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Daniel Coffey Obituary

Like Father, Like Son
On Sept. 11, Daniel M. Coffey and his son Jason M. Coffey planned to meet for lunch at the World Trade Center, where they both worked for subsidiaries of Marsh & McLennan. Daniel Coffey, 54, needed to have his wedding ring enlarged after 30 years of marriage. Jason Coffey, 25, was going along to pick out a surprise engagement ring for his fiancee, Colleen McDonald.

Daniel Coffey, a senior vice president at Guy Carpenter & Company, worked on the 94th floor of One World Trade. Jason, a senior accountant at Marsh Inc., was on the 98th floor.

Daniel Coffey was the son and grandson of an only child and part of a family that has lived for generations in Newburgh, N.Y.

He and his wife, Francis, broke the mold with three sons, Daniel, Jason and Kevin. Daniel Coffey met his wife when she was trying to fix him up with her friend.

One of his gifts was gab. "Dad could talk to virtually anyone and get anything he wanted out of them," said his son Daniel. With his wife, the elder Coffey was fixing up the house in Newburgh. "My mother is very particular about what she wants done, and my father was particular in how he did it," young Daniel said.

Jason Coffey was a big guy who loved to play rugby. (His mother did not want him to play football. Too dangerous.) He was also always ready to go out, including to a local bar, Pineapple Larry's.

But now he was settling down. He was in the process of buying his grandparent's house in Newburgh and he and Ms. McDonald were going to fix it up, just like his father and mother did to their house. Jason Coffey and Ms. McDonald had planned to get married Dec. 7, 2002.

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Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Sep. 27, 2001.

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Del Newberry

October 7, 2021

We will never forget. Much love to the families.

Lance Wiegel

October 6, 2021

My name is Lance Wiegel. I was in college when 9/11 took place. I'm afraid I did not know either Daniel or Jason, but tonight was watching the 20th anniversary of 9/11 on NBC I had recorded. I heard their names and something just told me to open up the computer and look for them. I wish I could have gotten to know both of these men because they sound like wonderful people. I truly am sorry for all that you have lost. All the best, Lance

Cindy Roe

September 4, 2021

Remembering Daniel on the 20th anniversary of 9/11....

Del Newberry

January 16, 2021

Pausing today to honor Daniel and Jason Coffey and remembering their friends and families as we will never forget this day. Much love from Texas

Alex

December 28, 2019

In beloved memory of this 9/11 victim.

Fran Coffey

September 11, 2014

R.I.P. Dan

Shannon Coffey

September 10, 2013

There is an old Russian saying that you live as long as you are remembered. I do not know if our families are related, but I think of two distant Coffey cousins that were lost on 9/11 every year and honor their memories as I would close family. May God keep you and yours in the palm of His Hand.

maye vasuez

September 26, 2012

Mr. Coffey i never met you but seeing your face i can see what a nice man you were and all the nice comments about you says everything i never been in New York and would like to visit someday to meet nice people like you, sorry about your son too he would it be my age now.. GOD bless your soul and R.I.P.

DeLana Millington

September 10, 2011

Dear Coffey Family,
I wanted to let you know that I have signed up to have my Facebook page dedicated to the remembrance of Daniel, tomorrow. I want you to know that I am praying for your family. I lost my daughter at age 14, 3 1/2 years ago. However, her death was not due to terrorism. I can't imagine how difficult this has been for you! Daniel sounded like a great man! I am praying for God's Love, Grace and Peace to surround you!

jennifer hess

September 9, 2011

Dear Mr. Coffey,
I have never met you before, nor have I heard of you before today. My husband is running in the 9/11 Remembrance run here in Las Vegas, NV. Every person running got a number and a name of a person they are running for. My husband had the honor of getting your name. I decided to google your name and see you for myself. Reading your story saddens me, but reading all of these posts make me smile. You obviously have touched alot of lives and brought smiles to many. My best wishes go out to your friends and family on this day of rememberance.

Family Friend

September 8, 2011

It's been almost 10 years since you were taken from your family and friends. The pain is still fresh. Thank you for watching over us in this time of need.

Bill Pieper

September 13, 2009

I miss Mr. Coffey so very much.

Doug Abraham

February 2, 2009

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Bill Pieper

September 11, 2007

Mr. Coffey,

Thank you for teaching me so much about life! I had only known you for a short few days in late August-early September 2001, but I have never met a man who truly lived life as you did! And I have never met a man who was so kind, generous, and caring as you were!

Every year I talk about you to everyone I know and meet. Even after all these years, I think about you a lot and how much you have touched me and, more importantly, taught me! I will always keep your spirit with me and share your spirit with others. You are a truly great man!

