Melinda McKnight
1942 - 2021
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Melinda Ann Wells McKnight passed away on March 30, 2021 at her home in Lawrence, Kansas.

Melinda was born on November 12, 1942 in Kansas City, Missouri, daughter of Ralph Wesley Wells, Jr. and Barbara Glenn Brink Wells. Melinda graduated from Shawnee Mission East High School in 1960 and earned a degree in Zoology at Colorado College in Colorado Springs in 1964. Days after her college graduation, Melinda married Philip Charles McKnight II. Melinda and Phil had met in 1962 as camp counselors at Sanborn Western Camps in Florissant, Colorado. Melinda and Phil lived in Palo Alto, California, while Phil completed his graduate work at Stanford University. Melinda frequently remarked that 1970 was her favorite year, in large part because they lived in Scotland where Phil was a postdoctoral Leverhulme Fellow at Stirling University.

Melinda and Phil moved to Lawrence, Kansas, in 1971 where they have lived ever since. Melinda earned a Masters of Science with honors at the University of Kansas School of Education and enjoyed working for many years as a research associate at the Center for Research on Learning at KU. Before that, Melinda's work included teaching second and fourth grade in Mountain View, California; teaching GED courses at the Lawrence Public Schools Adult Learning Center; and proofreading and editing scientific journals for Allen Press in Lawrence, Kansas.

Throughout her life, Melinda was committed to serving the Lawrence community. She was appreciated for her dedication and leadership to the United Way, Altar Guild at Trinity Episcopal Church, the Zodiac Club, and the Kappa Kappa Gamma alumni board. Melinda was an avid reader, loved to frequent the Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art in Kansas City, and found great joy in traveling, especially to Colorado, Wyoming, North Carolina, and Europe.

Melinda will be remembered for her thoughtful and encouraging nature, wonderful sense of humor, many close friendships, and talent for making every family gathering special and fun.

Melinda is survived by her husband, Phil; her children, Laura Wells McKnight Barker and husband Clay (Leawood, Kansas), Philip Charles McKnight III and wife Jill (Shawnee, Kansas), Caroline McKnight Hexdall and husband Eric (Hillsborough, North Carolina); her grandchildren, Aurora Barker Jurkovich, Cristal Barker Brower, Ann Melinda Barker, Lindy Caroline Barker, Eva Catherine Barker, Zachary William McKnight, Katherine Joan McKnight, Camille Susan Hexdall, and Ethan Philip Hexdall; her brother, Ralph (Rick) Wesley Wells III; and nephews, nieces, and their children and spouses.

A memorial service will be held at Trinity Episcopal Church in Lawrence, Kansas at a future date when larger gatherings are permitted. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests contributions to the hospice initiative at the Douglas County Visiting Nurses Association (

Melinda is missed by all who knew her.

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Published in Lawrence Journal-World on Apr. 4, 2021.
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April 6, 2021
Melinda was my Grandmother and very special. Her death was very sudden and sad. I hope that everyone seeing this has good memories of her too. my best memory of Melinda is when she and I played with old toys of hers.
April 6, 2021
We are so sorry for your loss, Phil. Our deepest condolences.
Lizette Peter & Bill Staples
April 5, 2021
Dear Phil.... We are so sorry to learn of your loss. Melinda was a very special person, kind, gentle and thoughtful to all. She blessed us with her presence. Our sincerest sympathies...
Anne and John Poggio
April 5, 2021
Phil, I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts.
M'Balia Thomas
April 4, 2021
Dear Phil & Family: I was so sorry to learn of Melinda's passing. She was such a sweet person. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family during this difficult time.
Julie Hedges Lowrance
April 4, 2021
Phil, it was always a pleasure to run into Melinda in JRP. She was such a lovely woman, kind and intelligent. I recall how your eyes always brightened when you spoke of Melinda, which is no surprise knowing the kind of person she was. I am sorry for your loss and I hope that you find comfort in happy memories.
Suzanne Rice
April 4, 2021
Eric and I were so very sorry to read of Melinda's death. She had been so around of Laura at our Books and Brunch Event. Eric sends special words of sorrow to Phil, a favorite advisor. We know your hearts are grieving, but she enriched many lives.
Linda & Eric Hyler
April 4, 2021
Phil, I am so, so sorry. Jerry
Jerry Bailey
April 4, 2021
While I didn't know Melinda, I know you very well, Phil. When you have time and need, please get in touch with me. We have much in common at this time in our lives. Otherwise, I am terribly sorry for your loss and know exactly what you are experiencing now. God bless Melinda and you as you live on.
Dennis Domer
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