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Harriet Larkin Obituary

Harriet Mattingly Larkin

Harriet was born March 22, 1926, in Odessa, Missouri, daughter of Harry Mattingly and Virginia Belles Mattingly. She passed away peacefully February 25, 2015, in Winter Garden, Florida, at the age of 88.

She went to school 11 years in Odessa, 2 years at Christian College in Columbia, Missouri, and 2 years at Missouri University, graduating with a B.S. in Business Administration. There she became a member of Gamma Phi Beta Sorority. Coming of age during World War II resulted in starting at Christian College without graduating from high school, as the teachers who would have taught her senior year classes had all volunteered for military service and service in the WACs and WAVEs.

She worked at the Mattingly Bros. Store, founded by her father and uncles in Odessa and at the Bank of Odessa.

She married Russell J. Larkin on February 7, 1954. They honeymooned in New Orleans and Havana, Cuba. Russ pre-deceased her in November 2013. She leaves three children: Carolyn and husband Jim Chancellor of Clermont, Florida, Lisa and husband Greg Keel of Raleigh, North Carolina, and Lance Larkin of Denver, Colorado. She leaves five grandchildren and four great-grandchildren. Two sisters preceded her in death, and she leaves one sister, Mary Ann Taylor, and her husband Jack Taylor, of Columbia, Missouri. Three nieces and two nephews remain.

Harriet and Russ moved to Lawrence in 1966, where she was a member of First Christian Church, Chapter GQ of the PEO Sisterhood, Tennola study club, several bridge clubs and Alvamar Country Club. At Alvamar she served on the Executive Committee and held several offices in the Women's Golf group. She also served a number of years on the Corporation Board of Gamma Phi Beta Sigma Chapter. She enjoyed watching KU basketball with a bowl of popcorn, playing golf, bridge, and traveling.

Memorials suggested to First Christian Church, Lawrence.

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Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Mar. 1, 2015.

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Kaye Drahozal

February 24, 2020

Remembering Harriet today, looking out at our mutual backyards and remembering her warm smile. I think of her every time I see peonies! So glad to have known Harriet and to have been her friend.

March 17, 2015

Dear Carolyn, Lisa, and Lance,
I'm so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. We shared a backyard with your parents for almost twenty years in Lawrence; they were lovely neighbors and, even more, I considered your mother a dear friend. She took such delight in our children, whether they were delivering May baskets, singing Christmas carols, or just playing in the backyard. Your mom and I also enjoyed the occasional road trip into Kansas City! She was so generous, with her peonies, with her good humor, with her smiles. Harriet will always hold a very special place in my heart.
Sincerely,
Kaye and Chris Drahozal

Lynn Berkebile

March 4, 2015

My deepest sympathy! Sending hugs, love, and prayers to you, Lance.

March 3, 2015

Lance and family- I am so sorry for your loss. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you. Rob Foster

Linda (Carr) Pickerel

March 2, 2015

What a gracious and wonderful lady. Hugs to Lance, Lisa and all family and friends at this time. Fond memories of times with the Larkins in Lawrence and First Christian Church.

March 1, 2015

It was a well written obituary for a deserving sister.

Ann Taylor

Judy heller

March 1, 2015

Harriet was a wonderful friend and bridge partner. My thoughts and prayers are with her family, whom she often bragged about and loved greatly. She will be missed!

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