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Jan Erland
November 8, 2019
With the upcoming anniversary of Dr. Ralston's death, I want to commemorate his death with my thanks for his fifteen years of choral training that included choral diction, timing, and pacing. Thanks to my perseverance with his arduous church choir training, I am completing a series of high definition memory-cognition building films with the use of choral speaking puppetry. I am the vocal talent, switching my voice between five difference characters and myself (Mr. Rodger's puppet speaking style). My on-going educational work has been a life-long dedication in serving others. Before Dr. R., I performed professionally with 2-3 character voices, but his training greatly influenced and expanded the scope of my work. I was able to personally thank him for this before he passed away, in a letter, and personally. He was astounded that his amazing talent was, and is, preserved in so many permanent directions that will directly affect others. My online professional name is: Jan Kuyper Erland
November 28, 2012
I sang for Doctor Ralston at KU in the late 1970's. Best times musically in my life. He was in fact, larger than life. I got a chance to sing for Robert Shaw and I credit that opportunity to Dr. Ralston. I will miss you, but you live on in the music. Your legacy is out here.
Charlene Eberhart Simmons
November 27, 2012
I grew up with Julie, living in the same neighborhood and attending the same schools. Dr. Ralston gave an enormous amount to the Lawrence music community. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Julie, and your family at this time.
Francis Smysor
November 21, 2012
James was, without doubt, an incredible influence on my life. I am so appreciative of all that he taught me in my time with the Chamber Choir.
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Jan Erland
November 18, 2012
It was a privilege to be in the Trinity Church choir and receive excellent musical instruction from Jim. I have been able to apply his phrasing, rhythm, meter, and diction instruction to my own choral speaking memory & learning curriculum using puppetry in multiple voices. I feel very fortunate to have worked with Jim. He was a great talent and will be missed.

Frank Janzen
November 17, 2012
At Washington High School in Kansas City, Kansas, in about 1960, I took a music theory class from Mr. Ralston and I remember it well. For the class I wrote an arrangement for George Gershwin's "Summertime", from "Porgy and Bess", to be played by French horn, flute, and bassoon. Unfortunately, I never got around to getting people together to actually play it. If only...
John Bowman
November 17, 2012
Susan,
My deepest sympathy for you and your family. I always loved chatting with Jim at your music parties. He was such an interesting and personable guy.
Best Wishes,
JB
Lynn Basow
November 17, 2012
We would like to express our deepest sympathies.
Bob & Lynn Basow
Joanne Knittle-Silver
November 16, 2012
I was a student at Washington HS from 57 to 61 and took music all four years. He was my favorite teachers and will always remember him
Caroll Steacy
November 16, 2012
I have fond memories of Jim coming to give support at each of our “musical productions” at Schwegler. He was always so proud of his wife and of his daughters! My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. Jim had a huge impact on our whole community and he will be sorely missed by many.
Hendle Pendleton Rumbaut
November 14, 2012
My prayers go to the Ralston family. Dr. Ralston was the conductor in my KU Chorus class, and was dynamic and inspiring. I'll never forget when we sang Benjamin Britten's War Requiem. The last note was held incredibly long and faded out slowly to a whisper. It gave me goosebumps. May God give you His peace.
Jeanne Kasten
November 14, 2012
Dr. Ralston was the most dynamic and exciting conductor that I've ever had the pleasure to sing for. My years in the University Chorus were fantastic ones because of his love for great music. We sang the Brahms Requiem and Carmina Burana which are always going to be in my head because of his enthusiasm. I'm so grateful to him and will always remember his energy. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Jacqueline Brazil
November 14, 2012
Jim became a great friend after comming to the Holcom Recreation Center to walk in the mornings --- he will truly be missed
Chris Carter
November 14, 2012
My prayers and sympathies are with Susan and the Ralston family. I have fond memories of singing for Jim at Trinity during my years in Lawrence.
Dick Morris
November 14, 2012
Jim was my mentor/teacher/friend through high school, college & grad school.
John Dreiling
November 14, 2012
I have the greatest memories of singing in University Chorus directed by James Ralston! His selection of music and the energy he brought to the Chorus enriched my education at KU and my years after KU. James Ralston is an unforgettably dynamic instructor!
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