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Lyle Hettinger Obituary

Memorial services for Lyle D. Hettinger, 80, Lawrence, will be 10:30 a.m. Saturday, 7 April 2018, at Immanuel Lutheran Church, Lawrence.

Mr. Hettinger died Sunday, April 1, 2018, at Select Specialty Hospital of Kansas City.

He was born May 20, 1937, in Windsor, CO, the son of Henry D. and Leona Jacoby Hettinger. He graduated from Windsor High School in 1955; Colorado State College --now University of Northern Colorado; and Colorado University-Boulder.

Mr. Hettinger served in the United States Navy on a submarine tender from 1955 to 1959. Lyle taught high school German in Worland, WY for one year, then taught at Montana State University in Bozeman. He worked for and retired from K-Mart Distribution Center, as a food safety inspector. Following retirement he continued working for Manpower, at Del Monte.

He moved to Lawrence, KS, to pursue his doctorate in German literature, and was A.B.D. (all but the dissertation). For Lyle, education was life-long journey…he was always learning through voracious reading and research; he was multi-lingual, a purveyor of hymnody, and he never met a stranger, as he loved learning about everyone and their stories.

Lyle had a keen sense of humor, and loved word play. Lyle also loved his dogs and they each had a special place in his heart. Known for his thirst for knowledge and his kind and gentle ways, this homebody also enjoyed Vermont treks in presidential election years, and annual visits to see family in Colorado and Michigan.

In 1970 he married Bonnie Mitchell and they had two children; they later divorced. He married Sharon L. Simons, May 14, 1988, in Lawrence; she survives of the home.

Other survivors include sons, Michael Hettinger and wife Cheryl (Yemen) of Brampton, ON, Timothy Hettinger and wife Susan (Lee) of Ozone Park, NY; mother, Leona Hettinger of Windsor, CO; brothers, Charles Hettinger and wife Donna of Greeley, CO, Ronald Hettinger of Windsor, CO.

He was preceded in death by his father, Henry Hettinger.

The family suggests memorial contributions to Immanuel Lutheran Church, or the charity of your choice, sent in care of the Rumsey-Yost Funeral Home.

Condolences may be sent at rumsey-yost.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Lawrence Journal-World from Apr. 3 to Apr. 4, 2018.

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Dietrich Buczko

March 28, 2021

I still miss you, old friend, and think of you often. Rest in peace.

Laurie Gearhart

April 11, 2018

Sharon, my heart breaks for you now. From all I saw, heard, and read of your life together, yours was a wonderful match. Peace and love be with you at this sad time.

Wayne Thorpe

April 9, 2018

Lyle and I met as graduate students at the U of Colorado. We kept in touch for many years thereafter. But we lost contact. Since he was in Lawrence when we lost touch, I checked this newspaper for news of him. I did so in early April. He was humane and humorous and a warm person. I am so sorry for his family and friends.

April 7, 2018

Dear Sharon and family. Jay and I are sending love, peace, comfort and prayers! Lyle was a wonderful, thoughtful and kind man, he loved you so. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Ann and Jay

Frank Julian

April 7, 2018

Sharon,
Our families prayers and thoughts are with you and we send our condolences to all your family.
Peace

Kent Bateman

April 6, 2018

i am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Lyle at K-Mart Distribution for many years. He always made my day much brighter when he was around. I also enjoyed his quick wit, and humor. He will be missed.

Dietrich Buczko

April 4, 2018

To Lyle's family, I am so sorry for your loss. Lyle was a good friend dating back to the 1960's, and I will miss his humor and friendship. Rest in peace, old friend.

Julie Laird

April 4, 2018

Sharon, I'm so sorry about the loss of your husband. I never had the privilege of meeting Lyle, but I'm sure he was a wonderful man. All blessings to you for peace and comfort in your sorrow.

Rob Simons

April 4, 2018

Sharon, you know how I'll miss Lyle, he was my support on the phone for years. We talked for hours about everything. I know you too will miss him, as your loving husband. I love you.

Amy Hettinger

April 4, 2018

Aunt Sharon, My thoughts and prayers are with you. Uncle Lyle will be dearly missed. Love and hugs

April 3, 2018

Dearest Sharon,
We are so very sorry to hear about Lyle. Please know that you are in our hearts at this time and we'll be in touch soon.
With our Love and deepest sympathy, Katherine, Bet and Mike

Karen

April 3, 2018

To the family and friends of Lyle Hettinger, please accept my sympathy. May you find comfort knowing that those who died, God keeps them in his memory. And at Psalms 116:15 they are precious in his eyes.

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