For as long as I am around, I promise, I will make sure that the world knows who Daniel Coffey is, and what a truly great man you are! I'll never forget you and I'll make sure the world remembers you!

I miss you and so do all the people you touched.

With gratitude and respect,

Bill

Cathleen Makley

September 10, 2007

Dear Mrs. Coffey,
Two years ago I attended a Sept. 11 Memorial Mass at our church. At the back of the church was a basket of prayer cards with the names of those lost on Sept. 11. By chance, I picked the card with your husband's name. I lit a candle, said a prayer and tucked the card into my wallet. In the past two years I have often wondered about Daniel Michael Coffey (such a fine Irish name!). I come across the card while looking for other things in my wallet, or cleaning out old receipts and papers. Something always makes me hold onto to this card and each time I see it I say a prayer for your husband and his family. This year I decided to see if I could learn anything more about him and found this website. I am so terribly sorry to learn of the loss of your son along with his father. I will add his name to the prayer card and continue to pray for you and all your family.
God Bless You.

Christianne Quinn

April 22, 2007

Dear Dan:

There is not a day that I do not think about Nancy, You and Jason (although I did not know him). You have your earth angel in Lynda who will be here for you.

"May angels lead you in
Hear you me my friends
On sleepless roads, the sleepless go May angels lead you in"

You were great colleagues and always there when we needed you to be so even though we were in Philly. You are prayed for and thought of by me every day and will never be forgotten. Especially the Coffey Connection with my own family.

Sincerely,
Chris Quinn

Kristine

October 27, 2006

As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

P Tabbernor

September 11, 2006

In memory....

Rosemary Schwille

August 1, 2004

Dear Mrs. Coffey:

I just found this web-site and wanted to convey my condolences to you and your family. I worked with Dan at American Overseas. I was Bob Breeding's secretary. I always respected Dan and thought he was a great family man. When everyone else would go out for drinks after work, Dan would always say, I have to get home to my Fran. You're in my prayers. Rosemary

Linda (Merrick) Kirkpatrick

September 11, 2003

Dan was a classmate at Valley Central High School in Montgomery ... and was sadly missed at our recent reunion ... but fondly remembered by many. My thoughts are with his family today, 9/11/03, as we reflect on the day we can never forget.

Nancy Bettcher Dooley

September 11, 2003

On August 30, 2003, Valley Central High School's "First Decade" of graduates (1959-1969) gathered for a Reunion at Orange County Park (NY). Sadly missed at that gathering was our dearly loved and admired fellow Class of '65 classmate, "Danny" Coffey. In his honor, we bowed our heads ... in his memory, we celebrated his life with fond reflections and with grateful appreciation for how he touched our lives. Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers go to Dan's family on this anniversary of their devastating double loss. May your loving memories of Dan and Jason be your comfort today and always.

Nancy Bettcher Dooley

Valley Central High School '64

Liz Sparacio

September 11, 2003

To the Coffey family;

You are in our thoughts and prayers today.

With our love,

Liz, Bob, and Betty

John Coffey

October 8, 2002

Our family is very saddened by the double loss of your Father and Husband, and Son, Brother and Groom. We have a son, Daniel Michael Coffey. He is 13 and is a champion wrestler and Irish Step Dancer. Again, our deepest condolences on your loss. All America shares in your grief.

Tom Botuchis

September 11, 2002

To the family of Dan Coffey:



I just wanted to tell you how much I enjoyed your husband/father. I work for Great American Insurance Company and had the pleasure to speak with Dan on many occassions. Dan was a very intelligent and dedicated insurance professional who would work tirelessly on your behalf. He was very friendly and pleasant to talk to. I am very sorry for your loss. I had been informed that everyone from Guy Carpenter was okay and was very relieved the first few weeks after 9/11. When I found out otherwise, I was very saddened. The impact of the attack really hit home when I realized that I would no longer be able to speak with this kind, gentle and humorous man. He will always be fondly remembered and sorely missed.

Timothy Coffey

September 11, 2002

May God Bless you and hold you.



It was not until the morning of 9/11/02 while reading the names of all those who left us that there were Coffeys, father and son. When listening to the broadcast on the radio of all those who died, by chance I heard Daniel and Jason's names called and Peter Jennings thoughtful commentary on them. My son is named Matthew, Jason's middle name. I told him to be proud of his heritage from Ireland. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Susan Johnson

September 8, 2002

Mrs. Coffey,

This morning when I entered the worship service at All Saints Episcopal Church here in Pasadena, each attendee was given a wrist bracelet with the name of a 9/11/02 victim on it. We are to wear them through this Wednesday. I decided I would try to make contact with the family of the name I received and did not realize that process would be so easy. I also did not realize I would discover that you and your family experienced a double loss on that day.



