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James McLean Obituary

James E. McLean

James E. McLean, PhD, died on Dec. 10, 2012 at his home in Chapel Hill, North Carolina. His rich life spanned 86 years. He is survived by his wife of 36 years, Lee Kelsey McLean, PhD., associate dean of the University of North Carolina School of Medicine and chair of the Department of Allied Health Sciences.

A child of the Great Depression, Jim grew up in South Bend, Indiana, where he and his younger sister, Janice, shared hardships that created a mutual caretaking bond that they maintained until her death two years ago.

Jim's service in the Army Air Corps during World War II stamped his membership card in what has come to be known as the "greatest generation" and provided the GI Bill benefits that afforded him an opportunity to be the first in his immediate family to go to college. Jim took full advantage, earning an undergraduate degree from Indiana University and graduate degrees from the University of Kansas in the discipline of speech-language pathology. After obtaining his doctorate, Jim embarked on a teaching and research career at KU's pioneering Bureau of Child Research that produced breakthroughs in the way that speech and language therapists provided evidence-based services to developmentally disabled children. Much of this work was done in partnership with his wife, Lee, at a state hospital for the developmentally disabled in Parsons, Kansas.

His teaching and research career might never have materialized if not for a serendipitous encounter. Jim and a friend were hitchhiking shortly after their release from the Army when an admissions officer Park College offered them a ride. By the time they reached their destination, Jim was enrolled at the small Kansas City, Mo. liberal arts college where he met his first wife, Barbara Malan McLean, the mother of his two sons. The couple married in 1950 and transferred to Indiana University to complete their degrees. They divorced in 1971 but remained close until her death in 1989.

Jim was a Fellow of the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association and the recipient of its highest recognition, The Honors of ASHA. Only months before his death from congestive heart failure, he was nominated for ASHA's most prestigious lifetime clinical award. His nomination by his friend of 50 years, David Yoder, chair and professor emeritus, Department of Allied Health Sciences at UNC, and the many letters of support that flooded in from colleagues across the country greatly enriched the final weeks of his life.

Jim was a self-anointed "charming curmudgeon" who enjoyed hosting family gatherings, jazz, beach vacations, lingering conversations at the dinner table and being among the best-dressed men wherever he happened to be living. In a letter he wrote to Lee in 1989 with instructions not to open until his death, Jim provided options for how he would like to be dressed if family members desired a viewing. The letter specified details down to the color and pattern of the tie he preferred, evoking knowing chuckles from family members who traveled to be at his side in his final days. The letter went on to discuss the specific traits that he loved and admired in his two sons, James M. McLean, Topeka, Kansas and Thomas A. McLean, Parsons, Kansas, who continue the family tradition of rooting on Jim's beloved Kansas Jayhawks.

Other Kansas survivors include daughters-in-law Teresa McLean and Deb Miller; grandchildren, Andrew, Katy, Ian, Neil and Ben McLean; and great grandson, Kendal McLean. Jim also leaves his beloved niece Peggy Maracinni and her children Stephanie and Michael, and his aunt Leah Scheid and her husband, Tom, all in California; and his brother-in-law Ward Kelsey and his wife Mary Ruth of Pittsburgh.

A celebration of Jim's life for family and friends is being planned for next month. Charitable contributions may be made in Jim's name to Southern Poverty Law Center, UNC Hospice or Planned Parenthood of Central North Carolina.

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Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Dec. 12, 2012.

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Jeanene Johnson

December 14, 2012

My dear friend Lee,
My heart is with you through this new journey. Jimmer was the most evolved, intellectual and lovely man I knew. A true Renaissance man. What great fun we had together in Parsons. Jim was "fashion at its best" our own G.Q. guy. Jim will leave a hole in our hearts. My love to Jimmy as well.
I will keep in touch. Take care of yourself. My love, Jeanene

December 13, 2012

Lee, we're so sorry for your loss. Jim was a great guy and I always enjoyed talking with him. He helped the LSI/BCR out of a huge financial problem in the 80s that I will always remember. He was a good man.
Ed & Mary Ann Zamarripa

Ellen and Dave Bridgewater

December 12, 2012

Jim, I know you and the kids have some wonderful memories of your dad which will always be with you. prayers are with you,Ian,Katy and Lee.

Jim McLean

December 12, 2012

On behalf of the family, thanks to each of you for taking the time to post such supportive comments. They really help at a time like this, so each is greatly appreciated.

Jim McLean

December 12, 2012

On behalf of the family, thanks to each of you for taking the time to post such kind and uplifting messages. They really do make a difference at a time like this.

Susan Maxon

December 12, 2012

Beautifully written. In sympathy,

Fred and Sandra Zentner

December 12, 2012

Lee, the family is in our thoughts and prayers. May God give comfort to you, Jim and Deb and Tom

Gary Harrison

December 12, 2012

Jim: You and Deb, along with Tom and Lee are in our thoughts and prayers. Gary and Cheryl Harrison

Cheryl Harrison

December 12, 2012

Jim, Please accept my deepest sympathy. No matter how old you are, or how prepared we think we are, this is always very difficult. Please know you are loved, and are in our thoughts and prayers.
The obituary is such a wonderful tribute to your dad. From the stories you have told, and the details in the obituary, he was a very special person.
Take care. Cheryl

December 12, 2012

Jim, Please accept my deepest sympathy. No matter how old you are, or how prepared we think we are, this is a very difficult event.
Please know that you are loved, and are in our thoughts and prayers.
The obituary is such a great tribute to your father. From the stories you have told about him, and the details in the obituary, he was someone very special.
We will be thinking of you. Cheryl

Carol Crupper

December 12, 2012

So sorry for your loss, Jim. It sounds like your dad had a wonderful life and I know how much you loved him. He certainly leaves behind quite a legacy.

Lew Ferguson

December 12, 2012

I did not know Mr. McLean personally but heard a lot about him from his son, Jim, who I know well from my years in Topeka. I know he produced one terrific son, who inherited his wonderful characteristics. It is sad when anyone of his stature passes, but we can take solice in the fact he lived a most fulfilling life and left his mark. Best wishes, Jim and Deb, two of my favorite people.

Paul Diedrich

December 12, 2012

Lee,
We were so very sorry to hear of Jim's passing. We are making a copy of the obiturary to give to Mom and Dad (they are both at Bishop Spencer Place - a tiered retirement community, and they are in the long-term residence wing - mom had a stroke 8 months ago but is about 75-90% recovered and dad has "parkinson-type symptoms". They are both fall risks, with not much hope of ever returning home....did not mean to drag on like this.... Anyway, Jim will always be more than fondly remembered, as are you... Thoughts and Prayers being sent your way - Paul and Marilyn

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