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Carmela Humphrey Obituary

Carmela Levita Humphrey, 62 of Lawrence, Kansas passed away on February 15, 2024, with her loving husband at her side.

Carmela was born in Lawrence, Kansas on May 5, 1961, to Jane and James Barnes. She grew up with six siblings and graduated from Lawrence High School in 1969. On August 13, 1988, Carmela married her husband, Allen Humphrey. They had two children, Bryant and Nicole Humphrey, both of Lawrence.

Carmela worked as a bank teller at Lawrence National Park from 1979 to 1991, and then began working for Douglas County as a Trial Court Clerk until April 1995. Following her time as a Court Clerk, Carmela began working as a Paralegal in the District Court Trustee Office until September 2016. She then transitioned to the Douglas County Sheriff's Office where she worked until her retirement in May 2022. However, because she loved keeping busy, after a few months of retirement, she returned to the Sheriff's Office part-time until January 2024. Additionally, Carmela worked as a part-time tax preparer during the tax season for H&R Block from 2010 to 2023.

Throughout her life, Carmela enjoyed spending time with her family and staying active. During the summer, you could catch her riding her bike to Dog Days or walking around the neighborhood with her husband, Allen, and their dog. Carmela was an exceptional person who embodied the best of qualities: loyalty, hard work, unconditional love, resilience, and integrity. She loved to sing and dance and had the most infectious smile.

Carmela is survived by her husband of 35 years, Allen Humphrey, and their two children, Bryant and Nicole (Ashley Asano) Humphrey, the beloved family dog, Wyatt, and two grand-dogs, Watson and Maya. She is also survived by her brothers and sisters, Marla (Melvin) Ray, Calvin Barnes, Mark (Gladis Begaye) Barnes, Ursula (James) Minor, Barry (Lisa) Barnes, Gayla Barnes, and numerous nieces, nephews, and cousins. She was preceded in death by both her parents, Jane and James Barnes.

Funeral Services will be at 11:00 a.m., Thursday, February 22, 2024, at the 9th Street Missionary Baptist Church, 847 Ohio Street, Lawrence, KS 66044. Interment will take place immediately following funeral services, at Oak Hill Cemetery, 1605 Oak Hill Avenue, Lawrence.

Friends are invited to visit with the family from 6:00 ~ 8:00 p.m., Wednesday, February 21, 2024, at the Warren McElwain Funeral Home, 120 West 13th Lawrence, KS 66044.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made in Carmela's name to the Ninth Street Missionary Baptist Church, 901 Tennessee Street, Lawrence, KS 66044.

For more information or to post a condolence go to warrenmcelwain.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Feb. 18, 2024.

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Verner Newman

February 11, 2026

In loving memory of Carmie

Tony Jones

July 7, 2024

She was the sweetest person. I am sad to learn of her passing.

Verner Newman

February 25, 2024

Carmey was and always will be family RIH prayers sent

Laura Woolfolk

February 23, 2024

I met Carmela a few times at Dog Days and she was someone whom I would have liked to have known better (life is too short to wait to make a new friend).
My condolences to the family for their loss and prayers for them in the journey ahead.

Theresa (Nuckolls) Schwartz

February 22, 2024

I worked with Allen at the KCC, and he always spoke so lovingly of his wife. My deepest sympathy to him and all her family and friends.

Kim L. Murphree

February 22, 2024

What an amazing, wonderful, courageous woman. Carmella...thank you for sharing your light with us. Sending love and prayers to all those who love you.

Oscar A. Winborn

February 22, 2024

Carmela and will miss you and we so much childhood great time when our families get together for summer visited.

Doris Ricks

February 21, 2024

Condolences to the family may God watch over you during your time of grief. Prayers continue to go up during your time of loss.

Betsy Anderson

February 18, 2024

Such a sweet lady who will be greatly missed.

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Ralph and Jeaneen Humphrey

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Michelle Smith

February 17, 2024

God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. My prayers are with you.

Michelle Smith

February 17, 2024

God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. My prayers are with you. Michelle Smith, Ph.D

Michelle Smith

February 17, 2024

I´m in prayer for the family. God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Michelle Smith, Michelle Smith, Ph.D

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Memorial Events
for Carmela Humphrey

Feb

21

Visitation

6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Warren-McElwain Mortuary & Cremation Services - Lawrence Chapel

120 W 13th St, Lawrence, KS 66044

Feb

22

Funeral service

11:00 a.m.

9th Street Missionary Baptist Church

847 Ohio Street, Lawrence, KS

Feb

22

Interment

Oak Hill Cemetery,

1605 Oak Hill Avenue, Lawrence, KS

Funeral services provided by:

Warren-McElwain Mortuary & Cremation Services - Lawrence Chapel

120 W 13th St, Lawrence, KS 66044

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