My prayers go out to you. I hope that you have been able to rejoice in the good memories of your life with Daniel and Jason and have found the strength through the love of family and friends to continue your own personal journey.

Susan Johnson

Erica Taylor

March 12, 2002

I never had the opportunity to meet Mr. Coffey, but from the few times I got him on the phone when calling for his son Kevin I knew what a generous, humorous, kind man he was. And those qualities always seemed to be shared by the rest of his family. There is definitely a Coffey charisma. I have faith in the endurance of that spirit. I pray for the resilience and comfort of the Coffey family.

John Incardona

March 11, 2002

Hello Mrs. Coffey & Family. I no longer work for guy Carpenter. During the time of my employ at GC, I knew Your husabnd (Dan)as I called him, very well. I waorked in the same dept for about 5 1/2 years.

He thought all I know about computers. During our lifes we meet many people; however, some of the people that we meet, do last a life time. For some people 5 1/2 years maybe a short time but it id not the time but the quality of time.

I'm honored to hame met your husband. He was a co-worker, and a frind. He surely shall be missed.

As Billy Joel song goes, the good die young. Dan was just that person. I hope and wish that God gives your family the strenght to go forward, and too bless us and our contry.

Sincerely

John Incardona.

SUSAN SANDLER

March 10, 2002

HELLO MRS. COFFEY,

I KNEW YOUR HUSBAND WELL. HE WAS A VERY HAPPY PERSON. I WORK FOR GUY CARPENTER. HE WOULD COME TO MY DEPARTMENT TO PICK UP HIS EXPENSE ACCOUNT CHECK. I AM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS OF YOUR HUSBAND AND SON.

SUE SANDLER

Margaret Cruz

February 19, 2002

On September 11, 2001 I lost someone who means the world to me, Patricia. "Pat" worked for Guy Carpenter and had recently transferred into Dan's department 6 months prior.



I never met or spoke w/Dan - but I wanted you to know that Pat held him in high regard. She was happy to be in her new department and enjoyed working w/him. She often told me what a nice guy he was and how much she liked him.



It's true...there's never enough time - but we should remember how fortunate we all were to have been blessed with actually knowing and loving such wonderful beings.



God Bless!

Joseph A. Dubaldi, Jr

February 8, 2002

I am sorry for the misspelling on the Coffey name. Sometimes it is hard to write things that really bother you. Thank you all who read these messages.

Joseph A. Dubaldi, Jr

February 8, 2002

I have been friends with Fran and Dan Coffee for well over 20 years. Dan and I go back to the old ice skating days in Newburgh. If it wasn't for Fan and Dan I would have never have met my wife of 31 years. Danny and Jason are truly missed and there is never a day that goes by that I do not think of either one of them.

Sharon Bulloch

February 7, 2002

Dear Mrs. Coffey,

A few weeks ago my oldest son came in wearing a silver band bracelet bearing the name of one who died on Sept. 11th. He told me of an internet site called MercyBand.org. A few days later I visited the site and asked for a bracelet bearing the name of someone in the WTC. B.A.N.D. stands for Bear Another's Name Daily. When my band came, it had your husbands name on it. The band reminds me to pray for Daniel Michael Coffey and his family throughout the day. I didn't know until I visited this site who Mr. Daniel Coffey was and that you also lost a son. My heart aches for you.

On September 11th I cried for the loss of so many lives, as did our entire nation. I know there is nothing anyone can say to take away your pain, but we can help you bear it.

I will continue Bear your husbands name and to pray for Daniel and Jason, for you and your two surviving sons and for Jason's fiancee.

God be with you.

Sandi Lantz

January 16, 2002

I knew Dan from the MetroNorth train. Whenever we spoke he always spoke about his sons. He was a very special person and I am thankful I had the opportunity to have known him. God has special plans for this special person!!

barbara godfrey

January 15, 2002

Dear Mrs. Coffey, I knew your husband for many years. I have worked at Guy Carpenter for almost 22 years. Everyone agreed that Dan was a fine gentleman and always kind and helpful. I cannot begin to

comprehend what you have been going through. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and

prayers now and always. Love, Barbara

Teresa Jahn

January 6, 2002

May the sorrow in your hearts be lightened by the warm memories of moments shared with Daniel and Jason. May you always feel the warmth of their love radiate into your hearts. We are very sorry for your great loss. Our hearts cry with you.

