Steven Cowen Obituary

Steven L Cowen

50 of Lawrence passed 10/12/14 graduate of Santa Fe Trail, Emporia State and Washburn. Social Worker at Bert Nash, Housing Authority and the VA. Arrangements pending. Further info @ www.midwestcremationsociety.com

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Published by Lawrence Journal-World from Oct. 15 to Oct. 17, 2014.
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Dear sweet wonderful Steve, I hope you know that we continue to think of you and love you. You're irreplaceable, forever. I'm grateful, so grateful to have known you. Thank you.

Theresa Bird

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November 24, 2020

Well Steve, it's been six years and nearly each day there is a song, a sound, a visual, that reminds me of our friendship. Six years ago I wrote that you would be irreplaceable in my life and that is still true for me today just as it is for Carrie and Theresa and your family. I missed you so much when you died and over time I have become stronger and wiser because I have the memories of many heart to heart talks, impeccable lighthearted banter, and lessons that we learned together, that sustain our relationship even though it now only exists in my memories. And that makes so much sense to me because you were one hell of a cerebral guy.

Robert Heintzen

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October 12, 2020

It's been almost 4 and a half years since you've gone, Steve. Tonight I find myself missing you. I passed by Vikingtown and the sun was shining. I looked up at your old place, our old space, and thought: he would've loved this sunny day. He would've sent me an email with ideas on local events for the weekend. We would've gone hiking. Maybe to a dive bar, though did you know I don't drink anymore, Steve?

Who knows what you know anymore? Who knows where you are? I wish so desperately that I did because I miss you terribly. So much so that I'm resorting to an online obituary guest book to feel some connection to you. Anyhow, I love you forever and I keep your things close in hopes that they still have some of your essence.

Theresa Bird

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March 22, 2019

Carrie Lindsey

October 18, 2014

Steve was the most intelligent man I have ever known. He used his intellect to help me achieve my social work clinical license that led to the dream job of my career. Beyond that, we became best friends who shared road trips, music, card games, endless stories, and hours of exhausting laughter as we recounted our adventures together and each others follies. Steve's legacy for me is that he caused me to become a better person through his advice, influence, and example. Only recently, I have heard the same thing from others who knew him well. He is not replaceable and I miss him to the core of my being. To his family, you have my sincere sympathy and I hope that soon you have peace of mind with your memories of him.

Robert Heintzen

October 17, 2014

Steve was an amazing person and a wonderful advocate and he will be sorely missed by everyone whose lives he touched.

Brian Runk

October 17, 2014

Very,very sad to have heard this news. Steve and I did a practicum together at the VA. Such a kind,smart man. Peace to his loved ones.

October 16, 2014

Theresa Bird

October 16, 2014

People who make a difference one life at a time are some of my favorite people. Steve was on of those people. Together we helped a lot of people over the years avoid eviction and get off the streets. We even both spent some time with the WRAP program. Just last week I was giving his card to someone I thought he could help. He was a terrific colleague and he will be sorely missed. My condolences to his friends and family.

Andy Brown

October 15, 2014

I am saddened and shocked by the loss of my friend, Steve. My condolences to his daughters and family. I will miss him.

Richard Horton

October 15, 2014

Steve, you taught me so much. Your laughter was contagious, your humor genius. I miss you. I will always love you. You were so beautiful and unique and authentic and intelligent and compassionate. I will always love you.
"to live is to fly, low and high
so shake the dust off of your wings
and the sleep out of your eyes"
-Townes Van Zandt
Remember listening to that on the stoop? Xoxo

Theresa Bird

October 15, 2014

My heart is heavy.
May we all find inner peace.

Jerry Sipe

October 15, 2014

I will miss you so much, my friend and ally. You will be remembered with much laughter.

Carrie Lindsey

October 15, 2014

My deepest sympathies to Steve's daughters, and family and all of the loved ones who were important in his life. Memories will bring you peace and solace as you go through this very difficult time. I am so honored to have known him and had the opportunity to work with him. His smile and jovial, positive attitude are things that I remember about him. RIP dear STEVE you are missed. God Bless.

Susan Haremza

October 15, 2014

My condolences go out to the Cowen family.

Sowell James

October 15, 2014

Steve has sent me a lifeline and he has become a friend. With his words of wisdom and advise he has changed my life for the better in many ways. I will miss Steve.

James Burbage

October 15, 2014

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