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Marion O'Brien Obituary

Marion Eleanor O'Brien

Dr. Marion O'Brien, MA, PhD, of Jamestown, NC, Professor Emerita at the University of North Carolina, Greensboro, died peacefully on the evening of December 21, 2015. Diagnosed with cancer in June 2015, she remained active and engaged with friends and family until the last week of her life.

She is survived by three children, son Connor O'Brien of Emeryville, CA and daughters Shay O'Brien of Alameda, CA and Lia O'Brien of Greensboro, NC, their spouses, two grandchildren, Rowan O'Brien and Finian Gibbs, and cousin Judy Bley, of San Francisco. She was preceded in death by her parents and brother Albert Meier, all of Philadelphia, and by her husband of 45 years, Dr. W. John O'Brien.

Born on February 4, 1943 to Ferdinand and Eleanor Meier of Philadelphia, PA, she was married to the late W. John O'Brien in 1964. She graduated BA from Gettysburg College in Gettysburg, PA in 1964, and went on to receive her MA and PhD at the University of Kansas, where she enjoyed a distinguished career as an Assistant to Full Professor in the department of Human Development and Family Life. During her 16 years as faculty at KU, she directed a number of significant research programs studying cognitive and social development in young children. During their time in Lawrence, Marion and John were active members of the congregation of Trinity Episcopal Church.

At the University of North Carolina at Greensboro, she went on to serve as a Professor and Mentor Faculty in the Human Development and Family Studies Department from 2001 to 2012 and Associate Dean of Research in the School of Health and Human Services from 2007 to 2011. During her academic career, she served on several editorial boards for prominent journals in the field of child development and was nationally prominent as a researcher and policy advocate. She was a mentor to many students and junior faculty during her career.

Throughout her life and especially so following her retirement, she was an avid traveler who had been on every continent except Antarctica. A loving wife, mother and grandmother, beloved as a wise and compassionate person, she maintained throughout her life the curiosity and humane spirit for which she will be fondly remembered by all who knew her.

The family will receive well-wishers at 4:00 PM, Saturday January 9, 2016 at the Virginia Dare Alumni House on the UNCG campus, with a memorial service to follow.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to The Terri Lynne Lokoff Child Care Foundation.

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Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Jan. 1, 2016.

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Barb Gould

December 20, 2024

She was so interesting and nice. I wish I had known her better.

Barbara Gould

September 10, 2016

I am so sorry for the loss of such a wonderful lady. I wish so much that I had known her and John better. John was my only cousin. The little I got to see them I liked them both so much. Shay, Connor and Lia, I think you are my only blood relatives now except my kids and grandkids. I wish the very best for you and would love to hear from you. Barb Rice Willis Gould

Deborah Vandell

January 23, 2016

I had the great honor of working with Marion for 20 years on the NICHD Study of Early Child Care. Marion was always a voice of reason who treated everyone with respect and kindness. She also had a great smile that could warm a room. She remains an inspiration to her many friends.

George Catt

January 6, 2016

Marion & John were valued friends and clients. My thoughts are with their family.

January 5, 2016

sympathies to the family. Marion was a wonderful, warm and loving person. I enjoyed her lively conversations about her work and as a member of Trinity
Episcopal church. She will be missed.

Ellyn Owen

January 4, 2016

Marion was a kind, generous, and talented colleague. I feel so fortunate to have known her, and I know her loss is great for her children. I hope your memories of her will sustain you in this time. Warm wishes, Martha Cox

January 1, 2016

Shay and family. So sorry to read of your loss. I know she was a good mother to all of you kids. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Mary Beem

Nancy Jorn

January 1, 2016

Marion not only taught about early intervention, she immersed herself in the Lawrence community as a full partner in making it happen. Her legacy continues here in expanded services for families with young children. Working with her was truly a joy!

Janine Cox

January 1, 2016

Marion was a wonderful woman. We served on several committees at Trinity Episcopal Church when she and John lived here. She was brilliant, dedicated, determined and committed to justice for the most vulnerable among us. I know it is because of her and her connection to Sunnyside and Educare at KU that my daughter got the great start in life that she did. Connor, Shay, Lia my deepest sympathy.

Melissa Boisen, Ph.D.

January 1, 2016

Marion was a wonderful person. I am so grateful that she served as my mentor and advisor while working on my doctoral degree at KU. You will be missed Marion...

Rose Eiesland Foster

January 1, 2016

I remember Marion when I worked in HDFL back in the late 1980's and 90's. She was so kind and so, so intelligent. My thoughts and prayers are with her family.

Aletha Huston

January 1, 2016

Marion was a dear friend and colleague. I will miss her.

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