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Cherie Southwell
July 31, 2022
Kenneth and I were chosen to take exams when we were high school seniors. We had to travel out of town to take the exams. He won a full scholarship to KU and I won a partial scholarship. He was a very kind young man.
Bill Summers
August 23, 2015
Of the people I knew as an undergrad at KU, I had no hesitation in thinking of Ken's faults and shortcomings because they vanished in an eye blink simply from the size of his virtues, strengths, and Heart.
August 23, 2015
One of the greatest poets this country has been blessed with in the second half of the XXth and first half of the XXIst Centuries. Virtually unknown - as usual - by 99.9% of the population. We hope the U.of Kansas will do everything in its power to remedy this.
Nathaniel & Janet Rodney Tarn
Brent Wallis
August 12, 2015
I took many classes from Mr. Irby in the 90s. Shakespeare, Pound and Elliot, American Lit II, The Beat Generation and was set to do a directed study of the modernist movement with him, but I left school and I regret that. He honesty changed my perception of most all things and I think about him often. I remember so many amazing and sometimes funny things he said, one being "when you're ready to learn, the teacher will be there." That was the case for me. RIP in Mr. Irby.
August 7, 2015
My sincerest condolences to the Irby Family. May the Hearer of Prayer be of comfort to you at this time. (Psalms 83:18)
Lee Chapman
August 7, 2015
Ken was a big part of my life for a very long time. If he has to be gone, I'm grateful to be able to read his poems in which he and his singular experiences are seamlessly embedded.
Don Carlson
August 6, 2015
Kenneth was a smart and witty guy who carried his briefcase like Groucho back at FSHS. He was a great chess player. I never saw him after High School Days but I had later read and enjoyed some of his poems. He also waded and fished in Buck Run as a kid.
Cherie Southwell (Miller)
August 6, 2015
I was a classmate of Kenneth's in Fort Scott. His father was our doctor. I have thought of Kenneth and wondered where he was. He had a full ride scholarship to KU. I had a residence hall scholarship. This past June I was at a reunion at my scholarship hall. I wish I had know Kenneth was in Lawrence. Perhaps we could have met
and talked. I pray that Kenneth is
enjoying his journey now. Cherie
August 6, 2015
Michael Brodhead
Alan Kimball
August 6, 2015
1957+ A significant "figura", a constant reminder of integrity
Jim McCrary
August 6, 2015
Ken will be hard missed by friends in Lawrence and far wide. Our friendship lasted near 50 years and we shared so many mutual friends as well. He spread his love for and knowledge of Kansas through his writing. A great loss.
Sara Marble Emery
August 6, 2015
My sympathy to the family of Kenneth. He was a respected classmate at Fort Scott High School, class of 1954.
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