passed away Saturday, March 25, 2023, at Lawrence Memorial Hospital at the age of 87.

Mary was born on June 1, 1935, in Atchison, KS to Raymond and Maureen (Caldwell) Clark. She graduated high school from Mount St. Scholastica in Atchison and then began working at the telephone office as an operator.

Mary married Jack Arensberg on July 19, 1958, in Atchison, KS and he passed away in 2018. Mary and Jack moved to Lawrence shortly after they married and opened Arensberg's Shoes in Downtown Lawrence. Mary did the books for the store for 35 years. She was a dedicated Catholic and was a member, at one time or another, at each of Lawrence's Catholic Churches. She was President of the Lawrence Memorial Hospital Auxiliary and volunteered there for many years. Mary was an avid golfer and stayed active with weekly workouts. Above all, the most important thing to her was her family. She enjoyed spending time with her children and grandchildren.

Mary is survived by her children: Tim (Deanne), Tom (Anita), Jeff, Andy (Denise) Arensberg; Julie Pfister (EJ), her 7 grandchildren, siblings, Larry Clark, and Harriet Celano.

Mary was also preceded in death by her parents,

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held 10:30 a.m. at Corpus Christi Catholic Church on Wednesday, April 12, 2023, with a family only burial to follow. A reception will be held at Lawrence Country Club at 1:00pm.

In lieu of flowers, please send donations to Lawrence Memorial Hospital Auxiliary and may be sent in care of Warren-McElwain Mortuary, 120 W. 13th Street, Lawrence, KS 66044.

For more information or to post a condolence go to warrenmcelwain.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Mar. 28, 2023.

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Vicki Condra-Williams

April 5, 2023

I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your mom, please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Judy Riling

March 29, 2023

So many memories of Mary being in my life and growing up in a neighborhood full of fun and families!
My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time.

Tracy Diel

March 28, 2023

Tim, Tom and Jeff,
I am sorry for your loss.

Tracy Diel

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