America Cries

We see your sorrow-

and our hearts cry....

We can not erase your pain

but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-

-the American people-

are beside you.

We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,

the strength that gives you courage,

and the words to lighten your spirits.

And when we are left speechless

may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts

to ease your sorrow.

May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-

-the American people-

face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn

Dixon, IL

December 26, 2001

MAY GOD BLESS YOU DANIEL MICHAEL

COFFEY AND MAY YOU REST IN PEACE

WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS

YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS

AMERICA AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET

9/11/01

Naomi Ramos

December 13, 2001

Fran and family,

I am still in shock over all that has happened with the loss of two wonderful people who I had the pleasure of knowing. There are no words that will bring them back or even bring you comfort, only time can bring the peace you all so much need, but please know that as their nurse and their friend, that my heart is missing a large part, but also filled with fond and loving memories of Dan and Jason. Please know that I will continue to be there for you as your nurse and as a friend so long as you need me. God bless you, be strong, the "guys" wouldnt have it any other way.

Remember I am only a phonecall away.



With grattitude for knowing them and my condolences on your loss..

Naomi Ramos (moms Personal nurse)

Barbara Capalbo

December 1, 2001

I hope it helps to know that others are still thinking of and praying for you and your family. My heart goes out to you and your loved ones. What happened on September 11 is just too horrible and sad to be true.

Joe O'Connell

November 30, 2001

I was a year ahead of Dan for my last 2 years (at Marist). I wish I knew him better,or that my memory would clear, but I do distinctly remember him. He was a good guy to know and hang out with....



The whole church is lifting you and your family to the Lord for comfort and strength during this most difficult time. It is His love and grace that sustains us all through our griefs.



In the Master's name,

Joe O'Connell, Marist '68

Mili Nunez-Ponesse

November 1, 2001

My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this heart-breaking time of your lives.



May God give you the strength and comfort to get through this tragedy.

jack cuff

October 25, 2001

I only met Dan once or twice on business but I feel very sorry for his loss. He was a very nice man. I know he got to work very early from upstate New York and really worked hard.

leslie miller

October 18, 2001

Please find comfort in happy memories. The country will never forget you.

Michael Camardi

October 17, 2001

Dear Mrs. Coffey,

May I express my saddness at the loss of Dan to us all. I will never forget that as a freshman at college,Dan was my 'big brother' and helped me get through a lot of tough times with good humor , commen sense and always looking at the 'big picture' he put a lot of confusion into focus for when I really needed it. May God Bless his soul.

Micharl J.Camardi M.D.

Marist-1970

Christine Bell

October 12, 2001

Dear Mrs. Coffey,

I worked with Dan at Guy Carpenter in the late '80s; I was new to the company and I believe that Dan had just changed jobs as well.

He always had a smile for everyone and time to chat. I am so sorry for your loss.

Best wishes,Christine Bell

Megan Barton-Corsetti

October 12, 2001

I am so sorry about Mr. Coffey and Jason. I went to high school with young Danny and just want you to know that my prayers and thoughts are with all of you.

Dione Sackman

October 6, 2001

I am profoundly saddened by your loss. My heart goes out to you.

Connie Savoie

October 6, 2001

TO Mrs. Coffey: I did not have the opportunity to meet your husband but in the past few months I've heard much about little Dan and his family. I do know that your family is wonderful, loving,

hardworking and very much like ours, just a different accent! Our Farrah has become so much a part of your life as she is part of ours. Know that you have a loving GOD who will see you thru this and a loving extended family in Louisiana that will constantly pray for you and ask our SAVIOR to carry your pain. I am the mother of two wonderful healthy boys. I lost a son many years ago. I never got to know him. I thank God that if one had to leave me, it was in the beginning of his little life and not after years. I cannot begin to imagine your pain. Our prayers are with you night and day. Love and God's

Mercy, Connie and Paul Savoie, Blake and Jordon. Lake CHarles, La.

LOVERN WRIGHT

October 3, 2001

DAN WAS A CO-WORKER OF MINE. HE WAS A VERY NICE AND GENEROUS MAN. THE WORLD HAS LOST A STAR. MAY GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY. HE WILL BE SORELY MISSED.

Sarah Devorah

September 28, 2001

No one can feel your pain or help mitigate your great and senseless loss. As a mother and daughter, I can only tell you how sad I am. It appears that you have lost not one person but two - father and son??? The world mourns your loss. When I think of my parents who are now gone, I think of the good times we shared and know that they are still with me in spirit. May God bless you and your family. Sarah Devorah

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