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Jeffery Lynn Flottman

1961 - 2014

Jeffery Lynn Flottman obituary, 1961-2014, Leawood, KS

Jeffery Flottman Obituary

Jeffery Lynn Flottman

Jeffery Lynn Flottman, 53, of Leawood, passed away on Monday, November 10, 2014 at Menorah Medical Center in Overland Park, Kansas. Jeff will be remembered as a supportive and kind father, devoted husband, loving son and selfless friend.

Jeff will be dearly missed by his wife, Dr. Lori Engelmann; his daughter, Jenna, and son, Garrett; his parents, Larry and Vernis Flottman; brother, Terry Gilbert (Paul Beppler), and sister, Marci (Rick) Stanwix; sister-in-law, Cheryl Engelmann (Mark Dyslin); three nieces, Erin, Kate and Emma Stanwix; and two nephews, Nick and Jordan Dyslin.

He was born on November 10, 1961 in Independence, Kansas. Jeff grew up in Lawrence and graduated from Lawrence High School (1979) and the University of Kansas (1984), where he was a member of Pi Kappa Alpha Fraternity. Jeff and Lori married on May 29, 1987, and they've lived in Leawood since 1994 while raising their two children.

Jeff loved to golf and always looked forward to his Saturday tee time with his group. He was a talented photographer and world traveler, but will be most remembered for his dedication and service to the many organizations and charitable opportunities that he put his heart into. Some of these groups include Avenue of Life, Hope Faith Ministries, Mission Trail Elementary School, Blue Valley North High School band and swim teams, Troop 10 Boy Scouts, the Country Club of Leawood swim team, and the United Methodist Church of the Resurrection. At Church of the Resurrection, Jeff served as Head Usher (15 years), Lay Leader (2008-2011), was a member on the Staff Parish Relations Committee, traveled with the church on a mission trip to Russia, led several disciple bible study groups, and served as a delegate to the Annual Conference (2007-2014).

The funeral service will be at 3:00 PM, Friday, November 14, 2014 at the United Methodist Church of the Resurrection (13720 Roe Ave., Leawood, KS 66224) in the main sanctuary (Building B) with a reception to follow. Interment of cremated remains will take place at a later date at the Church's Memorial Gardens.

In lieu of flowers, Jeff's family requests that memorial contributions be made to the United Methodist Church of the Resurrection or Avenue of Life (PO Box 34495, Kansas City, MO 64116). For more information contact Johnson County Funeral Chapel & Memorial Gardens at 913-451-1860 or visit www.johnsoncountychapel.com.

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Published by Lawrence Journal-World from Nov. 12 to Nov. 13, 2014.

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Kathy Corbin & Fred Plapp

December 1, 2014

Lori, Jenna, and Garrett please accept our condolences. We are truly sorry to hear about Jeff's passing. As neighbors, we didn't know him well but he was obviously loved by many and gave of himself to others. A wonderful person like Jeff leaves memories you will cherish forever.

Jay Marquette

November 18, 2014

Please accept my deepest condolences for your lost. I recently met Jeff at the Chamber golf tournament and was luckily enough to team up with him. I could tell right away that he had passion for his family and friends, as well as golf:) I am so glad I got to know Jeff and I am saddened that I will not be able to further that friendship. May God bless you and your family during this difficult time.

Stuart Dexter

November 17, 2014

Jeff and I would often work the night shift in valet parking while in school, he at Crown Center and myself at the Hyatt. We knew at the end of the shift we would head out for some breakfast and tell stories of what had happened during our shift. He was a great person and always positive. They are some great memories.

Mary Edmondson

November 17, 2014

You left us too soon dear friend but we will see you again one day. God's blessings and comfort to your family and loved ones.

November 16, 2014

Dear Lori and kids,
I am so sorry for your loss. Jeff was such a nice fun guy and a great friend. Know that he is in a good place and probably with Gino talking sports. Right now. Be strong. Jean Strippoli

Scott & Pam Stephenson

November 16, 2014

Scott & I met Jeff when we signed up to usher. Always a helpful, welcoming and friendly smile. God must have needed him for a special job. Thoughts and prayers.
Pam & Scott Stephenson

November 15, 2014

Jeff was a wonderful man. I first met him years ago ushering at our church. He always was always the same . . smiling and happy.
Our church will miss him.

November 15, 2014

Lori, Ron and I were so saddened to hear about Jeff's sudden passing. We will always remember the fun KU times, especially that trip to Denver where Jenna was on Jeff's shoulders and Garrett was "in the oven". We send our thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Fondly, Dee (Burrows) Clifford and Ron Butcher

November 14, 2014

Just found Jeff on fb haven't talked or seen him since high school he accepted my friend request. I'll find him again later. So sorry he had to go my prayers are with his family.

George Goff

November 14, 2014

The childhood memories. Jeff was my childhood buddy. Way back when we both had hair. Hot wheel races, major Matt mason , hide and seek and all the other things buddy's do . What a Man he has become. I'm so proud of who he became. Not really surprising to me . I was lucky to be a part of his beginnings and the quality of parental guidance. Mr and Mrs flottman did an excellent job . I thank them , Marci and Terry for sharing Jeff with me so many years ago. And to his son and daughter and loving Wife. Jeff was a golden soul. I only wish our world had more fathers and family men like him. I do believe that god does have a plan for him. Oh make no mistake he ain't done yet. God bless you all as you will be in my thoughts and prayers. And as for you Jeff ok you did have the coolest matchbox cars.

