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Alexander Raker Obituary

Alexander Seth Raker, 18, of Lawrence, KS passed away March 15th, 2012 at his home with his mother, Dee Ann Raker, and wonderful friends at his side. He will be greatly missed by all who loved him. A service celebrating his life will be held Saturday, March 24th at the Lawrence Rotary Arboretum, 5100 West 27th Street, Lawrence, KS beginning at 2 p.m. In lieu of flowers, donations in Alex's honor may be made to The Lawrence Humane Society, The Schiefelbusch Speech-Language-Hearing Clinic, or Encouraging Families with Exceptional Children Together (EFECT.org). Rumsey-Yost Funeral Home & Crematory is in charge of arrangements. Online condolences may be sent to www.rumsey-yost.com.

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Published by Lawrence Journal-World on Mar. 20, 2012.

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Samantha Bellavia

March 29, 2012

im so sorry for your loss. i will always rember Alex he was a great friend. i only wish we had kept better touch with each other i will miss him greatly.

Kelly Knosby

March 23, 2012

To the entire family, our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Now he is your beautiful guardian angel in heaven. BE FREE, ALEX, BE FREE!!!

The Knosby family in Columbia, MO

Tracy Damario

March 22, 2012

Dee Ann, My heart is full of sadness for your loss. Alex was such a blessing to so many. He touched and made an impact on more lives then we will ever know. While I can not imagine your pain please know I am hear for you now and in the future when you need me.

Vicki Perbeck

March 22, 2012

Dear Dee and Alex; You two are the example of unconditional love. Your inspirational lives gives hope to us all on how precious each day is and to cherish every thing around us. Alex radiated with spirituality he inherited from his exceptional mother. You cared deeply for each other & others who came in contact with you. It's easy to see why you both were so dear to so many.

March 21, 2012

I am one of the many para's that had the joy to work with Alex at one point in his life. You touched many hearts of all ages. May you run and jump and smile down at us in your next journey! Keep your style you were the best dressed young man in Lawrence!!!My thoughts go out to his family!!

March 21, 2012

Dee Ann,
So sorry for your loss. Alex was so special.
JoLynn (SLP from Langston)

March 21, 2012

Dee Ann my thoughts and prayers are with you. It was a pleasure to be a part of Alex and your life when he was at WJHS. You were a great mom and took such great care of himM
Cindy Gress,RN
WJHS Nurse

Jason Harmon

March 21, 2012

Be free to run in Heaven God's Little Angel! You were truly a bright spot in many of my mornings. I am saddened by your loss and can only imagine what feelings you may be going through DeeAnn. It was my honor to have been able to get to know Alex and "wrestle with him"

Todd, Jodi, & Matt Arnold

March 21, 2012

DeeAnn, Our prayers are with you. We have such precious memories of Alex. Sending our love!

Heidi Harmon

March 21, 2012

My heart is very heavy. Alex was such a happy child, now dancing and playing with his friends. Dee Ann your in my heart and on my mind hourly. You gave Alex so much and because of YOU he lived such a wonderful life.

Julie Hanna-Getz

March 21, 2012

DeeAnn
God now has a new angle. I am so sorry for your lost. I am keeping you in my prayers.

Kimberley Jones

March 20, 2012

It's never easy to lose a child.God Bless you and your family

Dr. Daniel Smith

March 20, 2012

Dee Ann, I am truly sorry to hear about Alex. He was a sweet young man and it was my pleasure to have you both in the office while I was working in Lawrence. My prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Yong Meador

March 20, 2012

I admire you so very much, Dee Ann, for the mom you were to Alex and being such a good friend to so many. As a fellow mom with a special needs child, I can honestly say Alex was very blessed to have had you to watch over him. Now, he is the sweet angel to watch over you. What a beautiful thing!

Cindy Sherman

March 20, 2012

Dee Ann,
I am so sorry hear about your precious son, Alex. My heart truly goes out to you at this time. May God embrace you with His abiding love & provide you with comfort & strength today & in the days ahead. You & your whole family are in my thoughts & prayers.
In God's Love,

Denise Gossage

March 20, 2012

Dee Ann, you and Alex were truly an inspiration and the ultimate example of steadfast love. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you both.

Terry Platz

March 20, 2012

My heart goes out to you, Dee Ann.
Alex was a dear, sweet boy. I know your life will seem empty without him. You are a true example of what a mother should be. Your unending love and care are an inspiration to all who know you. Although Alex couldn't tell you, he surely loved you with all of his heart. He was blessed to have you as a mother.

Ashleigh Russell

March 20, 2012

I used to spend my summer days with Alex and Dee Ann back when I was growing up down the street. My sister was in the same class as him. I can say without a doubt that he was not only a strong and inspiring individual, but he was a survivor. A beautiful soul and he will greatly be missed. He sure taught us how to cherish life and smile a huge smile even when things might get a little tough.

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