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Helen Marguerite Neese obituary, Tonganoxie, KS

Helen Neese Obituary

Helen Marguerite Neese

Helen Marguerite (Baumgardner) Neese, 95, peacefully left this earthly life to fully embrace an eternal life with her Lord and Savior on Friday, October 18, 2013, three weeks shy of her 96th birthday. This was the day for which she had lived.

Helen was born in VanBuren, Ohio, on November 10, 1917, to Ethel (Huffine) Baumgardner and Harry James Baumgardner. She graduated from Hominy (OK) High School at age 16 with honors. While attending Drury Business School, Tulsa, she earned the title of Oklahoma State Typing Champion, typing 91 words per minute on a manual typewriter.

It was in Tulsa that she met the love of her life, Ben Neese, whom she would later marry and share over 68 years of marriage. Following Ben's multiple business transfers, they settled in St. Joseph, MO, with their two children, Bob and Jan. While in St. Joseph, Helen served as Welcome Wagon Hostess, first female editor of the St. Joseph Livestock Journal, and program director for radio station KRES, in addition to being Girl Scout and Cub Scout leader. She was a devoted Sunday School teacher and active church member. They retired to Pharr, TX, for several years where they spent some of their happiest and busiest times. In 1994 they moved to Lawrence, KS, where they lived until Ben's passing on August 15, 2007. Helen spent the last three and one half years at Vintage Park of Tonganoxie.

She was preceded in death by her husband, Ben, her parents, and eight siblings. She is survived by son Bob Neese and wife, Corinne Webb, of Miami, FL, daughter, Jan Schaefer and husband, Larry, Tonganoxie, KS, sister-in-law Ruth Beaver, Dallas, TX, four grandchildren, two great-grandchildren, and one great-great grandchild.

A celebration of Helen's life will be held on Saturday, October 26, at 10:00 a.m., at Cornerstone Family Worship Church, 6th and Church St., Tonganoxie, KS. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests memorials to the building fund of Cornerstone Family Worship in care of Jane Turner, treasurer, Cornerstone Family Worship, 128 E. 6th St., Tonganoxie, KS 66086.

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Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Oct. 23, 2013.

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October 26, 2013

My deepest sympathies..

Billie Pumphrey

October 24, 2013

Jan and Bob,
My sincere sympathy to you and your families. I have fond memories of your mother from many years ago .

R.W. & Betty Scribner

October 24, 2013

Jan, So sorry to learn of the loss of your mother. She was a lovely lady and always so beautiful, hair perfect, poised, and proper. Very classy lady. It has been our pleasure to have known her and your family. We pray peace on you at this time.

October 23, 2013

Helen was a beautiful person inside and out. Always graceful and fun. Once a month we go to Vintage Park to help celebrate birthdays there, she would ALWAYS thank us for the entertainment. I will surely miss her. Vickie Head, First State Bank

Ruth/Beverly/Ken/Kathy/Sarah

October 23, 2013

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

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