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Lillian M. Barker

1920 - 2017

Lillian M. Barker obituary, 1920-2017, Roeland Park, MO

BORN

1920

DIED

2017

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Cremation Center of Kansas City - Shawnee Mission

4926 Johnson Drive

Shawnee Mission, Kansas

Lillian Barker Obituary

Lillian M. Barker, 97, passed away peacefully at home April 24, 2017. Born March 27, 1920 to Archibald and Laura Menzies of Fenelon Falls, Ont. Canada, Lil's long life held many professional accomplishments and a legacy of many true friends.

Graduating from high school at 15, she went on to business school in Toronto and worked for Canadian Gen. Electric. During WWII, she met and married Giles Barker (then in the RCAF), moved to Love Field in Dallas, TX, and afterward to Valley Falls, KS. In 1961 they divorced. Lil began work in Topeka for Security Benefit Life, later as an officer for a Topeka Bank, then became the 1st woman officer of KPL (Westar). She was president of the Women's Chamber of Commerce and a lifelong member of PEO. After retirement at 65, for the next 19 years she was the much beloved housemother of Delta Chi Fraternity at KU. She is preceded in death by son, Bill, ex­husband, Giles and granddaughter, Laura. Survivors include sons Rob (of the home) and Brad (Lone Star) and Betty (and Dan) Thoennes, Eudora.

Funeral Services will be 11:00 am, Saturday, May 6 at First Presbyterian Church, 2415 Clinton Pkwy, Lawrence, KS. Tax­ deductible memorials may be sent to Sancta Maria School, 1623 1/2 Elm, Eudora, KS 66025.

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Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Apr. 30, 2017.

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Cara Lee (Robertson) Reaka

May 11, 2017

I have so many wonderful things I could say about Lil,I wouldn't know where to begin or end.She was a wonderful friend,sometimes like a mother.I went to visit her often when she lived on Urish Road in Topeka.She was always there to listen,whether it be serious, or just a fun conversation.I haven't seen Lil for several years,although I had tried to talk to her on the phone.That was almost impossible due to her hearing loss.At least she knew I was thinking of her.Robbie,I never really knew you,but I think you must have been a wonderful son.I would love to see Betty,Brad,and you someday.Bill and I were classmates in high school in Valley Falls.I thought so much him,he was quite the Bill.:)We were always good friends.Here's to a wonderful lady,she will be missed by so many.

Tommy

May 8, 2017

Grandma,
I remember being a child and you let me play the guitar and sing my cowboy songs for you. Those were the last memories I had of your loving face. Even though the world pulled us far apart you managed to help me through one of the most difficult years of my young adult life. I never was able to thank you and tell you how meaningful it truly was.
May the passing to the next world bring calm and peace to all that adorn your memory!

Andy George

May 4, 2017

Mom Barker was an amazing lady and one of the reasons why Delta Chi was the house for me. She taught us manners, encouraged us and was hard on us when we needed some tough love. The men of Delta Chi were better for having her in our lives. She will be missed.

Lon Stanton

May 2, 2017

Lillian was a joy to work with during my years at KP&L in the late 70's and early 80's. I remember especially a wonderful evening at her lake cabin when she invited a small group out there for dinner. What a wonderful lady!

Jan Jackson McKnight

May 1, 2017

So very sorry to read this. Lil was quite a lady, dressed like no other, so classy. I'll always remember Robbie & Betty bringing her to Irene Hurst's 90th birthday party luncheon at my home and getting together with one another. Lil, Margaret Lowry & Irene enjoying one another one last time. You all have my sincere sympathy.

Scott Bloch

May 1, 2017

Betty, I am sorry for her passing but delighted to learn she lived such a long and eventful life. She and you are in our prayers.

Scott

May 1, 2017

My condolences are with Ms. Lillian's family at this difficult time. May you find a measure of comfort in kind words of others as well as precious memories you shared with your loved one. May the God of tender mercies continue with you as well.

Lowell Bahner

May 1, 2017

Robbie, I have fond memories of your mom as being so kind while we were kids. I have thought of her and you many times over the years. - Lowell

Mike Branaman

May 1, 2017

Sorry for your loss.

Lynda (Freeman) Wales

April 30, 2017

Robbie,
So sorry to hear about your Mother. We had been on the lookout to see where you where living as we are doing the WRHS 50th year reunion.
One of the classmate read in the paper that your Mom had passed.
May your memories be a source of comfort to you.
Lynda(Freeman) Wales

Sherry Clayton

April 30, 2017

Sorry to hear this news. She was a great lady. Wishing peace and comfort to Brad and Betty.

April 30, 2017

Sorry for your loss may you draw comfort from Gods word at HOSEA 13:14 L Ohio

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2415 Clinton Pkwy, Lawrence, KS

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4926 Johnson Drive, Shawnee Mission, KS 66205

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