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Darrell Falen Obituary

Darrell Keith Falen

The world said goodbye to a most gentle, kind and patient soul last week.

Darrell Keith Falen, 82, of Lawrence, passed away peacefully at his home on October 6, 2015, after a struggle with cancer.

Darrell was born September 5, 1933, in Stafford, Kansas, the son of Raymond Falen and Mary Fern (Salmon) Falen. He attended school in Stafford, and after receiving a music scholarship he graduated from Southwestern College in Winfield, Kansas in 1955. While at Southwestern he lettered in both football and basketball. Upon graduation Darrell joined the United States Navy, attending Officer Candidate School, and became a Naval Aviator. He served in active duty for four years, and in the Navy Reserve for six years. He married Carol Ann Detter of Winfield, Kansas on June 23, 1956.

Following active Navy service, Darrell taught math at Central Junior High School in Lawrence in 1959. In 1960 he continued teaching at West Junior High School and was the head basketball coach and a football assistant for four years. In 1964 he moved to Lawrence High School, where he was an assistant in both sports. He was the Lions' head basketball coach from 1968-1973. In 1974 he was named Lawrence's director of athletics business affairs under AD Al Woolard, and in '77 became Athletic Director. Under Darrell's directorship, the Lions started a full-scale girls ' athletics program, as well as boys' sports of soccer and baseball. During that time LHS won 52 state championships. In addition to teaching and his contributions to Lawrence High athletics, Darrell spent years in administration and was a division principal at the time of his retirement.

Darrell's retirement years were full of travel with Carol, time spent with family and friends, playing golf, and watching lots of sports on TV.

Darrell is survived by his wife Carol, his son Steven Craig Falen of Missoula, Montana and his daughter Diana Lynn Vincent of Leesburg, Virginia. Steve's family includes wife Susan Ash and son Zachary. Diana's family includes husband Jeff Vincent, and sons Cooper and Tanner of Leesburg, Virginia. He is preceded in death by his parents and sister Doris Falen.

A celebration of Darrell's life will be held at 11 a.m. Monday, October 12, at Plymouth Congregational Church in Lawrence with the Reverend Dr. Peter A. Luckey officiating. A reception will follow in the Mayflower Room, at the church.

A private family inurnment service will follow at 1:30 p.m. at Memorial Park Cemetery. Donations in Darrell's name may be made to the Darrell Falen Memorial Athletics Fund at Lawrence High School, Plymouth Congregational Church, and Douglas County Visiting Nurses Association. Online condolences may be sent at rumsey-yost.com.

Please sign this guestbook at Obituaries.LJWorld.com.

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Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Oct. 10, 2015.

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Jeanette Buchner

November 4, 2015

Diana, my heart broke when I hear the news. he was so young. How are you doing? Just remember, you will see him in heaven.

Charlene Eberhart Simmons

October 23, 2015

So sorry to hear this. Still has that great smile. He was a great teacher and my favorite math teacher at LHS.

David Stedham

October 12, 2015

The picture captures him perfectly. Mr. Falen was a kind man, having known him as a neighborhood father and teacher at LHS. I know he will be missed and my heart goes out to Steve, Diana and of course Carol.

Kristy and Kevin Kobylinski

October 12, 2015

We are with you today, in spirit, as you mourn the loss and celebrate the life of a wonderful husband, father and friend. Our love and prayers are with you all today.

JEANETTE & CHRIS BUCHNER

October 12, 2015

We are praying for your family during this difficult time. So sorry to hear the news and God Bless you.

Sarah Waugh-Wamsley

October 12, 2015

My heart is so heavy to hear of Mr. Falen's passing. I can't tell you all the warm and cherished memories I have involving your family. After moving to Lawrence my 8th grade year and becoming friends with Diana, I spent many fun times at your home. I was always welcomed. I so appreciated Mr. Falen's gentle and sincere nature. He took a genuine interest in kids and I remember all the LHS volleyball, basketball and softball games he attended while I was playing and the support he gave to the girls athletic programs. It enriched my life and I am so grateful. He was a wonderful person and will be missed.

Rob, Maureen, Teri (Bobby), Ryan and Emma O'Sullivan

October 12, 2015

Sending our love and sympathy to Mr Falen's wife Carol and family, especially our dear friends, Diana, Jeff, Cooper and Tanner, at this sad time.

Larry Dillon

October 12, 2015

Coach Falen was my football and basketball coach at LHS. I made every mistake possible yet he remained calm,positive and encouraging. Years later, our love for flying and golf brought us together as friends. We will all miss you.

Christine, Adam and the kids Dean

October 12, 2015

In Virginia, through his beautiful daughter, Diana, is a part of him that will never die. We see so much of his love for life, through his daughter. His smile always warms our hearts with love. Our prayers and thoughts are with the Falen family.

Holly Don Matt and Chris Chapman

October 11, 2015

We knew Mr. Falen as we are good friends with his daughter, Diana Vincent, and thought he was always a kind man who always had a smile on his face. Our love to the Vincent family on their loss.

Rhonda Kampschroeder

October 10, 2015

That smile says it all. I had him while at west then at L H S. What a great person he will be sadly missed by all. Prayers to his family.

Marty Masters

October 10, 2015

I had the good fortune to be coached by Mr. Falen. He coached confidence, and loyalty. He has been altogether an enduring fond memory, and role example. My sincere condolences to his family. He will be missed by all who knew him.

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