Jim & Carolyn Loncarich

November 14, 2014

Vernis and Larry, We are so saddened to hear of your loss. Your son certainly was involved in so many worthwhile charities and sounds as though he will certainly be missed. Your faith in God will surely comfort you now and in the future and you will have many happy memories to recall as well.

Scott & Stephanie Moore

November 14, 2014

Lori, Jenna and Garrett, I am so sorry for your loss. Jeff was such a wonderful man. Scott, Stephanie, Caroline and Annabelle Moore

November 14, 2014

Lori, Jenna and Garrett, It is a tribute to Jeff to read the sincere outpouring of love for your husband, father and family. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with each of you. Jeff was truly a good man and our family talked about how he made it a point to keep up with each of us. Not an easy task with so many schools, jobs, etc. He always made us feel at home at our schools and in your office. Sincerely, the Garver family (Steve, Lisa, Jenny, Stephanie & Georgia)

Michele Hodge

November 13, 2014

Lori, Jenna and Garrett,
Jeff was such a wonderful Man and like Adam said......"Well done, my good and faithful servant" is the perfect way to describe him. He was a great mentor to Liam McGuire during his confirmation and scouts. He will be greatly missed by all, but remembered as a hero to all. Especially those in need. Blessings to you all.

November 13, 2014

Lori, Jenna & Garrett, what a shock to hear of Jeff's death. My thoughts & prayers are with you all as you process this loss knowing that he will be your guardian angel.

Jo Ann Heintz, Leawood, KS

Sue Grosdidier

November 13, 2014

I was so saddened to hear about Jeff's passing. I had Jeff in many of my high school classes. He was truly one of the kindest people I have ever known. We lost contact after graduation but he certainly continued his path of caring so much for others. Larry and Vernis, I am so sorry for your loss!

Chris Collins

November 13, 2014

Jeff always modeled servant leadership and selfless service. His legacy is at the heart of our Church's service to the community, churches around the world and to Our Lord & Savior Christ Jesus.

Chris Romero

November 13, 2014

My condolences to the family. I'm truly sorry to hear about Jeff's passing. I really enjoyed his conversation at the last reunion and his company. He was a fine friend!

Becky May

November 13, 2014

Larry and Vernis - My deepest sympathy to you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Zach Holden

November 13, 2014

Jenna, Garrett and Lori, and the rest of Jeff's family, we're so sorry for your loss. Jeff was a great man and neighbor, and did so much for our community. It's a tragic loss and he'll be forever missed but never forgotten.

Roger Evers

November 13, 2014

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

November 13, 2014

I spent several summers working with Jeff on the Coleman Trucks. He always had a fun loving positive attitude. My heart goes out the the Flottman and Engleman family, he will be missed.

Andrew Coleman Dothan, Alabama

November 13, 2014

Larry and Vernis,
So sorry to hear of your loss. My sincere sympathy to you and your family. Jeff,you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Joe Oberzan

Bob Kiersznowski

November 13, 2014

Lori, Jenna, and Garrett...
I was so saddened to hear of Jeff's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family during this season of mourning. Our community was better because of Jeff. His energy, smile and tireless service to others were an example to those who knew him. While we grieve with you, we know that he is with the God that he served daily. May He comfort each of you in this time of sorrow.

darrel robertson

November 13, 2014

lori and family, i am so sorry for your recent loss. jeffrey was such a strong role model who alway had a smile and a kind word for all. he will be missed! may the good lord take care of you in this time of need.

Howard Wisdom

November 12, 2014

Lori and children - So sorry to hear of Jeff's death. I know that he continued to be one of the "good guys" that found that he was after I met him. I will be thinking and praying for you as you transition to becoming somewhat accustomed to his absence. I lost my wife about 3+ years and I still am reminded of her absence.

Linda Enright

November 12, 2014

There was never a friendlier face to be found in a crowd than Jeff's. He was always a person I gravitated toward because of his genuine smile and joy. Although I'll miss him always, as I know everybody that knew him will, I know he lived his life to the fullest; and walked the walk. God bless him, and his family.

November 12, 2014

I knew your husband and father well he will be greatly missed he was funny and a great friend Verner BuB Newman your in my thoughts and prayers I am so sorry for your loss we will all miss him a great sense of humor and a great person i don't know the right words but he will be missed R.I.P

Patricia Butcher

November 12, 2014

Dear Lori, Jenna & Garrett so sad to hear of the loss of Jeff! What a great husband & father! Thinking of you all and prayers go out to you.

Shirley. Pinnick

November 12, 2014

Lori, Jenna, and Garrett..
I will always remember Jeff as a wonderful role model, father and husband as well as true scout who not only taught the beliefs of scouting but lived them.
I am truly sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all three of you in the next few days, months, and years to come.

November 12, 2014

Lori, our hearts go out to you and the kids. Jeff was taken far too soon. We'll keep you all in our prayers.

Marla & Jeff Burvee

November 12, 2014

Lori and Jenna, Dr. Cal Engleman and family, our deepest sympathies on Jeff's death. My mother was very fond of him and so thankful for his willingness to pick her up for dental appointments. Keith and Becky Crow Clem

wade Lanphear

November 12, 2014

My heart aches for Lori, Jenna and Garrett. Jeff was great father and husband and great friend to many. I will always appreciate his humor and the friendship between us. My thoughts and prayers are with his entire family. May you all be surrounded by love, peace, and grace.

Greg & Cheri Yeutter

November 12, 2014

We were so, so saddened to hear the news of Jeff's passing. We were blessed to meet and serve alongside Jeff on Thanksgiving at FaithHope Ministries several years ago. His heart for service was unparralleled. He will be greatly missed. Our prayer's for God
s comfort go out to his family and friends during this time of loss.

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